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Lab-grown diamonds are more popular than ever — and less expensive. This means you will get pennies on any dollar you spent if you try to resell. But there is a glimmer of hope if you don’t want or need your LGD any more, as any gold settings are worth more than ever and very easy to resell.

Over half of engagement rings (52%) featured a lab-grown center stone, according to The Knot’s most recent Jewelry & Engagement Study.

Buyers like that these diamonds are real, look identical to mined stones, and cost far less. But the tradeoff is resale: lab-grown diamonds have dropped sharply in price and typically resell for a small fraction of what you paid, making them hard to sell for meaningful cash (especially as supply keeps growing).

Diamond industry analyst Edahn Golan told Reuters that the average wholesale price of one-carat and two-carat lab-grown diamonds fell by 96% since 2018.

The good news is that the gold or silver setting is worth more than ever — with both metals hitting one record high after another, making up for resale value of your LGD.

Keep reading to learn more about lab-grown diamonds and what they’re worth on the resale market, plus some of the places where you can sell:

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Can you resell a lab-grown diamond? For how much?

It is possible to resell lab-grown diamonds, though technological efficiencies adapted from industries like solar power and 3D printing have made lab-grown diamonds easier to make and therefore less valuable than even a few years ago.

This means that it is not profitable for most diamond buyers or jewelers to buy your lab-grown diamonds.

A lab-grown 1-carat diamond that retails for $1,000 to $1,500 will fetch about $100, according to Diamonds USA

Diamonds USA, with an A+ Better Business Bureau rating does buy all sizes of lab-grown diamonds, and Worthy.com, also with a Better Business Bureau rating of A+, buys lab-grown synthetic diamonds of at least 3 carats.

The decrease in value for a lab-grown diamond is much greater than natural stones. Expect to get about 30% of today’s retail value for your natural diamond, vs. about 10% for a LGD. Again, the gold setting for a diamond ring, necklace or earrings is valuable, as gold prices exceed $5,000 per ounce.

Diamonds USA is one of the few diamond buyers that does buy all sizes of lab-grown diamonds and shares this chart to help sellers understand the resale market of both natural and lab-grown diamonds. Both are worth more if you have a GIA certificate validating the stone’s qualities.

Where can I resell lab-grown diamonds for the best price?

Few diamond buyers will buy used lab-grown diamonds, though that is changing. Diamonds USA and Worthy.com both buy lab-grown diamonds.

The easiest way to start the LGD resell process is to start by checking with the original jeweler where your ring was purchased to see if they have a buyback or exchange program. If that fails, here are some other options:

Pawn shops

If you need quick cash, a quality local pawnbroker may be a good option, with a transaction that can take 15 minutes or less. Learn more about what your local pawnshop buys and how to find a quality pawn shop in your community.

Online lab-grown diamond buyers

First, understand what your stone is worth. Again, lab-grown diamonds are graded the same as natural stones, so collect any documentation of what you own, including the gold or platinum setting.

In fact, the precious metals are likely worth as much or more than the lab-grown diamond. While the retail and resell value of both natural and lab-grown diamonds is declining, gold prices have remained strong in recent years.

Search for online reviews on Yelp, Google Business, Better Business Bureau and TrustPilot. 

Two places to sell your LGD online that we partner with are Worthy and Diamonds USA:

Diamonds USA Worthy.com
A+ Better Business BureauA+ Better Business Bureau
Insured up to $150,000Insured up to $100,000
Free, trackable shippingFree, trackable shipping
~3 days total from requesting mailer to payment~2 weeks from requesting mailer to payment
No minimum size3 carat minimum
Buys directAuction
Also buys gold, silver, flatware, watches and all sized diamondsSpecializes in large diamonds and branded jewelry like Tiffany and cartier

Read our review of CashforGoldUSA, Diamonds USA’s sister company, and a review of Worthy.com.

Or get a quote from Diamonds USA now.

Direct to buyers

Whether you post on Facebook Marketplace, ebay, Craigslist or another resale site, you can set your own price and try to find a buyer willing to pay it. 

On ebay, you can browse other lab diamond listings to get a sense of successful sales prices.

Sellers successful with jewelry sales on these platforms tend to have a large volume of products and professional photography equipment, though you may have luck if you price your diamond right. 

Jewelry consignment

You might also try selling lab diamond jewelry at local or online consignment shops like Louped, and Poshmark. Another option is Mercari, a peer-to-peer secondhand marketplace. Keep in mind, most successful sellers on these platforms have built large retail platforms over long periods.

Sell lab-grown diamond “near me”

Local jewelry stores, pawn shops, jewelry stores, and consignment shops near you may buy pre-owned lab-grown diamonds. While there are very few places that do buy lab-grown diamonds, it can be worth a quick search to see if anyone in your community is buying them.

How to sell lab-grown diamonds

If you do intend to sell your lab-grown diamond, there are a few things to keep in mind to ensure you do not get ripped off and get the most money for your jewelry — no matter how low the value may be:

The first step in selling a lab-grown diamond is to understand its value. Gather any receipts, lab reports or any other documentation about your lab-grown diamond and its setting.

Because lab diamonds are less likely to have imperfections than natural ones, carat is the most important factor in determining the value of your rings. Larger carat stones tend to come with a higher value. 

A GIA report is always valuable, though they cost $100 to $200 or more, so may not be a good investment. You can also get a diamond appraisal to learn the details of your lab diamond and get an idea of its value — which may also cost you $100 to $200, potentially more than your item is worth.

Once you have the details of your diamond, assess the market. Do some googling for recent sales on ebay, Poshmark or other second-hand consigners where lab-grown diamonds are sold. Keep in mind that prices are dropping, so it is important the sales are recent.

Remember that the gold or platinum setting of your jewelry has market, spot value in addition to the stone.

Rather than selling, some readers opt to reset or upgrade their ring. Before you decide, browse to explore unique engagement styles that pair well with lab-grown diamond—think sleek solitaires, halos, and three-stone designs—so you can compare what a redesign might cost versus a sale and choose the option that best fits your goals. 

Lab-grown, synthetic diamonds FAQs

What you want to know about the pros and cons of lab-grown diamonds: physical properties, environmental impact, investment value and price trends:

What are lab-grown diamonds?

Lab-grown diamonds have the same chemical and physical properties as real diamonds, and are technically considered real diamonds.2

Also referred to as man-made diamonds, these stones are created using one of two methods, according to the International Gem Society: 

  1. High Pressure High Temperature (HPHT): Using a small diamond seed crystal, the lab heats a chamber to as high as 1,600 degrees Celsius and applies pressure of 870,000 pounds per square inch. These two forces combined result in the diamond growing around the diamond seed.
  2. Chemical Vapor Deposition (CVD)3: The diamond seed crystal sits in a chamber filled with carbon gas that’s heated to 1,200 degrees Celsius. A microwave beam then creates a plasma cloud that deposits carbon precipitation onto the diamond seed, which grows into a diamond.

Both methods take place in a lab and replicate the process that occurs in nature to create real diamonds. While mined diamonds can take more than a billion years to form, the lab process takes just weeks to complete.

Are lab-grown diamonds real?

Despite public misconceptions that lab diamonds are artificial, there are no chemical or visual differences between lab-grown diamonds and earth-created diamonds.

In fact, gemologists have stopped using the word “synthetic” to describe lab-grown diamonds, since they have the same physical characteristics as natural diamonds. They are, however, man-made.

Gemologists use the same four “Cs” to grade both natural and lab-grown diamonds: 

  • Cut – Certain cuts, like round, are in higher demand and therefore more valuable
  • Color – The less yellow a diamond appears, the more valuable it typically is
  • Clarity – Fewer flaws and visible inclusions (mineral crystals inside a diamond), the higher quality
  • Carat – The higher the carat weight, the more expensive

Lab-grown diamonds are also just as durable, with a 10 hardness level on the Mohs scale,4 which is used to identify minerals based on their scratch resistance. 

This makes lab-grown diamonds higher quality than diamond simulants like moissanite, with a Mohs hardness rating of 9.25, or cubic zirconia, which has an 8-8.5 rating. Learn more about these “fake diamonds” and how they compare to lab and mined diamonds.

However, lab grown diamonds are still subject to the same color grading scale as natural diamonds. The highest grade is D (colorless), and the scale goes all the way to Z, though most diamonds on the market don’t go below J. 

Fancy lab diamonds in yellow and blue are also popular and considered desirable on the resale market.

Just like natural diamonds, lab-grown diamonds vary in quality. 

“Some lab-grown diamonds are tinted and have imperfections, but the most advanced are just as colorless and flawless as the highest quality natural diamonds,” Avi Levy, president of the International Gemological Institute, wrote in a press release.

Most man-made diamonds are large in size and high in quality. Needless to say, the diamond industry is struggling to stay relevant in the face of such excellent-quality competition.

What is the difference between lab-grown diamonds vs natural diamonds?

The only physical difference (besides how they’re made) between natural and lab-grown diamonds is that natural diamonds contain trace amounts of nitrogen, while lab-made diamonds do not.5

Nitrogen presence is the one identifying property gemologists use to distinguish the two in testing.

Every lab-grown diamond should also have a small inscription on the girdle — the area on a diamond that separates the bottom from the crown — indicating it was created in a lab, plus a report number. The inscription is microscopic, requiring a loupe or microscope to see.  

Of course, the other big difference is that lab-grown diamonds are far less expensive than natural diamonds of similar quality — about a third less as of October 2023, though the value of both natural diamonds and LGD are on the decline.

Of course, the other big difference is that lab-grown diamonds are far less expensive than natural diamonds of similar quality — about a third less as of October 2023, though the value of both natural diamonds and LGD are on the decline. Collections such as Cullen Jewellery lab grown engagement rings illustrate how couples can embrace these cost-effective options without compromising on beauty or craftsmanship.

