I've had a long-standing relationship with Worthy.com, an online marketplace for selling your diamond engagement ring, heirloom and estate jewelry, watches and other jewels.
There are lots of reasons that I chose to work with them, including their A+ Better Business Bureau rating, that a casual search online revealed mostly positive posts, and, because increasingly, from women I know, I hear good things about great customer service and getting the best price for their diamonds and other jewelry they no longer need.
Why sell your engagement ring?
Overall, I am a huge fan of selling your engagement ring in the event that your relationship ends, and I did so myself about five years ago.
I only received a fraction of what my now ex-husband and I paid for it, but I felt I got a fair price and used the proceeds to fund a trip my kids took to Europe with their dad to visit family — which, again, I felt good about.
The real value in selling bridal jewelry, or other jewelry you don't wear, is that it frees up all that negative energy attached to the item, stewing indefinitely in your jewelry box.
Even if you loved the ring, loved your ex, loved being married (yes, yes, yes for me), it is time to move on and free the mental energy attached to the ring — not to mention the money!
I recently decided to try out Worthy for myself, and sell a nice, modest diamond ring that I had come into, but had no use for. As pretty as it was, the yellow gold and diamond ring did nothing for me by sitting in my jewelry box.
Time to stop fretting about what to do with it, sell it, and move on already!
How Worthy.com Works
Here is my experience selling an engagement ring on Worthy.com.
First I went to this page on Worthy >>
I had a rough idea about the diamond's dimensions and made an educated guess about the color and clarity.
Weight, cut, color and clarity (if you forgot since shopping for an engagement ring!) are the main factors that jewelers use to determine a diamond's value.
Based on the info I put in, here is what similar rings sell for:
This amount seemed totally fair to me based on the limited information I had about this diamond engagement ring, and so I decided to move forward with the next steps.
A nice-seeming woman popped up on the chat box and asked if I had questions:
About GIA: I happen to know a bit about the Gemological Institute of America, because when I first moved to NYC about 15 years ago, I worked for a jewelry trade magazine, and I learned a lot about the fine jewelry business.
GIA is a very, very trusted institute that grades fine jewelry, and has been around for 86 years.
The laboratory employs certified gemologists whose whole mission is to protect buyers from scams in the jewelry industry, because — let's face it — the industry does have a not-great reputation, and under-pricing is common.
I really love that Worthy works with GIA to verify exactly what my ring is worth.
I also loved that Worthy was paying for Fedex, which I know will provide me with a tracking number so I can stalk my ring all through this process — as well as insurance in the event that something happens to the ring.
Jewels are so small and valuable — I worry anything could happen in transit!
Saira offered to initiate the Fedex process, and even schedule a pickup for the same day. Have I been transported to the future?
The following day actually worked better for me, and she set that up right there, live in chat. I could also have called her if I preferred, but I like chat, which worked great:
Within a few minutes of setting everything up via chat, I received both an email with the Fedex mailing instruction and forms, as well as a text:
It was kind of blowing my mind how quick and efficient this whole process. From a business and user-experience point of view, I was very, very impressed.
From landing at Worthy.com to confirming pickup took literally, less than 10 minutes.
The next day a cute Fedex delivery guy came with an envelope, helped me pack my ring and documents, and took it away to financial and emotional cleansing!
The really cool thing that I didn't expect is that I was constantly updated by Worthy along the whole process. I get why: If you are sending in a piece of jewelry that is worth a lot of money, and / or really sentimentally valuable to you, you're likely at least a little nervous that that cute Fedex guy might not be entirely trustworthy, or that an X-ray of the package might tip off some not-so-honest person along the way.
Then I received an email asking me to schedule a phone interview to go through the steps of this process.
On one hand, can't you just email it to me? But then again, if Worthy wants to take the time to talk to me on the phone, then why not.
So I scheduled a time later that day with Saira, who spent about 15 minutes walking me through each and every step of what to expect next.
I'm not gonna lie: She had a very nice voice and I liked her:
Also, Worthy sent me texts and emails to keep me posted — including when the diamond engagement ring arrived at Worthy HQ the very next day:
A few days after sending the ring, I get a text and an email saying the ring has been graded and is ready for auction:
When I open the report and see the recommendation of the minimum price I could to get for my diamond ring, I was pretty surprised.
It was lower than I thought.
But it turns out it was a lot smaller than I thought (and, frankly, crappier quality). After all, I am not a gemologist — what do I know about diamond grading?
