Co-parenting can be overwhelming, or even toxic. Luckily, there’s an app for that. Keep reading to learn more.
Emma’s quick take on co-parenting apps
Co-parenting apps can simplify scheduling, keep everyone on track. The right app might even make co-parent communication, schedules, activities and contacts easier and more effective — which is great for kids, moms, dads and even step-parents and grandparents.
- Best of the co-parenting apps is Our Family Wizard
- Best of the free co-parenting apps is Cozi app
- More paid co-parenting app reviews and free co-parenting app reviews
What to look for in a co-parenting app
A quality co-parenting app will help you keep track of important appointments, document kid drop-off/pick-up, tally expenses, show proof of payment, compliance and non-compliance, and share information and photos about the children's days.
What is the best co-parenting app?
Our #1 recommendation for a co-parenting app is Our Family Wizard. This is one of the oldest, and most widely used co-parenting apps, and has all of the recommended features, plus high user reviews. Our Family Wizard is also widely accepted by family courts — many of which require parents to use it.
Why OurFamilyWizard is our top choice for best co-parenting app
- Our Family Wizard costs $99 per year, per parent, and has a 30-day free trial.
- Our Family Wizard offers discounts for military families, and a fee waiver to offer Our Family Wizard free for low-income parents.
- Each parent can also add unlimited numbers of add-ons, including kids, grandparents, bonus / step parents, babysitters and nannies, as well as attorneys and mediators.
- In the event that you must submit records to a judge, mediator or attorney, Our Family Wizard allows you to download submissible records.
- OurFamilyWizard's ToneMeter helps you type emotion-free texts and emails to your ex by flagging inflammatory words — before you hit send.
One of the first co-parenting apps, OurFamilyWizard lets you and your ex keep financial records, store and share info (“New babysitter’s number is…”), and contribute to an online diary. Its “message board” function lets you and your ex chat about the kids and keep each other up to date (“Leaving the birthday party now, will have Sadie back to you within half an hour”).
OurFamilyWizard has a tool called ToneMeter that can help improve co-parenting communication. The ToneMeter scans your texts as you write them, and points out “emotionally charge phrases” so that you can think – and maybe rewrite – before you send a message. Sorta a babysitter for the parents.
Once you sign up and login, OurFamilyWizard will give a monthly overview of co-parenting, including money spent (or reimbursed), number of messages sent/received and the percentage of time the kids were with you.
Available for Apple and Android, OurFamilyWizard has a 2.2 rating on Google Play and a 2.0 rating on iTunes.
Our Family Wizard costs $99 per year, per parent, and has a 30-day free trial. Babysitters, kids and grandparents can be added for free. Our Family Wizard offers discounts for military families, and a fee waiver to offer Our Family Wizard free for low-income parents. Each parent can also add unlimited numbers of add-ons, including kids, grandparents, bonus / step parents, as well as attorneys and mediators.
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Or, read our review of OurFamilyWizard.
Is the Our Family Wizard co-parenting app court-approved?
Ask your attorney or judge, but OFW is approved by the most courts in the country — and many judges require parents use it (and may attorneys highly recommend it!).
Best app for co-parent communication
Co-parent communication involves more than just texting. Scheduling, negotiating inevitable schedules changes, expenses, documents, contacts and more are also critical. Our Family Wizard does a good job of addressing these challenges.
Some single moms and dads use apps because a lawyer, judge or mediator mandated them to facilitate parallel parenting. But even with amicable divorces, co-parenting apps can be a great way to communicate, stay organized and have a better relationship with your child’s other parent.
Technology can go a long way in smoothing a path forward to a collaborative, peaceful co-parenting relationship. This free parenting plan template is a good place to start.
Best app for a child custody calendar
Again, Our Family Wizard wins, thanks to the child custody calendar integration with the messaging, ability to request, accept and refuse change requests, as well as recording and requesting of expenses.
Best free co-parenting app: Cozi
We recommend Cozi because it is a robust, general family app that has a solid free version. Since “family” is increasingly defined in different ways, and a single family will have different scheduling, communication and organizing needs throughout its life, Cozi is a small and useful app that can be useful and easy-to-use for most households.
Note that OurFamilyWizard is designed for divorced/separated moms and dads who need documentation and communication help to co-parent. OurFamilyWizard is more expensive than other apps, but does offer financial assistance and a military discount.
Cozi is a free co-parenting app that is designed for all families — separated or not. Cozi lets up to a dozen people share (and add to) your family’s calendar, which gives an at-a-glance description of your day.
A big Cozi feature is their list library (or create your own lists), family journal where you can share photos, keep notes and other info, as well as an appointment reminder. 100% free, or upgrade for a no-ad version for $29.99 per year.
Read our Cozi review.
Reviews of more paid co-parenting apps
Search for “co-parenting apps” on GooglePlay or iTunes and you’ll be instantly overwhelmed. I’ve narrowed the field for you …
Custody X Change app review
Custody X Change has features typical of co-parenting apps, such as shared calendars and secure parent-to-parent communication. A useful feature is its custody plan template, which can save both cash and aggravation. For example, you might forget about expenses like school supplies, or that drop-off/pick-up transportation should be shared equally.