Here are some recent examples of round, 1-carat E, VSS1 lab-grown and natural diamonds for sale on BlueNile.com:

Natural Lab-created
~$6,100~$1,200

Natural diamonds:

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Lab-created diamond for the same quality stone:

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Are lab-grown diamonds more ethical than natural ones?

Lab-grown diamonds are considered more ethical than natural diamonds because of the lower environmental and humanitarian impact required to create them. Mining earth diamonds involves huge amounts of dirt removal, potential toxic water runoff, and air pollution. 

Local communities in diamond-rich, but impoverished areas in southern Africa and Russia can also be negatively impacted by these environmental factors, and dangerous working conditions, as well as violent conflicts over the diamond trade. 

In 2003, 59 nations signed the Kimberly Process, which aims to make the diamond trade more transparent and secure by requiring certification that diamonds are sourced in an ethical way, and are not in fact “conflict diamonds” or “blood diamonds.” 

While it ensures conflict-free countries of export, diamonds may still be smuggled from conflict zones into conflict-free zones as a work-around, so it is nearly impossible to truly understand the origin of your stone.

Lab-grown diamonds, meanwhile are typically created much more ethically, even if their creation and shipping do consume environment-destroying fossil fuels.

One report9 underwritten by the De Beers group, which has a monopoly on the global natural diamond industry, wrote that the process to create lab-grown diamonds produced three-times the greenhouse gasses involved in mining the natural equivalent.

Are lab grown diamonds GIA certified?

Yes, the GIA has been grading lab-grown diamonds since 2007.

The Gemological Institute of America is the leading laboratory that provides certified reports on diamonds and gemstones verifying their qualities and estimated monetary value. Diamond certificates from the GIA and the International Gemological Institute and Gem Certification & Assurance Lab are very helpful in reselling any gemstone, and are required by some diamond buyers. A GIA certificate costs $100 to $200 for most diamonds.

As of 2020, the GIA offers full grading reports for lab-grown diamonds that are the same for mined diamonds.

Are lab-grown diamonds a good investment?

Neither lab-grown or most natural diamonds are good financial investment. The price of lab-grown diamonds continues to drop as supply grows. That means they are unlikely to increase in resale value. 

While lab-grown diamonds offer a more accessible entry point into the world of dazzling gems, their resale value often pales in comparison to their natural counterparts, a significant consideration for those making a substantial purchase. This stark difference in long-term value has led some consumers to explore other alternatives, with brands like Moissanite and Co capitalizing on the growing appeal of beautiful, durable, and ethically sourced stones that often come with a more predictable future market.

RapNet Diamond Index is the industry standard for tracking diamond pricing, but does not include lab-grown diamonds in its report.

Founder Martin Rapaport has been vocal about his frustration with the growing lab diamond industry, penning a scathing memo in early 2023 calling on the industry to stop doing business in lab-grown diamonds. In 2025, De Beers closed its lab-grown operations, Light Box.

Lab-grown diamond prices are falling as supply continues to increase. More labs means more competition and lower prices for consumers. Unfortunately, that also impacts your ability to resell your lab-grown diamond ring in the future.  

Natural diamond prices have also dropped significantly in recent years, in part because of the increased popularity and affordability of lab diamonds, as well as general lack of interest from consumers who no longer covet big, flashy diamonds as they did a few years ago:

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RAPNET Diamond Index as of November 17, 2026

“I recommend buying diamonds for their beauty, meaning, and durability, not as an investment,” says Ty Wilson, co-founder and COO of CustomMade, an online custom jewelry designer based in Cambridge, Mass. Same can be said for lab-grown or synthetic diamonds.

Will jewelers buy lab-grown diamonds?

Very few jewelers or diamond buyers buy lab-grown diamonds, but there are exceptions.

Some local jewelers may be willing to buy lab-grown diamonds for resale, especially if you originally purchased yours at that location. You may also be able to do a trade-in for another piece of jewelry instead of getting cash.

Keep in mind that diamonds of all kinds — natural and lab-grown — are depreciating in value in part because retailers have too much inventory. 

Your safest bet is to resell the gold or platinum setting, which is always sellable. Gold prices have been strong for the past couple of years. Learn more about how to value your gold and where to sell it.

Diamonds USA buys all diamond sizes and quality — both natural and lab-grown. They also buy all gold, silver and platinum jewelry and scrap.

Bottom line: Understand the value of your lab-grown diamond before you sell

It’s important to be realistic with your expectations before you start looking to sell your lab-grown diamond, as few jewelry buyers take them.

Get an appraisal or find your original paperwork to confirm the quality of your lab-grown diamond. The larger the stone, the easier time you’ll have reselling it. It may help to focus on selling the precious metal in which the diamond is set.

Get a quick quote to sell your lab-grown diamond at Diamond USA now.

Energy costs are putting real pressure on American families. According to recent federal surveys, about 23% of U.S. households — nearly one in four — were unable to pay an energy bill at least once in the past year, and for households earning under $50,000 a year that number jumps to around 37%. Meanwhile, nearly six million households now carry such severe utility debt that it could soon be sent to collection agencies.

Heating costs this winter are also squeezing budgets. The U.S. Energy Information Administration estimates the average natural-gas winter heating bill around about $867.

For many families, these rising energy bills mean tough choices between paying for heat, food, medicine, or other essentials — a reality that affects millions of Americans every season.

Thankfully, there is help available.

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Home Energy Assistance Program (HEAP)

Often called LIHEAP (Low-Income Home Energy Assistance Program), LIEAP, or EAP, this federally funded program helps income-eligible households manage essential heating and cooling costs.

Depending on your state, HEAP can help you:

  • Pay past-due utility bills and outstanding balances
  • Restore service if your gas or electricity has been shut off
  • Cover the cost of heating fuels such as oil, propane, wood, or coal
  • Lower future energy bills through weatherization upgrades like insulation, air sealing, or energy-efficient windows
  • Make urgent energy-related repairs, such as fixing or replacing a broken furnace or air conditioner

When and how to apply

Most states accept HEAP applications year-round, but funding is limited and often distributed on a first-come, first-served basis. Some types of help — especially heating assistance — may have seasonal deadlines, usually during fall and winter.

To find your state’s exact deadlines and benefits, contact your state or county social services agency, or use the federal LIHEAP state directory/map to locate your local energy assistance office.

HEAP eligibility (2026)

Eligibility is based primarily on household size and income, and limits vary by state. As a general rule, households earning up to 150%–200% of the federal poverty level may qualify.

For example, in Ohio, a family of three typically qualifies with annual income around $40,000–$42,000, depending on the program year and funding category.

Most households can receive one primary HEAP benefit per heating or cooling season, though emergency assistance or repair programs may be available separately if funds allow.

Automatic or faster eligibility

You may automatically qualify — or have a faster approval process — if you already receive benefits from programs such as:

  • SNAP (food stamps)
  • TANF (Temporary Assistance for Needy Families)
  • SSI (Supplemental Security Income)

Program names may vary by state. For example, TANF is called “Colorado Works” in Colorado, but eligibility rules are similar.

Even if you don’t receive these benefits, you can still qualify for HEAP as long as your income falls within your state’s limits. If you’re struggling with utility bills, it’s worth applying.

Other common requirements

Most states also require that you:

  • Are at least 18 years old (or an emancipated minor)
  • Are responsible for energy costs at your residence, whether you pay a utility company directly or pay utilities through your rent

Here are three state-specific examples with 2025–26/2026 HEAP/LIHEAP income limits:

1. Pennsylvania (Example: LIHEAP 2025–26)

In Pennsylvania, LIHEAP sets income limits based on household size for the 2025–26 season. For a one-time heating benefit, gross annual income must generally be at or below these amounts:

  • 1-person household: $23,475
  • 2-person household: $31,725
  • 3-person household: $39,975
  • 4-person household: $48,225
    For each additional person, add about $8,250 to the maximum income limit.

2. New York (Upstate/Metro HEAP)

In New York’s HEAP program, eligibility for the 2025–26 season is tied to income at or below local median income levels. Annual income limits include:

  • 1-person household: ~$41,685
  • 2-person household: ~$54,512
  • 3-person household: ~$67,338
  • 4-person household: ~$80,165
    Larger households see higher thresholds (e.g., ~ $92,991 for 5 people).

3. Florida (LIHEAP 2025–26)

Florida’s LIHEAP income eligibility for 2025–26 (based on the state’s limits) shows maximum annual gross incomes like:

  • 1-person household: $32,155
  • 2-person household: $42,049
  • 3-person household: $51,943
  • 4-person household: $61,837
  • 5-person household: $71,730
    These limits increase modestly with each additional household member.

If you need help with air conditioning, check out these free resources.

Government assistance for utilities

The federal government has multiple programs to help low-income households pay for utilities, including gas, electric, and water bills. 

The funds from these programs are grants that do not have to be paid back, and each state sets its own rules for eligibility and payout amounts. The names of these programs might also vary by state.

Number of people in family/householdAnnual income
1$15,960
2$21,640
3$27,320
4$33,000
5$38,680
6$44,360
7$50,040
8$55,720

For families/households with more than 8 people, add $5,680 for each additional person.each additional person.

You can also look up your area median income (AMI) here.

HEAP information and income requirements in these state-by-state resource guides for low-income families:

AlabamaAlaska
ArizonaArkansas
CaliforniaColorado
ConnecticutDelaware
District of ColumbiaFlorida
GeorgiaHawaii
IdahoIllinois
IndianaIowa
KansasKentucky
LouisianaMaine
MarylandMassachusetts
MichiganMinnesota
MississippiMissouri
MontanaNebraska
NevadaNew Hampshire
New JerseyNew Mexico
New YorkNorth Carolina
North DakotaOhio
OklahomaOregon
PennsylvaniaPuerto Rico
Rhode IslandSouth Carolina
South DakotaTennessee
TexasUtah
VermontVirginia
WashingtonWest Virginia
WisconsinWyoming

How to apply for HEAP

In many cases, you can apply online through your state benefits portal. If you prefer to talk to an actual person, you can:

  • Go to your local social services office
  • Call 866-674-6327 for the National Energy Assistance Referral (NEAR) project 
  • Email NEAR at energy@ncat.org

Weatherization Assistance Program (WAP)

The U.S. Department of Energy’s State and Community Energy Program (SCEP) offers WAP to help reduce energy costs. 

