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If you’re a single dad venturing into the world of dating again, you face unique challenges other bachelors do not — like dating around custody schedules, navigating potential partners’ appetite for men with kids, and eventually introducing your kids to a new partner.

Luckily, we put together some advice on dating for single dads, including: 

Where to find dates

Challenges of dating as a single dad

Finding time for dating

Introducing a new partner to your kids

Bottom line: How do single dads know they are ready to date again?

How do single dads start dating again? Where do you find dates?

Dating after divorce or a breakup can be equally exciting and terrifying — when you're ready. It's all a part of moving on after divorce, which might also include:

  • Going to therapy
  • Getting your health in check
  • Updating your style/appearance
  • Figuring out how to co-parent successfully
  • Getting your finances in order

A recent study published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences found that straight couples are now more likely to meet a romantic partner online than through personal contacts and connections.

Online dating is a legit way to start dating as a single dad in 2023 as long as you take the time to vet potential dates and use the right dating apps and websites. 

If you’re looking for a serious and long-term relationship, our No. 1 recommendation for online dating is eharmony because: 

  • A- Better Business Bureau rating
  • 100% of members are proven to be real (no catfishing or married people)
  • Free 150-point personality report
  • Apps for iOS and Android

University of Chicago and Harvard researchers conducted a study of marriages, breakups and divorces by online dating site where the couple met and found that couples who met on eharmony had the: 

  • Highest marriage rate
  • Highest marriage satisfaction rate
  • Lowest breakup and divorce rates

Online dating sites for single dads

There are dating sites and apps geared specifically toward single parents, like SingleParentMeet, though more mainstream sites like eharmony, Hinge and Bumble have larger dating pools, which will increase your chances of finding a date, romance, love, sex — whatever you are looking for.

If you’re a single dad looking to date online, check out our reviews of popular dating sites:

eharmonyZooskPlenty of Fish
Plenty of FishAdult Friend FinderMatch.com
BumbleOKCupidInternationaldating sites
Spiritual dating sitesCatholic Dating sitesChristian dating apps
Dating.comCoffee Meets Bagel

Matchmaker sites for single dads

If you don’t want to online date, you can hire a matchmaker to set you up on dates with compatible individuals. The Wall Street Journal recently reported that matchmaking is on the rise, especially among professional people looking for long-term commitments. 

However, matchmaking isn’t cheap. You can expect to pay between $2,000 and $25,000 in matchmaker fees, according to a New York Times report. Matchmakers typically charge based on a fixed period of time, a guaranteed number of dates, or a combination of the two.

Check out our reviews of two popular matchmaking services: 

Is it hard for single dads to date?

Dating as a single dad can be hard because you may have to plan your dates around your child custody schedule, plus contend with other complications like co-parenting with an ex and potentially introducing kids to a new partner.

Here are some hard parts about dating as a single dad, according to real single dads (and one single woman) on Reddit: 

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This woman who dated a single dad also spelled out some of the things she found hard about dating a single dad: 

How do single dads deal with dating?

Juggling dating as a single dad can be hard, and there are some things that will also be hard for the person you date. Check out the advice we've given women on dating a man with kids.

Successfully dating as a dad often means finding dates who are willing to be flexible and understand that your kids come first, at least in the beginning.

Emyli Lovz, a professional matchmaker and dating coach for men, says single dads should be transparent about having kids so they attract the right partners who are OK with dating someone who has kids. 

“Demonstrate that you're a proud dad on your profile,” Lovz says. 

Lovz put together a video with advice for how to include kids on your profile without showing their faces: 

This dad on Reddit sought advice on dating from other single dads: 

Need Advice dating as a single dad
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This is what they had to say: 

Advice for single dads dating on Reddit.
Advice for single dads dating single moms on Reddit.
Advice for single dads dating other parents on Reddit.

How do you find time to date?

If you are co-parenting and share custody with your ex, try to schedule dates for the times you aren’t with your kids. Otherwise, you can hire a babysitter or nanny to take care of your kids when you go out.

“You have to manage expectations around your schedule and availability and let the woman you're dating know that while she's important, your kids ultimately come first,” Lovz says. 