Custody X Change has three versions, all of which install directly from the browser, but there is no app. 30-day money-back guarantee.
Free: Limits on what you can save, print and share.
$17/m0. or $97/yr.:
- Create your schedule
- Get a written parenting plan
- Journal what happens
- Up-to-date notifications
$27/mo. or $147/yr.:
- Create your schedule
- Get a written parenting plan
- Journal what happens
- Up-to-date notifications
- Calculate time and overnights
- Prove your time with graphs
- Track extra or denied time
- Get reimbursed for expenses
Is the Custody X Change co-parenting app court-approved?
Custody X Change is recognized by some courts.
Talking Parents review
This one’s a hybrid: TalkingParents is a co-parenting communications tool that has a free website version (where you will see ads), as well as a paid version for Apple and Android apps.
Both free and paid versions have messaging, a shared calendar and personal journal. The paid app also has features like file storage and unlimited downloads for conversations and journal records — which you may want or need for court appearances or mediation with your attorney.
Paid versions cost $9.99 to $24.99 per month. For free memberships, you can pay a one-time $9.99 fee for 24-hour access to download messages, calendar or expense PDFs. Certified versions of these records cost $39.99, plus 19 cents per page.
Depending on your needs, Talking Parents may be more expensive than OurFamilyWizard.
TalkingParents has a 3.2 rating on Google Play and a 4.4 rating on iTunes.
Is the Talking Parents app free?
Yes, there is a free version, but with the paid version you have access to download messages and the calendar.
Is the Talking Parents co-parenting app court-approved?
TalkingParents is approved in many districts, but you should ask first.
This app has the expected features, such as a shared calendar, document library and check-in records. However, coParenter has something unique: a team of child specialists, mediators, therapists and retired judges on hand, ready to provide conflict resolution help in real-time. You can also ask for co-parenting coaching with any issues, and tips on effective co-parenting communication.
CoParenter costs $12.99 per month or $119.99 per year for one parent, or $199.99 per year for two parents. It has a 3.3 rating on Google Play and a 3.9 rating on iTunes.
Is the coParenter co-parenting app court-approved?
coParenter is approved by some courts.
The 2Houses app has the usual features, such as a shareable calendar, expense tracking, messaging and document storage.
If you’ve got kids with more than one ex, the website version of 2Houses lets you set up different “families” on the same account. And if an ex isn’t interested in joining the platform, you can invite a step-parent or other relative to step up.
2Houses costs $12.50 per month total, for both parents, and has a 14-day free trial. It has a 2.9 rating on both Google Play and iTunes. $149.99 billed every 12 months.
Is the 2Houses co-parenting app court-approved?
Whether 2Houses is approved by your court requires you ask the court.
Like other co-parenting apps, WeParent is designed to manage the ins and outs of separated/divorced parenthood. Features like a shared calendar, the custody schedule, secure messaging and document storage keep everything in one place.
You create an account, then link in your co-parent and anyone else you’d like; it’s possible to do group messages as well as co-parent communiqués.
There’s a 14-day free trial; after that, WeParent costs:
- Monthly: $9.99 / month
- Annual: $99.99 / year
- Lifetime: $199.99 / one-time
WeParent has 4.6 rating on the Apple Store and a 2.8 rating on Google Play.
Is the WeParent co-parenting app court-approved?
WeParent is recognize by many courts.
The coparently website calls its product “an online scheduling and communication tool.” Instead of downloading an app, you create an account online and go from there.
It lets you see the schedule by day, week or month, and color-code schedules if you have more than one child. With coparently you can private-message your ex (or guest users), share documents, track expenses and request changes (“Being sent out of town Tuesday; can you keep kiddo an extra night?”).
The 30-day free trial really is free: no need for a credit card upfront. After that, coparently costs $9.99 per month per parent, or $99 per year.
Is the coparently co-parenting app court-approved?
coparently is recognized by many courts — ask first.
Custody Connection app review
Like so many other co-parenting apps, Custody Connection offers features like a shared, color-coded calendar (it syncs with iCal), document storage, custody schedule and instant messaging.
However, Custody Connection’s website is very dated-looking; in fact, the site is unencrypted. Customers complain about crashes, a lack of customer support and the fact that the app doesn’t work for iOS 11 and up; as a result, Custody Connection has a 1.9-star rating on the Apple store.
It’s compatible with iPhone, iPad and iPod Touch. There’s a 30-day free trial; after that, you’ll pay $2.99 for the basic version, $9.99 for an annual subscription or $24.99 for an upgraded subscription.
Is the Custody Connection co-parenting app court-approved?
Custody Connection is dated, and probably not recognized by your judge, but you can ask!
Custody Junction review
Custody Junction is an older co-parenting website, with no app, and a very dated interface. There are other apps for a similar price of $47 per year.
Is the Custody Junction co-parenting app court-approved?