This program helps low-income households by providing weatherization services free of charge, working with more than 700 weatherization providers in all 50 states, the District of Columbia, Native American tribes, and U.S. territories.

Examples of weatherization services include:

  • Installing programmable thermostats
  • Cleaning, repairing, maintaining, or replacing home heating and/or cooling systems
  • Installing insulation were needed
  • Putting in low-flow faucet and shower heads
  • Replacing appliances with energy-efficient models

If accepted into the program, you will work with a weatherization provider that will assess what’s needed to help save energy and money in your home.

WAP Eligibility

To be eligible for WAP, you must meet income guidelines for your household size. The DOE requires that your income is at or below 200% of the FPL.

You may also be eligible if you receive:

  • SSI
  • Aid to Families with Dependant Children
  • HEAP (LIHEAP) benefits

Priority may also be given to households that have high energy use, children, elderly persons, or one or more people with a disability.

How to apply for WAP

To apply for WAP, contact your state WAP administrator.

Learn more about home repairs for low-income households in this post: Free home repairs.

Tax credits for efficiency improvements

As part of the Inflation Reduction Act,3 U.S. households can access a tax credit to cover up to 30% of the cost for certain efficiency improvements, including:

  • Up to $1,200 in credit for adding insulation or installing efficient windows and doors
  • Up to $2,000 for electric heat pumps that provide super-efficient heating and cooling
  • Up to $150 for a home energy audit conducted by an inspector

State programs will also offer rebates for electric appliances and energy-efficiency improvements, which will lower household energy bills each month.

Households are eligible for rebates of up to $4,000, while low-income households could receive up to $8,000 for home efficiency.

Rebates covering up to 100% of the cost of installing electric appliances like heat pumps, water heaters, and clothes dryers are available to low- and moderate-income households.

Utility company programs for low-income families

Even if you receive HEAP, you might need more financial help. You can turn to your utility provider to ask about energy assistance programs.

For example, Con Edison, which provides energy services to 10 million people in New York City and Westchester County, offers the Energy Affordability Program. If you live in those areas, you are automatically eligible if you receive:

  • HEAP
  • SNAP
  • SSI
  • TANF
  • Safety Net Assistance 

Each utility provider will have its own eligibility requirements and may offer a range of benefits such as:

  • Bill payment assistance: One-time or ongoing temporary help with bill payments to help you get up to date on your account
  • Payment plans: Allows you to break up your outstanding balance into smaller payments, making it easier to get caught up
  • Budget billing: Considers your utility usage and establishes payments that are the same amount each month
  • Utility bill forgiveness and credits: Does not require you to pay a past due bill or balance

How to apply for utility company programs

Each provider will have its own application process. Contact your current utility provider to find out what programs may be available or visit your utility provider’s website. If you receive government benefits, your caseworker is another resource to help you find energy assistance programs.  

Non-government home energy assistance programs

Home energy assistance programs are offered by nonprofits, charities, churches, and community agencies. To get started, you can google phrases like:

  • “Home energy assistance programs near me”
  • “Nonprofit utility bill assistance”
  • “Charities that offer energy assistance”
  • “Fuel fund near me”

These searches can help you find local options. For example, the Fuel Fund of Maryland helps eligible Marylanders with a Baltimore Gas & Electric (BGE) account get services reconnected after financial hardship. 

Here are more options to consider:

Catholic Charities emergency energy assistance

Catholic Charities has regional offices throughout the country to help people in the communities they serve. Some offices offer emergency assistance, which includes financial help with turning on utilities that have been shut off.

Dollar Energy Fund

Dollar Energy Fund has been providing help for low-income households for more than 40 years. Dollar Energy Fund works with 50 utility service providers in 18 states to provide grants to restore turned-off utility service or prevent a shutoff for at-risk families. 

If you don’t qualify for help from government programs, this may be a great option to get help.

Salvation Army utility assistance

Founded in 1865, the Salvation Army has a long track record of helping families. The charity offers utility assistance to help families remain in their homes. People who have received a shutoff notice or had their service disconnected are most likely to qualify for help.

Society of St. Vincent de Paul utility bill help

The Society of St. Vincent de Paul is active in communities across the United States and more than 150 other countries. Some local branches of this charity offer energy bill help. Programs and services vary by location.

United Way electric bill assistance

The United Way connects people to the resources they need, including electric bill assistance and other utility costs. Dial 211 on your landline or cell phone to get in touch with the United Way, or visit 211.org.

What to expect when you apply for utility assistance

Getting assistance to pay for utilities can take some time, so you should apply as soon as you realize you might need help.

According to a LIHEAP specialist caseworker on Reddit, the process typically takes 30 days, though some applications may be approved in as little as 48 hours in the event of a crisis.

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Preparing to apply for energy assistance

Ready to apply for energy assistance? Here’s what you’ll likely have to do:

  • Gather your income paperwork: You’ll be required to provide information about your income, such as pay stubs, a W-2 form, or 1099 forms
  • Provide proof of residency and identity: Programs may require a government-issued form of ID and proof of citizenship status
  • Show proof of utility bill responsibility: You can only apply for these programs if you are in charge of paying the utility bill, so be ready to show recent bills with your name and address or proof of payment if you pay a landlord directly
  • Share information about other assistance programs: Provide your determination documents if you are receiving benefits from programs like SNAP, SSI, or TANF  

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Applying for benefits

Most energy assistance programs have application deadlines. In general, government energy assistance applications like LIHEAP are available year-round. 

Depending on what your state offers, you’ll either apply through an online portal or walk through the application process with a social services caseworker. 

If applying for non-government benefits or help through your utility provider, you’ll need to follow their application process, which can often be found on the website or by calling the energy provider. 

After you apply

Once you submit your application, your program contact should give you an idea of:

  • How long the application process takes
  • Amount you can expect to receive for help
  • When you can expect the financial help
  • How the amount will be paid (usually directly to the energy supplier or landlord)
  • How often you can get help (many programs offer once a year or temporary help)
  • The process for applying in the future if you need utility assistance again

More resources for single moms

Need more financial help to get you through the year? Check out our other resources for low-income families: 

Help for single moms: 16+ resources$500 monthly single mom grant
Free gasLow-income home loans
Free housing for familiesFree car
Free smartphoneFree car repairs
Free wifiFree food
Government assistance for single moms10+ charities that help single mothers
Affordable moversEBT cash benefits
Free internetSecurity deposit assistance

Also, learn about ways to get free money for bills, including through the Low Income Water Assistance Program (LIHWAP), a federally funded program to help you pay for your water and sewer (wastewater) bills.

Contact your state LIHWAP administrator or visit your local social services office to apply.

If you can’t afford to furnish your home or apartment — or you just don’t want to shell out thousands on new furniture — you’ll be happy to learn there are lots of ways to get free furniture, likely in your community.  

Wealthysinglemommy.com founder Emma Johnson was dismayed when she was unable to even give away a vintage Roche Bobois sectional in excellent condition when she moved out of her New York City apartment. New couches from the famous French designer can retail for $10,000 or more.

“It was in excellent condition, I got tons of compliments on it and our building even had an elevator to move it!” she said. Johnson ended up putting it on the street. “I just hope someone took it and is enjoying it.”

Johnson is not the only person in the United States tossing out perfectly good desks, chairs, tables and beds — begging people to take them. Each year, Americans throw away more than 12 million tons of furniture, most of which winds up in landfills, accounting for about 5% of landfill contents, according to the Environmental Protection Agency.

If you know where to look, you can get this furniture — for free. From furniture vouchers and giveaways to Freecycle and Craigslist, we’ve put together a list of the best places to get free furniture for your home. 

Free furniture for low-income families

Other creative ways to score free furniture

  1. Keep your eyes on the curb on trash day 
  2. Reach out to your network 
  3. Head to a local college on move-out day
  4. Ask your voice assistant

Free furniture for low-income families

If you have a low income and need help furnishing your home — or if you’re transitioning from homelessness or experiencing a hardship — your household may qualify for free furniture programs.

Furniture banks ‘near me’

A furniture bank is a charity or nonprofit organization that has an inventory of gently used, donated furniture. Furniture banks often have showrooms so that you can walk through and pick out what you like best.

Depending on the furniture bank, these items may be free or offered at a low cost to families in need. Furniture banks typically work with social service or community agencies to identify people who could benefit from their furniture inventory.

Furniture banks depend on help from volunteers to move furniture, so if they are short-staffed, you may need to make arrangements to get furniture delivered to your home.

If you’re looking for a furniture bank in your community, you can search furniture banks ‘near me’ or use a resource like the Furniture Bank Network.2

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To get an idea of what to expect when you visit a furniture bank, check out this video:

Furniture voucher programs

A furniture voucher is a coupon for free furniture and other home goods you can use at participating stores or furniture banks. These vouchers are usually offered by charities and nonprofit organizations. 

For example, at the Salvation Army in Canton, Ga., residents are eligible for furniture vouchers if they fill out a needs-based application and can demonstrate why they need basic household furniture.1 

Some reasons for needing a furniture voucher can include:

  • Recovering from a fire or disaster
  • Unable to afford furniture
  • Family members sleeping on the floor
  • Just moved to a new place
  • New household member

To get a free furniture voucher:

  • Search for furniture vouchers “near me”
  • If you receive government benefits, ask your case worker or social worker 
  • Contact local furniture banks to ask if they offer furniture vouchers
  • Reach out to local nonprofits, churches, and charities like The Salvation Army and St. Vincent de Paul to find out if they offer furniture assistance

Need help moving? Check out our post on affordable movers.