The reason I am confident that Worthy's evaluation of the ring is accurate (and mine is wrong) is that it was done by GIA, and they gave me the whole report (for free) detailing exactly the dimensions and quality.
What I thought was a .86 carat diamond, turned out to be a much smaller center stone, with some even smaller side stones, and the ENTIRE diamond weight was .86. Big difference. I was wrong.
Normally for a ring like this, a GIA report costs $100 -$200. Even if you decide to halt the auction process and have Worthy return the ring to you, you still keep to keep the report, which you can use for insurance purposes, or in the event you decide to sell in the future.
You can see the whole GIA report here.
Based on these qualities, dimensions, and weights, I was able to cross-check the diamond's value on other sites around the web.
I felt like the price range they suggested was fair and accurate.
Worthy gives you three options:
- Sell immediately at the price they recommend, for a guaranteed sum. In this case, Worthy honors this minimum price, sends the ring to market, and in the event it sells for more, you receive the highest price.
- You set a minimum price higher than the Worthy recommended minimum, then send it to market, to see what the market will bring — which could be lower or higher than what they quoted. You decide at the time of sale whether to accept the highest offer.
- Set a buy-it-now price. If a buyer bids in this amount, the item will sell immediately and the auction will end.
I opted to try my luck and set a minimum price higher than they suggested.
What did I have to lose?
Over the next two days I got a couple of texts and emails letting me know how the auction was going.
I could also log onto my Worthy account at any time and see how many people were bidding, and for how much, and where in the world or country they were located.
It was like watching Auction Kings, except on a computer and not as exciting:
How much money I made selling my ring on Worthy.com:
Finally, the verdict was in, and it came by text on my iPhone 6:
Look: this is not a ton of money. But it was a small ring, and I really had no idea what it was worth. The Worthy process had been so smooth and transparent — not to mention fast! — and I was really just glad to get this ring on to another appreciative person who could enjoy it. Plus, the holidays were coming up and that cash would come in hand.
I hit ‘Approve & Get Paid,' and within a minute this landed in my email:
Then, the next day, this popped into my email (remember, Worthy takes 22% commission):
Overall, I was really impressed with Worthy. Here are the pros and cons of selling your diamond ring, or other jewelry (read here about my friend's experience selling her heirloom brooch) on this online auction site:
- Really easy to use.
- Transparent process — you can see every single step along the way.
- Great customer service. The chat was really easy to use (no wait), and I could call and talk to a human at any time.
- They covered all the costs: Fedex, insurance, and the GIA report.
- I could back out at any time, no problem, which made me feel really in control.
- Fast. The whole process took a few days.
- Since it is an auction, and hundreds of people around the world were bidding, I felt like I was getting the best price — can't argue with the market, after all! By comparison, when I sold my own engagement ring, I went to one jeweler in my city, and had to trust they were giving me a market price. One jeweler does not equal the market.
- They partner with GIA, the most reputable gemstone and jewelry grading laboratory in the world.
- Better Business Bureau A+ rating.
- It is online, which can be challenging for some people. Especially if you have a very valuable or sentimental item, it might feel a lot more comfortable to meet in person. If you happen to live in or visit New York City, Worthy welcome you into their offices to meet them for an initial appraisal with their Chief Gemologist Ray Albers, who is the former head of gemstone acquisitions for Tiffany & Co., which a lot of people do, and they welcome it. Otherwise, I found Worthy very accessible
- There was a lot of communication. Between the texts, emails and a phone call, Worthy was up in my grill. Ultimately, this is a great thing, but if you are a busy single mom, you might be like: just sell the damn ring and send me my money already! Or not.
Ready to sell your engagement ring?
Head to Worthy and get started here:
Not sure if you're ready to sell your jewelry online?
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Emma Johnson is a veteran money journalist, noted blogger, bestselling author and an host of the award-winning podcast, Like a Mother with Emma Johnson. A former Associated Press Financial Wire reporter and MSN Money columnist, Emma has written for the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Forbes, Glamour, Oprah.com, U.S. News, Parenting, USA Today and others. Her #1 bestseller, The Kickass Single Mom (Penguin), was named to the New York Post's ‘Must Read” list.
Emma regularly comments on issues of modern families, gender equality, divorce, sex and motherhood for outlets like CNN, Headline News, New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Fox & Friends, CNBC, NPR, TIME, MONEY, O, The Oprah Magazine and The Doctors. She was named Parents magazine’s “Best of the Web,” “Top 15 Personal Finance Podcasts” by U.S. News, and a “Most Eligible New Yorker” by New York Observer.
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