She says it’s often easiest to date a single mom who understands your dating challenges, though scheduling dates around two different custody schedules can make your time together even more limited. 

“Connection is about quality time logged, not necessarily in-person hours, so use technology to your advantage when you can't rendez in person,” Lovz says.

What if you feel awkward or rusty?

Lovz says she recommends ripping off the bandaid by going on a lot of dates. She advises single dads to set a goal of 20 low-stakes dates — think coffee, not dinner — in 90 days.

“Meet and compare different partners, shake off the dust, and get back in the groove of dating,” Lovz says. “After all, practice makes perfect!”

One single dad who was apprehensive about dating went on Reddit asking for advice on single dad dating, and he received a lot of great feedback: 

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How do you approach sex and sleepovers?

Lovz recommends planning sleepovers for nights your kids aren’t home, at least until you’re more serious. 

She says having sex on the third date is the perfect timeline if you don’t want to rush things but also don’t want to get stuck in the friend zone, though you should follow your partner’s cues and understand what sex means for both of you. 

“Some people believe sex is only for committed relationships, while others believe it is a source of play, fun, and curiosity,” Lovz says.

This Quora user asked for advice on having sex while dating as a single parent.

Should you worry about dating a childless woman?

While women who don’t have children may not understand everything you have to deal with as a parent, that doesn’t mean you can’t successfully date a childless woman. 

Amber Lee, CEO of matchmaking service Select Date Society, says if you are dating a woman without kids, you should try to involve her in your world and be honest about challenges you’re facing.

“If you're dealing with a difficult teenager, don't try to hide what's going on at home,” Lee says. “She will appreciate it if you talk things out with her and even ask her for advice or an outside perspective.”

What red flags should you look out for?

Lovz says these are some red flags single dads should look out for: 

  • Women who don't like kids
  • Gold diggers — Lovz recommends planning more casual first and second dates to weed these women out and not buying gifts before you're in an exclusive relationship
  • Narcissists — watch for “love bombing” (essentially falling too quickly/becoming obsessive), as well as things feeling too good to be true right off the bat
  • Multiple ex-husbands
  • Multiple deceased ex-husbands

These are some more red flags to look out for, according to Quora users: 

  • “​​They are immature, volatile and are just unpredictable.”
  • “When your family members and friends all don’t like your significant other. I can understand if your mum/dad or brother/sister thinks they aren’t good for you. But when a good number of the people you love don’t like this person. Chances are they aren’t good for you.”
  • “Low level of empathy and being inconsiderate of your feelings, emotions and mental health.”
  • “Having no respect for boundaries, always wanting to be with you ALL the time.”
  • “Your partner has cheated in past relationships, what makes you all think you are different?”
  • “They start snapping at you for little things and overreacting, as before, this problems get stronger over time.”
  • “Your personalities really don't fit together naturally and you know it.”
  • “Your hopes of the future and ideologies collide to heavily with each others. At first you will think you can work through this, then it will become apparent just how much you differ from one another.”

When should a dating single dad introduce his kids?

Lee says there is no perfect time for a single dad to introduce his kids to a new partner, though she says it isn’t something you should rush.

“Make sure you are both on the same page with expectations on what roles the other person may play in your kids’ lives and where you see the relationship headed,” Lee says. 

Be upfront: Let kids know what is going on

While all situations are different, kids who are old enough should be kept in the loop about anyone you’re seriously dating. Check out this advice from Reddit about how and when to introduce a partner to your kids: 

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Tips on Reddit about when to tell kids you're dating as a single dad.

You don’t have to introduce every woman to your kids

Lovz recommends single dads wait until they’re in a monogamous relationship to avoid kids becoming attached to partners too soon. Check out our advice on when to introduce kids to a new partner.

Advice from single dad on Reddit about when to tell kids you're dating as a single dad.

Bottom line: How do single dads know they are ready to date again?

According to Lee, these are some signs you might be ready to date again: 

  • You find yourself checking out the opposite sex and thinking about dating again
  • Your friends and family are encouraging you to start dating
  • You've got a good routine down and you can make time for someone in your life
  • Your kids start asking you if you are ever going to get a girlfriend, which is a good sign they are ready for you to move forward
  • You are focused on the future and excited about the next chapter of your life

When you’re ready to find a long-term and serious partner, consider signing up for eharmony, which uses an extensive compatibility questionnaire to pair you with the right people — including women who want to date single dads.