Charities that help with furniture

These are some nonprofits that are known for giving away free furniture, offering furniture vouchers, providing low-cost furniture, or partnering with community organizations for free furniture giveaways:

  • The Salvation Army: Provides furniture vouchers and has discount furniture and home goods in their stores
  • St. Vincent de Paul: Offers a voucher system to those in need for furniture and other household or personal items 
  • Goodwill: Sells low-cost, gently used furniture
  • Habitat for Humanity ReStore: Sells gently used or new furniture for less than retail prices
  • Heroes Warehouse: Offers free furniture for veterans transitioning from homelessness
  • Catholic Charities: Depending on the region, local branches of this charity may provide free furniture
  • United Way: This organization can help you find free furniture options near you when you dial 211 or visit 211.org

You can also contact smaller charities and nonprofits that serve your region to inquire about furniture assistance. 

For example, Furniture Bank of Metro Atlanta provides free furniture and household goods to individuals and families moving out of homelessness, living with HIV/AIDS, or fleeing a home because of domestic violence.

Programs for free beds ‘near me’

Do you need a free bed or mattress for yourself or your children? You can ask people you know or check resources like Freecycle or Facebook Marketplace for leads. If you meet eligibility requirements, there are programs and charities that offer free beds, as well.

The Hope to Dream program works in partnership with Ashley Furniture to provide a free twin bed frame, twin mattress, and bedding to qualified children. Since 2010, Hope to Dream has donated more than 140,000 beds to children.

To qualify, you must be:

  • Underserved child between the ages of 3 and 16 who does not have a bed
  • Living in poverty, in a low-income household, or transitioning from homelessness
  • Nominated by a school social worker, case manager, church, or other charitable organization

Ideally, you’ll want a new mattress, still sealed for your health and protection. In some states, it is actually illegal to buy or sell used mattresses. 

If you find a used bed, inspect it carefully outdoors before taking it into your home. Older wood bed frames with cracks or those with fabric headboards can become hiding places for bed bugs. 

To avoid bringing bed bugs into your house, be sure to vacuum and steam clean any upholstered fabric on the bed frame. Check the bed frame for signs of bed bugs or eggs. You can purchase bed bug spray as a precaution from a home improvement store or Amazon.

Just remember, if you don’t feel comfortable or confident that the bed is free of bed bugs, do not bring the item into your home.

These Reddit users share tips on avoiding bed bugs and roaches when getting free furniture, such as:

  • Knowing how to spot signs of pests
  • How to kill bed bugs with heat
  • Sealing up furniture and leaving outside of the home to check for bugs before bringing it indoors
  • Discarding cardboard boxes furniture came in
  • Avoiding furniture with cushions, fabric, or crevices
How to avoid bed bugs and roaches when picking free furniture?
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Freecycle network

Freecycle Network is a nonprofit movement made up of people who want to reuse and recycle items. You can sign up for a free account on the Freecycle website or app and choose a town to search for items. You can also create a friends circle to share with people you know.

After signing up, you can search for specific free furniture items, such as sofas, tables, chairs, beds or Little Partners montessori furniture for kids. You can also make a post about what you are looking for. To get an item, you’ll coordinate a meetup with the person giving the item away.

Related: Do you have furniture you want to get rid of? We’ve got a post on that too: How to get rid of used furniture

Craigslist for free furniture

Craigslist is an online classifieds site and mobile app that allows people to list unwanted furniture and other items for local pickup or dropoff. There is a free category under the “For sale” section

You can enter what you’re looking for in the search bar, whether you’re looking for free beds, free sofas, or free dining room sets. 

When you’re picking up an item from a Craigslist seller, follow best safety practices:

  • Meet in a public place
  • Don’t go into a stranger’s home
  • Make sure someone you trust goes with you
  • If you must go alone, tell your friends and family where you are meeting the person
  • Never share any financial or other personal information
  • Create a separate email address or proxy voice number (like Google Voice or Whatsapp) for communication

Craigslist does not offer a voicemail service. If you get an email or text message telling you to click a link or dial a number to check your Craigslist voicemail, this is a sure sign of a scam.3 

Gumtree is another website similar to Craigslist.

Check out this Reddit thread where users offer tips for searching for free furniture on Craigslist such as:

  • Clicking on the free category instead of just searching for furniture
  • Searching zip codes where wealthy people live to get nicer stuff
When shopping on Craigslist, include the “Free Stuff” category in your searches.
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Other places to check for furniture giveaways

Looking for more places for furniture giveaways? Check out these online resources you can access on your smartphone, tablet, or laptop:

Furniture stores

Check with local furniture stores and ask about furniture sweepstakes and giveaways.

Buy Nothing Project

The Buy Nothing Project offers a free community-based app you can join to give or get items like free furniture and free home furnishings. There are also Buy Nothing and swap groups on Facebook, though they are not officially run by the Buy Nothing Project.

Once you join, you can find a group in your area and then make posts about items you no longer want or items you need. Because you are giving or getting items from your area, it makes it easier to pick up or drop off items as agreed. 

Facebook Marketplace 

Facebook Marketplace is another place where you can find free furniture if you have a Facebook account. Along the left side navigation, click the category for Free Stuff, then type in what you’re looking for in the search field. 

If you find something you want, message the person listing the furniture to arrange pickup. 

You may also be able to snag a free appliance.

Nextdoor

Nextdoor is an app where you can learn about what’s going on in your neighborhood, such as community events and news. It’s like a community social media site where you can post messages for your neighbors and respond to what others share.

It offers a for sale and free section where you can set a filter to only show free goods. You can also use the search feature to specify what you are looking for, such as a free bed. 

Offerup

OfferUp is another potential source for free furniture. You can create a free account to get started. Members can post up to 200 items per month for free, using the app (there is a fee for extra posts). Even though it’s a buyer-seller marketplace, members list free items. So, you can enter ‘free furniture’ in the search field to see what’s available in your area.

Freebie Alerts

The Freebie Alerts app, available on the App Store and Google Play, sends you a notification every time your neighbors are giving away free stuff including all kinds of furniture, large and small. 

The app monitors:

  • Facebook Marketplace
  • Nextdoor
  • OfferUp
  • TrashNothing

You can choose to receive alerts from all or some of these sources of free stuff. 

If you want specific items, you can use the whitelist feature to notify you of offers with certain furniture, like sofas or end tables. When you want an item, just tap on it in the app to communicate with the person giving it away. You can also post items you would like to give away.

Get the Freebie Alerts app

Other creative ways to score free furniture

To get the furniture you need, you might have to get creative. Here are more ideas on how to get free furniture for your apartment or house:

1. Keep your eyes on the curb on trash day 

Look around your neighborhood before trash day, when some people might put out furniture they no longer want. They may even put a sign on it to let you know it is free. However, it’s a good idea to ask about the furniture if you know the neighbor since the item may be broken or otherwise unusable. 

This Reddit user recommends going to the wealthiest areas near where you live to look for high-quality furniture:

A tip for getting nice free furniture
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You can also try dumpster diving.

2. Reach out to your network 

Send out a text or post on social media asking if anyone you know is getting rid of any furniture. Check with your family, friends, co-workers, business partners, other moms from your child’s school, church members, or any other group you belong to.

3. Head to a local college on move-out day

Do you live in a college town or near a college? Move out day is the perfect time to find free furniture. Students who no longer want their furniture or who don’t have the means to transport it often leave it by dumpsters, or in front of their dorm or apartment building. 

This Reddit user shares tips on scoring free furniture from colleges, like:

  • Looking around dumpsters by dorms and college apartments
  • Checking Facebook Marketplace if you live in a college town
  • Join college Facebook college groups to find leads on free furniture
PSA: College Students Moving Out = Furnish Your Place on a Dime
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4. Ask your voice assistant

Ask Alexa, Siri, Google, or any other voice assistant: “Where can I find free furniture?” If there are options nearby, you just might get an answer that helps you find exactly what you need.

Also check out these other ways to get free stuff:

$500 monthly single mom grantFree car
Free money for billsSecurity deposit assistance
Free gasFree toys
Free clothesFree laptops
Free gift cardsFree food
Free car seatFree baby stuff
Free housingFree internet

SOURCES

  1. “Durable Goods: Product-Specific Data” Environmental Protection Agency, Dec. 3, 2022. https://www.epa.gov/facts-and-figures-about-materials-waste-and-recycling/durable-goods-product-specific-data#FurnitureandFurnishings
  2. “Family and Social Services – Furniture Vouchers” Salvation Army Canton Service Center https://southernusa.salvationarmy.org/canton-ga/family-and-social-services/
  3. “The Furniture Bank Network” https://furniturebanks.org/
  4. “Avoiding Scams” Craigslist https://www.craigslist.org/about/scams

After a layoff a few years ago, I came across FlexJobs, an online membership site that posts work-from-home, hybrid, and flexible schedule jobs. FlexJobs allows users to filter jobs by category, remote work level, work schedule, and more filters (like whether the job requires travel).

While I ended up landing my first client through word-of-mouth referral, I had a positive experience using FlexJobs and was pleasantly surprised to find out that it’s still going strong in 2024. 

If you’re looking for an easy way to find legit work-from-home jobs, I suggest checking out FlexJobs for a few reason: 

  • Better Business Bureau accredited since 2008, A+ rating
  • Excellent rating on Trustpilot
  • Hand-screened job leads for remote work in 50+ careers
  • Features top employers such as Dell, Capital One, and Apple

Keep reading for my full FlexJobs review. 

Is FlexJobs legit?

How does FlexJobs work?

Features of FlexJobs

Do you have to pay to use FlexJobs?

Can I get a FlexJobs free trial?

How much does FlexJobs cost? 

Does FlexJobs have a guarantee?

What kind of jobs can I find on FlexJobs?

FlexJobs reviews

Pros and cons of FlexJobs

FlexJobs alternatives

Is FlexJobs worth it?