Fayr app review
Fayr has been on the market since 2018, and is already a leader in co-parenting apps. Founder Michael Daniels secured co-parenting advocate Gwyneth Paltrow as an investor and advisor by winning the Shark Tank-like show “Planet of the Apps.”
Fayr has features very similar to Our Family Wizard, with a calendar, scheduling features, expense tracking, a file vault, geo-location, and private messaging feature.
- $9.99 monthly
- $99 if paid annually
- $249.99 for a 3-year subscription
As of Jan. 5, 2022, the app had not been updated since Jan. 21, 2021, according to the Apple store.
Is the Fayr app court approved?
Fayr is court-approved in some locations.
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CoPilots co-parenting app review
Copilots comes with the basic functionality you’d expect in a co-parenting app, such as a shared calendar. But it also comes with some additional functions that many parents like. Other functions include:
- Parenting schedule: So you’ll always know whose day it is
- Child journal: To track your child’s wellbeing
- Photo sharing: To share moments throughout the day
- In-app messaging: Between you and your ex
- And more
While the features are helpful and powerful, the app itself can feel somewhat cluttered and less than intuitive to use.
CoPilots offers a free 30-day trial, but after that you’ll need to pay. Subscriptions start at $7.49 per month, but you’ll save either $3.48 by purchasing a 3-month subscription for $18.99 or $39.89 by purchasing a 12-month subscription for $49.99.
Is the CoPilots app court approved?
Whether or not CoPilots is court-approved will depend on the jurisdiction. When in doubt, ask your lawyer or the family court.
Parentship app review
Parentship is specifically designed to make scheduling easier in co-parenting situations. At the heart of the app is a robust calendar functionality with built-in alerts, a profile for your child, and the ability to track key documents like birth certificates, insurance, social security numbers, passports, photos, and more.
Parentship offers a free option that comes with 108 entries per month and includes all features except PDF download. To access all features, you’ll need a paid plan, which comes at either $1.99 per week, $3.99 per month, or $24.99 per year. All of the paid options come with unlimited entries.
Is the Parentship app court approved?
It depends. You should check with your jurisdiction before selecting it.
Alimentor 2 review
Alimentor 2 is at its heart a child custody calendar app. It can be used in preparation of a child custody case, or to monitor compliance once an agreement has been reached. Right now, it’s only available for iPhone, iPad, and Mac. It comes with a number of features that co-parents find helpful, including:
- Custody calendar. This details not only the planned custody calendar, but also documents any deviations from your visitation agreement.
- The ability to track parenting time. In addition to logging drop off and pick up hours, you can also track the total number of hours and overnights the child spends with each parent.
- Call history. To track child/parent calls, their duration, and any unanswered calls.
- Expense tracking. To track what you’re owed, what you’re due, what you’ve spent. You can export this to a spreadsheet.
To use the app, you’ll need to make a one-time payment of $3.99 for iPhone or iPad, or $9.99 for Mac. A free trial version is available for Mac.
Is the Alimentor 2 app court approved?
The fact that Alimentor 2 bills itself as a “child custody calendar app with court admissible reports,” implies that it is court approved.
Reviews of other free co-parenting apps
AppClose review — totally free co-parenting app
Available for Apple and Android, AppClose is the only completely free co-parenting app in this list. Often billed as an alternative to OurFamilyWizard, AppClose has been around a long time and reports tens of thousands of users.
Along with features like messaging, shared calendars and the ability to create a shared parenting plan, AppClose has its own built-in payment platform, “ipayou,” with an integrated expense tracker. You or your ex can scan in receipts and request reimbursement, and then settle up electronically.
AppClose allows you to export (for free) all communication and calenders.
Messaging is done by text within the app, which you can do with your co-parent, alone or in a group chat with other family members or caretakers you can add (also for free). The messages are time- and date-stamped. Another feature, AppClose Solo, lets you send notes to people who aren’t connected through the app, through text, e-mail or social media.
AppClose is indeed totally free, but users report the calendar is not user-friendly, and overall user experience is poor compared to paid competitors.
AppClose has a 3.6 rating on Google Play and a 4.7 rating on iTunes.
Is the AppClose co-parenting app court-approved?
AppClose is approved in many courts, and many family attorneys recommend it, but you should make sure it is accepted by your judge if you are required to use a co-parenting app.
Bottom line: Are co-parenting apps worth it?
Many families choose to or are managed by parenting plans to use a co-parenting app. Others opt to use general technology like text, Google calendars and Venmo to communicate with their kids’ other parent. In either case, these tools can make everyone’s lives easier and make a stressful relationship less so. Check out OFW free now >>
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Our #1 recommendation for a co-parenting app is Our Family Wizard. This is one of the oldest, and most widely used co-parenting apps, and has all of the recommended features, plus high user reviews.
Many families choose to or are managed by parenting plans to use a co-parenting app. Others opt to use general technology like text, Google calendars and Venmo to communicate with their kids’ other parent. In either case, these tools can make everyone’s lives easier and make a stressful relationship less so.