Is FlexJobs legit?

Yes, FlexJobs is not a scam, and is 100% legit:

  • 14-day, low-cost trial
  • 4.3-star rating on Trustpilot
  • Featured in top media including TIME magazine, CNN, Wall Street Journal, and USAToday
  • Founded in 2007 by Sara Sutton Fell — a mom who wanted to help other parents find flexible, work-at-home careers and jobs that pay well
  • 14-day money-back guarantee
  • FlexJobs recruiters vet, interview and make sure 100% of the positions they post are legit and high-quality

To learn more about this legit way to find work-at-home jobs, check out Emma Johnson’s  interview with FlexJobs founder, Sara Sutton Fell:

Learn whether it’s worth going back to school at 30 or 40.

How does FlexJobs work?

FlexJobs is a premium job board: You pay for access, while the service provides resources and actively works to help land you a position that fits by:

  • Offering vetted, screened remote jobs from legitimate companies
  • Giving you access to a weekly Q&A with a FlexJobs career coach
  • Displaying new jobs that fit your interests daily on your dashboard
  • Offering a job search checklist that provides valuable information to help you navigate the site, build an effective resume, enhance your interviewing and networking skills, and much more
  • Increasing your marketability by taking advantage of discounts on apps and services, such as learning a foreign language with Babbel or improving your writing with Grammarly
  • Providing resources such as webinars and LinkedIn learning video courses to help you expand your knowledge
  • Offering skills tests you can display on your FlexJobs resume profile to market your skills to potential employers
  • Providing a real-time chat or email to ask questions about getting the most out of your membership

FlexJobs even helps you better understand what kind of work you’ll excel at.

Even though I’m a freelance writer, I like that these at-home jobs aren’t limited to creative work like blogging, copywriting, and graphic design. The career opportunities run the gamut.

I found positions like digital marketing specialist, research toxicologist (chemistry degree, anyone?), and global operations manage, as well as niche positions like gaming software project manager and foster care specialist.

With more than 50 career fields, FlexJobs features positions in engineering, education, computer and IT, human resources, software development, and more.

Employers post opportunities to FlexJobs, but the staff stays busy actively seeking out even more listings.

FlexJobs goes through and researches online listings to make sure they are legit, and NOT scams.

If you’ve ever wasted time pursuing an opportunity that was really a ploy (like that “entry-level marketing assistant” job on Indeed that turned out to be a door-to-door sales position), you know that’s an awesome feature.

FlexJobs uses your preferences to help make a match, and then you apply.

However, you should be prepared to do work upfront. Think of this as an online dating profile. You can’t just jump onto the platform and snag a gig — you’ll need to take the time to play up all the things that make you an ideal job candidate.

Bonus: The company will give you a refund if you’re not satisfied within 14 days.

Features of FlexJobs

FlexJobs has features to help you find your next job, learn new skills, and increase your marketability to help you get hired:

Skills testing

There are more than 200 tests you can take to show off your skills, including email writing and etiquette, accounting principles and vocabulary.

If you score higher than 70%, your score gets added to your profile so employers can check out your skills. If you fall a little short on the first try, you can take any test again after 24 hours.

FlexJobs has more than 200 professional skill tests you can take to enhance your career profile.

Educational content

There is a straight-up treasure trove of blog posts, articles, webinars, courses, and other helpful content aimed at helping you build a successful career.

Right after you sign up, FlexJobs suggests content to check out — motivational TED Talks or quick job-search tactics, for example.

FlexJobs has online learning courses to help you sharpen or learn new skills.

Career events and weekly Q&A

FlexJobs offers weekly webinars where members can ask questions to career and hiring experts.

All sessions are delivered via live webinar but are available to watch back later if you can’t make the live stream.

FlexJobs offers weekly webinars and other resources to help you with your job search.

My job categories

You can choose as many job categories as you like, and FlexJobs will show you all jobs that fit your preferences.

Use FlexJobs categories to see all jobs that fit your career search.

One-on-one career coaching

For an extra fee, you can get personalized career coaching and resume help. However, because there are a set number of coaches, sometimes the services may be temporarily unavailable. 

FlexJobs offers one-on-one career coaching for an extra fee.

Do you have to pay to use FlexJobs?

Yes, you must pay to use FlexJobs. The initial cost is $2.95 for 14 days of access. It is enough time to try it out to make a decision about whether it is a good fit for your remote job search.

Can I get a FlexJobs free trial?

FlexJobs does not have a free trial, but you can sign up for 14 days for $2.95. If you follow FlexJobs on social media or Google FlexJobs coupon codes, you might also be able to get a discounted membership. If a friend refers you, you can get up to 30% off a FlexJobs membership.

How much does FlexJobs cost? 

After your 14-day trial, the price for FlexJobs is $23.95, billed every four weeks. Or, you can choose a one-year membership for $71.40 ($5.95 per month):

Current pricing for a FlexJobs membership.

Tips for maximizing your membership

Test the waters. Use the 14-day trial. While every penny counts, a one-month subscription to FlexJobs costs less than 80 cents per day when you break it down.

If you can find $23.95 in your budget, you can get a lot out of one month. And if you don’t get what you want in that time (or you find you’re just not using FlexJobs as much as you thought you would), then you know it’s not for you.

If you decide to stick with FlexJobs after one month, switching to an annual plan can save you $18 per month ($71.40 billed annually comes out to $5.95 per month).

Unless you specify that you want to change (or cancel) your plan, your initial subscription will renew automatically at $23.95 per month.

FlexJobs’ also offers career coaching services at an additional cost.

FlexJobs career coaching and resume reviews

FlexJobs offers career and resume consulting for affordable rates:

  • Career Coaching: 30-minute call for $74 that includes resume advice, job search strategies, Q&A, and a custom report for career success
  • Resume Review: Get your resume reviewed and updated for $149 via email so you can tailor it for the jobs you want
  • Career Coaching and Resume Review bundle: For $199, you can get a 30-minute coaching call and one resume review and update
  • Mock Interview: For $74, you can practice interviewing skills for 30 minutes with a career coach via phone or video and get real-time feedback
  • Career Change Coaching: If you want to switch careers, FlexJobs offers a self-assessment tool and a 30-minute call with a career coach for $119 where you’ll gain tips on how to prepare yourself for a new career

Does FlexJobs have a guarantee?

FlexJobs has a 100% money-back guarantee if you are not satisfied for any reason. You can cancel your subscription within 14 days and request a refund (via phone, email, or virtual chat).

What kind of jobs can I find on FlexJobs?

You can find jobs in almost any industry on FlexJobs and for a number of job types — full-time, part-time, contract, work-from-home, etc. According to FlexJobs.com, these are some of the most popular job categories: 

  • Customer service
  • Writing
  • Computer and IT
  • Accounting and finance
  • Marketing
  • Project Management 
  • Administrative
  • Medical and health care

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FlexJobs reviews

Until recently, FlexJobs had an excellent A+ rating with the Better Business Bureau. It has dropped to a A+ rating, with many complaints about billing practices.

However, Flexjobs has maintained an excellent rating on Trustpilot, where a total of 5,274 reviewers give the job site an average of 4.3/5 stars:

FlexJobs gets mixed reviews from job seekers on Reddit:

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Pros and cons of FlexJobs

Pros of using FlexJobs

  • Affordable 14-day trial
  • Highly vetted listings — 100% of the companies and 100% of the job postings are hand-reviewed by FlexJobs
  • No scams or weird postings, all jobs are rea and from quality companies
  • Highly customizable search by type of work, location, full- or part-time, etc.
  • Email alerts for new postings
  • Online job-seeker portal allows you to create a profile with a resume, skills test results and other info to make it easy to interact with employers and land a job
  • No ads
  • Referral program — get a free month when you get a friend to sign up (your friend gets up to 30% off the membership price
  • There are so many resources available through FlexJobs: webinars, skills courses, articles, job-hunting tips, videos and checklists to make sure you’re on the right track in your online job search
  • In fact, FlexJobs claims to have info on more than 50,000 companies that hire for remote, freelance, part-time, and flexible schedule jobs (Knowledge is power, mama!)
  • Members have access to over 60 partner offers, including deals like a 30-day trial of Audible (which includes a free audiobook)
  • 1:1 job coaching and resume consulting, for fees starting at $74 for 30 minutes
  • 100% 14-day money-back guarantee
The FlexJobs search portal allows you to browse remote and flexible jobs.

Cons of using FlexJobs

  • The BBB rating of A+
  • It’s not free but that’s the trade-off for having FlexJobs staff comb through jobs online and not being pestered by ads
  • FlexJobs may cut a few steps out of the job-hunting process, but you still have to keep an eye on things and log in fairly often to get the work you want
  • You can’t always apply directly through the site, but that’s to be expected: Many employers have their own processes in place for screening applicants
  • FlexJobs offers tips and does its best to tell you the most direct way to apply, but you often still have to go through the employer directly, so keep a copy of your resume and some talking points in a convenient spot, like your computer’s desktop

FlexJobs alternatives

There are paid and free alternatives to FlexJobs:

FlexJobs alternatives (for fee)

If you are looking for an alternative to FlexJobs, you can check out Virtual Vocations. Founded in 2007, it has an A+ rating and was accredited with the BBB in 2014. Virtual Vocations also offers a membership for remote job searches, but unlike FlexJobs, it also offers a free membership.

Membership options include:

  • Free: You get limited access to job leads, can save and apply for jobs, view your application history, upload resumes, download a free telecommuting guide, and set up alerts for new remote listings based on your interests
  • Premium: You get the benefits of the free membership plus access to all job leads, priority alerts for new jobs that might interest you, a free interview guide, and access to online courses and resources to help you get the job

Premium memberships start at $19.99 per month You can save money with a three-month plan ($49.99) or a six-month plan ($69.99). 

Virtual Vocations offers:

  • Free membership (All FlexJobs options are paid)
  • 30-day money back guarantee (FlexJobs gives you 14 days)
  • Access to over 40 career categories (FlexJobs has 50+)
  • Online courses for premium members (FlexJobs’ online courses are for all members
  • Payment through PayPal or credit card (FlexJobs doesn’t accept PayPal)

Free FlexJobs alternatives

While FlexJobs is a niche jobs site primarily for remote and flexible work, there are a number of free alternatives to FlexJobs where you can apply to similar (or even the same) jobs: 

  • Remote OK
  • Remote.co
  • We Work Remotely
  • NoDesk
  • JustRemote
  • Outsourcely
  • Indeed
  • SimplyHired
  • LinkedIn
  • ZipRecruiter
  • Glassdoor
  • Monster
  • Upwork
  • Fiverr

Bottom line: Is FlexJobs worth it?

Verdict: FlexJobs is worth it.

You get up to 14 days to search and apply for work-at-home and flexible jobs for just $2.95. In my experience, this is enough time to decide if FlexJobs has enough job listings for your specific career field.

FlexJobs delivers on its promise: a quality job board devoted to thoroughly screened postings for high-quality positions from vetted companies for those that are qualified and legitimate. 

Should you decide to choose a monthly or annual membership, it’ll pay for itself and then some if you land one of the quality, high-paying professional positions the site posts.

What is FlexJobs?

FlexJobs is an online membership site that posts work-from-home and flexible career-level jobs. Flexjobs allows users to filter jobs by job category, remote work level, work schedule, and more filters (like whether the job requires travel).

Is FlexJobs legit?

Yes, FlexJobs is not a scam, and is 100% legit with an A+ Better Business Bureau rating and 14-day money-back guarantee.

Is FlexJobs worth it?

FlexJobs delivers on its promise: a quality job board devoted to thoroughly screening postings for high-quality positions from vetted companies for those that are qualified and legitimate.

Can I get a FlexJobs free trial?

FlexJobs does not have a free trial. However at $2.95, the 14-day trial is affordable. FlexJobs also offers a 100%, 14-day money-back guarantee if you are not satisfied.

How much does FlexJobs cost?

FlexJobs starts as low as $5.95 a month with an annual subscription. You have to choose a paid plan when you make your account.

Does FlexJobs have a guarantee?

FlexJobs has a 100%, 14-day money-back guarantee if you are not satisfied for any reason. You can cancel your subscription and request a refund.

As a single mom of twins, my body was wrecked from pregnancy. 

But even before that, I struggled with my weight. I’d tried every diet and exercise program in the book, including an intensive bootcamp program where I could barely get through a class. 

I was 37 and unmarried when I decided to get bariatric surgery, a decision that ultimately allowed me to have a healthy pregnancy via IVF using a sperm donor.

Callie Carmichael shares how to feel sexy when overweight.

However, after a year of living in survival mode — making unhealthy choices, and putting myself last — I fell back into old habits and gained some of the weight I had initially lost. 

While I was determined to make little changes to better my health, I had to accept that extra weight, stretch marks, and a c-section scar would be part of a new me — a me I’d have to learn to love. 

Although I’m still not 100% happy with the way I look, I’m finally starting to feel sexy in my skin, and I might even start dating again soon. 

I asked some moms on Facebook how they feel sexy in their bodies: 

“For me, it was accepting that my body had changed after growing this amazing little person and to ditch the old clothes and just go buy stuff in larger sizes that fit.” — Alice

“Confidence is a state of mind. No matter your body, you should feel confident in it. Nothing is sexier than confidence, no matter your shape or size.” — Lisa

“Nothing helped me feel confident in my body more than connecting with, accepting, challenging, and loving my body through my self-embodiment practices (yoga, meditation).” — Jessica

I wanted to share some things that have helped me learn to love my body and embrace who I am at any size:

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1. How to feel sexy: Spend some time naked

I’ve started avoiding the urge to cover up immediately after hopping out of the shower. I have a massive mirror in my bathroom, and I used to find myself grabbing the towel as quickly as possible to cover my body so I wouldn’t have to face it. 

Even if I’m still not 100% at peace with my body, I have so much respect for all the places this body has taken me. This body has completed three triathlons, traveled the world, and produced two whole human beings at once. 

My scars and my soft belly were part of that story, which I now embrace. They’re evidence of all the things I went through to achieve motherhood. 

Callie Carmichael shares how to feel sexy when overweight.

Ladies, stop and check yourself out. Take a look and embrace all of your glorious parts — even the ones you tend to want to hide. 

Advice from women on Reddit: 

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2. Book a boudoir photo shoot

If you want to take yourself a step further outside your comfort zone, consider booking a boudoir photo shoot. There are plenty of plus-size friendly photographers whose job it is to make you feel beautiful just as you are. 

If you don’t want to spend the money or don’t feel comfortable stripping down in front of a stranger, you can set up your own little photo shoot in your bedroom with a cell phone stand and some creative lighting. Have fun with it, and be playful. 

Pro-tip — most phones allow you to keep your sexy photos hidden from the rest. You can keep these photos to yourself and peek at them when you need a little reminder of just how hot you really are.

Advice from women on Reddit: 

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3. Vamp up your undergarments 

Even if you work from home in sweats or you’re rocking spit-up as an accessory, try slipping into something a little sexy underneath. 

Buying something that makes you feel hot can boost your confidence, even if you don’t have a partner. 

There’s something powerful about walking into the grocery store with a messy bun and hoodie, knowing I am absolutely rocking it under the hood.

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4. Try sensual meditation, mindfulness, and naked yoga

Mirrors, scales, and size charts are the worst at telling you how to feel. You are your own best advocate for loving your body as-is. What better way to hone in on self love than a great guided meditation and mindfulness exercises.

“Mindfulness is about coming back to center, and understanding what is vs. what our minds and conditioning, trauma, etc., tell us is real, or what our perceived reality is,” says Katrina Tschirhart, founder Mindful Movement Studios in Marietta, Ga. 

When it comes to body acceptance, Tschirhart says mindfulness practices allow us to see ourselves through a lens of love and compassion vs. how we see ourselves as a result of social conditioning and traumas.

One of my favorite meditations is from Women’s Meditation Network1, and it focuses on healing, pleasure, and joy. 

The host, Katie Krimitsos, starts the meditation by saying, “You deserve sexual pleasure, no matter your history, no matter your size, no matter what anyone else has told you.”

If you think yoga is only for thin people…think again. One of my favorite influencers, authors, and yoga instructors is Jessamyn Stanley. She’s also the author of “Every Body Yoga.” 

As a self-described “fat person,” she focuses on inclusivity for all body types. Last year, she launched an OnlyFans account that offers live naked yoga classes. 

In one of her videos, says:

“Practicing yoga naked is actually more freeing mentally than a lot of people think. Of course, it can naturally feel good not to be restrained by clothing, but to develop a mindset that believes your body is your home — you’ll see yourself differently.”

Learn more self care strategies, plus things to do by yourself for a fuller life.

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5. Dress in an outfit that makes you feel sexy

Some women avoid dressing sexy because it feels uncomfortable. But ladies, there are so many options that feel great and are also smokin’ hot. But ladies, there are so many options that feel great and are also smokin’ hot — from figure-flattering leggings to a breezy linen skirt that highlights your shape while keeping you comfortable. Splurge on some fancy leggings that accentuate your rear. 

Dia & Co. is one of my favorite go-to clothing brands. They also have a try-before-you-buy option for those of us who don’t have time to go to the store (or just prefer trying things on at home).

Dressing with a sense of joy can also make you feel hot. I have a swim cover up with pom poms that I adore. 

It doesn’t necessarily show off a particular part of my body that I love or dislike, BUT the pom poms are to die for. They make me happy. 

I spoke with Atlanta stylist Lillian Charles2, and she offered this advice for feeling good in your clothes: 

  1. Understand and dress for the body you have now. She says articles on how to dress a curvy body may not be right for your curvy body.  Figure out what’s right for your body at this stage in your life by trying on different types of clothes and researching your body shape — pear, apple, hourglass, etc.
  2. Choose one thing you love about the way you look right now. Build your outfit around the thing you’re most proud of. “It could be your collarbone, or your toes. It could be your new highlights,” she says. “If you’re walking your kid in a stroller and your legs are looking extra good, love on that part of yourself.”
  3. Look for something that pops in every outfit you wear. “So many moms wear all black, and I get that — guilty as charged. It could be a big pair of earrings or fun colorful streetwear sneakers like the Adidas Superstar. Get a sleek new bag instead of the tired saggy bag you’ve been carrying pre-baby.”

“Really focus on what you can do today,” Charles says. “There’s a solution for every body at every stage at every age.” 

If you’re looking to clear out some items you no longer work learn about selling on consignment, and read our reviews of popular online consignment sites Thredup, Poshmark, and Mercari.

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Confidence starts with how you care for yourself

 Sexy isn’t just about the clothes you wear — it’s about how you feel in your own skin. Small self-care rituals can make a huge difference in your confidence, from skincare to grooming. For some women, finding electrolysis hair removal near me has been a simple, long-term way to feel smoother and more comfortable, letting them fully embrace their favorite outfits and enjoy their body without worry.

6. Focus on health

While bariatric surgery allowed me to lose weight, I ultimately wanted the surgery to get healthy enough to get pregnant. Weight loss surgery is certainly not for most people, but for me, having a sleeve gastrectomy was life changing. 

However, five years post-surgery with babies, life and stress, I still have to put in the work. Bariatric surgery was just a tool in my health toolbox that is part of so many other tools I use to stay healthy. 

Another science-backed tool some women explore are modern weight loss medications, such as GLP-1 agonists. If you’re researching personalized options, there are online platforms that offer a compounded semaglutide prescription with alternatives tailored for various health disclosures and preferences. This can be one more strategy—paired with sustainable movement and mindful nutrition—to help you feel stronger, confident, and sexy in your own skin.

To ensure these advanced options fit comfortably into a long-term wellness budget, many individuals find success by researching affordable ways to secure tirzepatide options available through verified online platforms.

For individuals managing busy schedules and family life, achieving consistent fat loss can be a challenge. Some people include supportive supplements options like WOWMD Night Time Fat Burner in their wellness routines to help maintain progress even during rest. When paired with mindful eating and light physical activity, it can act as an added element in a balanced approach to health and self-care.

I recently invested in a Peloton as another of my healthy toolbox tools. I’ve got great legs and always have. I’ve found that focusing on a part of my body that I love has made me feel so much stronger and healthier. 

What I love about the Peloton is that you can take 10-minute classes to start out, which is what I did. You’re not going to lose weight or get toned with these short workouts, but it’s a great way to kick off a healthy habit that can evolve into something that will make you feel and look healthier.

Plus, read our tips on easy meal planning for moms.

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7. See what makes other women feel sexy

Reddit is full of women asking for and giving advice about how to feel sexy at any size. I compiled some of their best advice: 

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How to feel sexy again FAQs

How to feel sexy when you’re overweight?

These are some things you can do to feel sexy when you’re overweight: 

  • Splurge on some sexy underthings that make you feel amazing
  • Find parts of yourself you love and accentuate them with flattering clothes
  • Get in touch with your body through mindful meditation
  • Try dancing or another fun aerobic workout that allows you to get in touch with your sexy side

What to wear when you feel uncomfortable with your body?

If you don’t feel comfortable with your body, try to find just one part of your body you do love, and emphasize it with a piece of clothing that makes you feel great. 

“Try to understand the shape you are in now, and dress for the body that you’re in now,” Charles says.

If you love your shoulders, show them off in an off-the-shoulder top. Love your feet? Wear a colorful pair of heels or sandals. Your eyes? Find a bold necklace that matches or contrasts to your eye color — orange can make blue eyes pop. 

Will sexy lingerie help with body positivity?

Anything you wear that makes you feel sexy can boost body positivity. Sexy lingerie doesn’t have to show a ton of skin. If you feel more comfortable in a full-piece leotard that squeezes you in all the right places, start with that. If you feel sexiest wearing a pair of high-waisted spanks, wear that. 

Take it a step further and snap some pics of yourself wearing lingerie that you love. When you’re feeling the frump, take a peek at those sexy pics as a reminder of how sexy you really are.

How can I feel attractive in my body?

Don’t berate yourself in the mirror. Focus on the parts you love and look for ways you can feel sexy and healthy. There’s a body for every age and every stage. Instagram influencer and body positivity champion Megan Jayne Crabbe challenges the idea that our bodies are problems to solve. 

In her “No More Trash Talk Challenge” she posts, “Spend some time saying ‘Thank You’ to the parts of your body you’re not OK with — and try to really mean it.”

SOURCES

  1. “Morning Meditation for Women,” Women’s Meditation Network. https://womensmeditationnetwork.com/morningpodcast/
  2. https://www.lilliancharles.com/

What happens to my kids if I die?

Whether you’re a single parent of teens, or have recently welcomed a new baby into your life, chances are you’ve asked this question: What happens if I die?

Have you done everything possible to care for your children in the future?

Creating an estate plan is one of the best ways to provide for your children. 

We asked single moms on Facebook to share their thoughts on creating an estate plan, and responses ranged from fear to empowerment:

“I have lots of fears and anxiety, because I have nothing in place.”

Jacquie O.

“If you own a home, make sure you file the homestead protection papers for your state (or that your realtor did). Put as much as you can in your 401k at least to get full benefit of employer matching, 401k as well as homestead offer protections against creditors. Work: your social security benefits are also protected. When you are choosing when to borrow: Federal student loans are forgivable upon either the borrower’s or student’s death or disability (unlike mortgages, car loans etc). I got a living trust and put my real property in its name. I did it when my ex died. One of my best friends has the docs and can help out (is a named Trustee). I also have a law firm engaged to help administer should something happen to me.”

Kate A.

“I stress because I haven’t done it yet. I meant to this year, but we’ve had so much going on. My dad died, I bought a house, my child was diagnosed with a chronic illness, it just feels too overwhelming at the moment.”

Janelle J.

“Part of my journey as a SMC meant stipulating my assets via her trustees when she was born. It gave me piece of mind lining up all her key players, getting consent and having those important conversations while I was pregnant. But this is just my experience.”

Julia C.

Whether you have an estate plan in place and want to fine tune the details or you’re just getting started, this post offers education and guidance to make sure that your wishes are honored, and decisions about your children’s future are not left up to the courts.

This post will answer the following questions to help you get an enforceable estate plan in place:

What is estate planning?

Estate planning is the legal process of transferring your wealth after death. However, an estate plan can also include a living will to carry out your wishes if you are no longer able to make decisions or give consent.

“A good estate plan covers it all — from now through incapacity and all the way through death,” says Attorney Candace Dellacona, a shareholder and Practice Group Leader of the Estates and Trusts practice group (North) at Offit Kurman in New York. She is also the host of The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide, a podcast that covers topics like estate planning, self-care, raising children, and caregiving for aging parents.1

Estate planning can cover how to handle:

  • Life insurance and beneficiaries
  • Care for minor children or dependents
  • Setting up  a trust
  • Philanthropic acts
  • Investments
  • Real estate
  • Items of sentimental and monetary value

Estate planning can also include strategies for minimizing the sum of taxes your heirs will pay on any inheritance.

What documents are essential for estate planning?

Essential parts of an estate plan include:

  • Advanced directive: Establishes legal responsibility for decision-making in terms of your health and finances
  • Will: Spells out what happens to your property when you die
  • Living will: A type of advance directive that carries out your wishes if you become incapacitated and unable to make decisions
  • Trust: A legal entity into which property or funds are transferred, and then managed
  • Living trust: A legal entity that holds and manages your property or funds while you are alive and distributes them after death

You might be familiar with a will or a trust but have you heard of an advanced directive? They are another key part of a complete estate plan.

“Everyone needs advanced directives, which are the documents that cover your health care wishes in the event that you’re alive but unable to speak for yourself,” she says, adding that, in many states, an advanced directive can also be called a health care proxy or a power of attorney for health care.

“A second advanced directive is a power of attorney for finances,” Dellacona says. “This document is vital in the event that you’re alive but unable to handle your finances due to illness or incapacity.”

Dellacona explains that, to direct your assets upon your death, a will or a trust is required. These documents state who is in charge of your assets when you die and who should inherit those assets.

Do I need an estate planning attorney?

Yes, an estate planning attorney can be a great resource for several reasons:

  • They know state laws concerning estate plans
  • They can help you choose what’s right for you and your family
  • They can ensure that your estate plan is valid and enforceable

“While there are some ‘DIY’ options online, you’ll never get the context/importance of each document and how important the details are without someone to guide you,” Dellacona says. “I often tell people that a DIY estate plan is much like looking at WebMD to diagnose a serious illness — it just shouldn’t be done.”

If you still plan to create your own plan or if you have already created one using online forms, it is advisable to have an attorney review your estate plan to make sure it will be enforceable in your state.

Add this: Engaging an estate planning lawyer can provide invaluable assistance in navigating the complexities of estate planning. Their expertise ensures that your will and other estate documents comply with state laws, helping to prevent potential disputes and facilitating a smoother probate process for your beneficiaries.

What is a will?

A will, short for last will and testament, is a legal document that:

  • Details how you want your property to be distributed when you die
  • Appoints an executor to carry out those wishes
  • Includes a provision that outlines how your estate will care for minor children or dependents and names a preferred guardian 

A will controls your assets that don’t have instruction on where to go when you die. For example, Dellacona says, a bank account with a named beneficiary or a jointly-owned home cannot supersede a will.

In the case of the beneficiary, that person becomes the owner of the account upon your death. And if you jointly own property, the co-owner has rights of survivorship, meaning that the will can’t control who gets the house because it already has an owner.

Co-owning a home can also create complications during life. If a co-owner tries to take out a new mortgage or HELOC without your consent, the lender’s lien may not attach to your share, but it can still cloud title, jeopardize equity, and complicate your estate plan. To understand your rights and options—including how to force a sale, refinance, or otherwise restructure ownership—and to learn how to get out of a joint mortgage, see this guide on co-owner consent and what happens when a co-owner stops paying.

What should a single parent will include?

A will defines the handling of assets and debts, but as a single parent, your will must cover how your children will be cared for and by whom. It’s one of the most important documents you can create to protect your family’s future.

It’s also essential to review and update your will after major life events. For many single parents, this includes finalizing a divorce. It’s important to understand what happens to a will after divorce, as many state laws automatically revoke provisions that benefit a former spouse or nominate them as executor. Neglecting to update your will could lead to unintended consequences that don’t reflect your current wishes for your children and estate.

“A single parent’s estate plan is vital, especially when it comes to guardianship,” Dellacona says. “It is so important that you name a guardian for your minor child (who may or may not be their other parent) and perhaps a trustee for the funds that you leave to your child.”

According to Dellacona, a single parent will should include:

  • Naming someone you trust as executor who will carry out the terms of your will (also name a successor executor in case the original successor is not available)
  • A statement that addresses how the estate is to be distributed after identified debts, expenses, and taxes are paid
  • Language that defines who gets what (if you haven’t already named beneficiaries or established joint ownership on assets such as real estate, vehicles, bank accounts, life insurance, and personal belongings (Don’t have life insurance yet? Read: Where single parents can find the best, affordable life insurance)
  • Specifics about how you want your assets to be allocated to care for your children 
  • Naming a person as a guardian to take care of your kids if you and the other parent pass away or if the children’s other parent is not part of their lives. 
  • Naming alternative guardians in the event your first choice for legal guardian is unwilling or unable to care for your child
  • Creating a pet trust to make sure your family pet is taken care of and naming a guardian to care for them after you’re gone (you can add a pet trust to a will or living trust)

As far as allocating assets to your children, Dellacona says you can ask your estate planning attorney to set up a trust in your will called a testamentary trust, or you can do this in your own revocable trust to direct how the funds should be distributed to your children.

For example, you can dictate whether they get assets at a certain age or decide if funds should be used for specific actions like going to college or starting a business.

Do you need a lawyer to make a will?

It helps to have an attorney guide the process because it ensures that you will have an enforceable will. If you don’t have many assets or debts, you can also use a reputable online legal service to get the job done.

However, if you have multiple children, a large estate that includes property, or challenging family dynamics, an attorney’s expertise will be essential in the estate planning process.  

Dellacona says you should proceed with caution when using an online legal service. 

“Laws differ greatly from state to state, and most states have stringent signing requirements,” Dellacona says. “If you do not follow the strict protocol, your will may not be valid. Estate planning is so important – it protects your family after all, and it is best left to a professional.”

Should you decide to use an online legal service, Find out if they also offer a service to have an estate planning attorney review your will to ensure it is executed properly.

For example, LegalZoom offers a will and estate planning package that also includes two weeks of attorney help and a full review of the will or complete estate plan to ensure everything is correct.2

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What is a trust?

A trust is a legal arrangement that gives a third party, known as a trustee, the authority to hold assets on behalf of a beneficiary or a group of beneficiaries.

Dellacona says that a trust can also be a substitute for a will because it takes the place of a will and avoids probate. For this reason, it can be a great option.

“A trust must be funded with your assets before you die,” Dellacona says. “When you create a trust that directs where you want your assets to go upon your passing, you first have to re-title those assets in the name of the trust before you die.”

The main benefit of a trust, Dellacona says, is that it doesn’t have to go through probate upon death so it generally means that an estate is administered much quicker if the assets are in a trust.

Trusts can be revocable (you can change the details) or irrevocable (cannot be changed).

What is a living trust?

A living trust is a written legal document that places your assets in a trust for the purpose of managing them during your life and distributing them after you pass on.

What’s the main advantage of a trust or living trust?

The main advantage of a trust is being able to quickly and efficiently distribute your assets and personal possessions after you die without going through probate court.

What’s the difference between a will and a living trust?

A living trust:

  • Manages your assets during your life
  • Distributes your assets upon your death
  • Doesn’t have to go through probate court
  • Is complex to set up, requires an attorney, and can be expensive

A will:

  • Does not help your heirs avoid probate court
  • Can be declared invalid by a court
  • Can be challenged
  • Is one of the most affordable estate plan documents

While probate court mainly exists to ensure your debts are paid and your assets are distributed fairly, there are a few things that can go wrong.

For example, if your probate court decides your will is invalid, family members can appear in court and object to:

  • Your will
  • Your named executor
  • How your assets will be distributed

This means your assets may or may not wind up where you wanted them to be.

Do you need a will or a living trust? 

You need a will, first and foremost. It names all of your assets. A living trust goes hand in hand with a will and provides control of those assets and timely help for your children and any other beneficiaries you leave behind. 

Remember, not having a trust means your will is subject to probate court. The probate court process can take a year or longer, depending on the state and circumstances.

But it will also depend on what you can afford. Depending on how you create it (DIY vs. estate planning attorney), a will can cost $0-$1,000 and a trust can cost $139-$3,000.3

What does a single parent living trust include?

According to Dellacona, a single parent living trust should contain:

  1. A will and/or a trust that contains a guardianship provision for your kids and a trust for your kids
  2. Durable power of attorney 
  3. Health care proxy/health care power of attorney that contains a HIPAA waiver

In some cases, questions may arise if you disagree with how a trust is managed, or if you suspect a trustee is not acting in your child’s best interest. If you’re considering whether you have legal grounds to take action, it’s important to understand when and how can you sue a trust due to mismanagement or breach of fiduciary duty. Understanding the options for contesting trusts can be crucial in protecting your family’s estate wishes.

Keep in mind, a will and a trust are two separate documents, even though they can work together to care for those left behind. 

What is an advanced directive?

If you find yourself in a coma or unable to speak, your loved ones and the medical staff won’t know whether you want life support or to be resuscitated. Having an advanced directive can communicate your wishes and appoint someone to be your medical power of attorney to make decisions on your behalf.

What is an advanced directive vs. a living will? A living will is a type of  advanced directive that describes the types of health care you want to receive if you can’t speak for yourself.

What is the best trust for a single parent?

Dellacona says choosing the best trust will depend on what you need.

“Often a revocable trust can be sufficient to manage assets during your life and then pass to your children in further trust upon your death,” she says. “Irrevocable trusts can be a tool to keep assets out of your estate for tax purposes.”

Dellacona says that each client has a unique set of circumstances, which means it’s important to speak with an estate planning lawyer in your state to make sure that the advice you receive is accurate.

What happens when one parent dies?

When a parent dies, what happens to children depends on a few factors:

  • Whether you’re married to the other parent
  • The custody arrangements if you’re divorced or were never married to the other parent, and
  • If you have a will

If the legal mother and father are married to each other, this question is easy to answer: When one parent passes on, the surviving parent gets custody.

But what if you’re not married—or were never married to your child’s father?

According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 23% of kids live with single parents.4 Where your children are placed should you die depends on your legal rights as a father or as a mother.

When thinking about what happens if you’re divorced and die without a will, these questions may come up:

  • If a mother dies, does the father automatically get custody?
  • If a father dies, does the mother automatically get custody?

If the other parent is at all involved in the child’s life, and there is a custody and visitation schedule in place, chances are good the child will live full-time with the surviving parent.

If the parent with sole custody dies, the court will decide whether to place your kids with the non-custodial parent based on what is best for the children.

Grandparents can get custody over the father or mother if one or the other isn’t safe or practical — say, if one parent is incarcerated, addicted, or has been largely absent from the child’s life. But the child is most often placed with the surviving parent when the custodial parent dies.

What happens when both parents die?

Having a situation where both parents depart this life at the same time is rare, but it’s a good example of why every parent needs to have a will. Otherwise, you have no say in who cares for your child because the decision rests with the court.

If this happens, the first thing you need to know is that child custody only applies to parents.

When another adult — such as a grandparent, friend, or another relative — is given the responsibility to care for your child through a will, custody no longer applies. Instead, the court will appoint them as the legal guardian of your child.

A legal guardian is someone appointed by the court with legal authority and responsibility to care for a child. This person may also be responsible for the child’s legal and financial affairs, but not necessarily.

In some cases, especially if there is a large sum of money from an inheritance or life insurance policy, a conservator is appointed by a judge to manage the financial affairs of a child. This person may also be the legal guardian, but can also be a second person.

How to set up guardianship in case of death

If the children are still minors when you pass, establishing guardianship can be done one of two ways — with or without a will.

Setting up a guardianship with a will

With a will, you’ll have the satisfaction of knowing the court will follow your wishes unless your request is impractical, or the person doesn’t want the responsibility of caring for your children.

Ideally, you can establish guardianship for your kids by working with the other parent and picking a person the two of you can agree on. This way, you both nominate the same person in your wills and the court can appoint a guardian with no trouble if you both die.

Whoever you chose to serve as guardian should have a copy of your will, and they can bring the document to the probate court when the time comes. Some states require the nominated guardian to fill out an application or petition before they’ll grant guardianship, and they’ll likely have to pay a filing fee, too.

Setting up guardianship without a will

When parents die without a will, the court can still appoint a guardian, although this isn’t the best situation since the courts won’t have any idea what your wishes are.

But someone needs to care for your kids, and the court should have legal guardianship forms available to fill out in case of your death.

In most jurisdictions, anyone with an interest in the minor’s care can fill out this form to request appointment as guardian, including a sibling if they’re at least 18 years old and can provide a stable home environment.

However, the courts will decide who gets guardianship of your minor children, and often look to grandparents, other relatives, or friends of the family to fill the role.

In the unfortunate event that a suitable person can’t be found, or if one isn’t willing to serve as guardian, foster care might be the only option and your child could end up as a ward of the state.

Bottom line: Should you have a will for a single parent as part of your estate planning? Yes, here’s why

If you die without leaving a will, your property and assets may not be divided according to your wishes, and your children’s guardianship could be left up to the courts.

Check out this video from Sarah Morris of Morris Law Center about why you should have an estate plan as a single parent:

As a single parent, you never want to imagine leaving your children behind, especially when they’re still young. But the reality is, bad things can and do happen. That’s why it’s crucial to ensure your children will be safely cared for and financially supported in the event of your passing.

SOURCES:

  1. “The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide” podcast https://offitkurman.com/offit-kurman-podcast/the-sandwich-generation-survival-guide/
  2. “Protect your loved ones with a legally binding will” LegalZoom https://www.legalzoom.com/marketing/estate-planning/last-will
  3. “Living Trust vs. Will: Key Differences” National Council on Aging https://www.ncoa.org/adviser/estate-planning/living-trust-vs-will/
  4. “National Single Parent Day: March 21, 2023” United States Census Bureau https://www.census.gov/newsroom/stories/single-parent-day.html
What happens when one parent dies?

If the legal mother and father are married to each other, this question is easy to answer: When one parent passes on, the surviving parent always gets custody. But what if you’re not married? Where your children are placed should you die depends on your legal rights as a father or as a mother.

What happens when both parents die?

Having a situation where both parents depart this life at the same time is rare, but it’s a good example of why every parent needs to have a will. Otherwise, you have no say in who cares for your child because the decision rests with the court. If this happens, the first thing you need to know is that child custody only applies to parents.

What will happen to your kids?

While making a will might feel overwhelming, it’s the most fundamental legal document for child custody if the parents die. Instead of leaving their well-being hanging in the balance, you’ll feel better knowing you helped choose who has custody of your kids if you pass away while they’re still young.

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