Is it hard for single dads to date?

Dating as a single dad can be hard because you may have to plan your dates around your child custody schedule, plus contend with other complications like co-parenting with an ex and potentially introducing kids to a new partner.

How do single dads deal with dating?

Successfully dating as a dad often means finding dates who are willing to be flexible and understand that your kids come first.

A jewelry appraisal is a statement that includes a detailed description of your fine jewelry as well as its retail value. A jewelry appraisal is performed by a certified appraiser after a detailed inspection.

A jewelry appraisal is useful for insurance purposes, estate planning and other legal matters, as well as to satisfy your own curiosity.

If you want an appraisal because you’re going to sell, consider Worthy, an online jewelry marketplace that offers a free GIA lab report if you send in your item.

Here’s what else you should know about jewelry appraisals:

Types of jewelry appraisals

Types of jewelry valuations

How much does a jewelry appraisal cost?

Where to get jewelry appraised

What is involved in a jewelry appraisal?

Jewelry appraisals FAQs

Types of jewelry appraisals

Depending on your reason for getting a jewelry appraisal, there are different types of appraisals you can get:

Fair market value appraisals

Per the IRS and U.S. Department of Treasury, a fair market value appraisal of a piece of jewelry is the same as for any other asset (real estate, vehicle, etc.) — it is a reasonable sum you can expect to fetch should you sell your jewelry on the open market.

A fair market value of a diamond engagement ring recently purchased is what the retail market value of that same ring would be should any member of the general public buy that same ring at retail — not on the resale, wholesale or used jewelry market.

A jewelry appraisal is typically for insurance replacement purposes, which would be akin to fair market value. If you were to replace your old Rolex watch today, should it be lost, stolen or destroyed in a house fire, what would a similarly positioned new Rolex cost at a store today?

However, if you have a used piece of jewelry, you likely cannot sell it for a retail value, but in most cases, for the secondary value of the stone and metal — about 30 to 50% of the retail value, accounting for the buyer’s own markup. 

This information is not included in a jewelry appraisal, though it is included in a lab grading report (more details below).

Estate appraisals / Financial planning

You may be preparing your own estate with your attorney, or working through the estate of a loved one, and estimating the value of various items for resale or to fairly divide up the items among loved ones. 

Jewelry, watches, coins, flatware and gold are often part of an estate. 

An appraiser will value these items based on the fair value market price.

Charitable donations appraisals

Often, old jewelry is donated to charity for auction or other fundraising purposes, and the donor is given a receipt to use to write off the donation on their federal taxes. The jewelry can be appraised at fair market price for this purpose.

GIA certificate diamond appraisal

Many people misuse the term jewelry appraisal and apply it to other, related documents.

For example, there is a big difference between a certified jewelry appraisal and a jewelry grading report, also known as a lab report or jewelry certification.

Jewelry grading is a highly scientific process, and only certified gemologists can give you an accurate report on the dimensions, quality and monetary value of your diamond, ring, jewelry or watch. They can also help you determine if what you have is a real or fake diamond.

These laboratories are recognized around the world for their accurate, unbiased grading, and rely on very advanced technology to assess and price your item.

Also, there is a big difference between a certified jewelry appraisal and a jewelry evaluation — even though these terms are often used interchangeably. An evaluation is an informal overview of your jewelry and used typically in a resale transaction.

If you’re going to sell jewelry worth more than $1,000, it is helpful to first get a certified jewelry grading report from a recognized lab like GIA or IGI.

When a company advertises a GIA-certified appraisal, it means the appraisal uses the GIA’s standards for grading a diamond’s color, clarity, cut, and carat weight. GIA itself does not certify or appraise diamonds or jewelry but does offer grading reports.

Appraisals from major jewelry store chains

Major jewelry chains like Jared, Kay, and Zales offer appraisal events throughout the year where you can come get your jewelry appraised. Search for “Jared ring appraisals,” “Kay Jewelers appraisals,” “Zales appraisal,” or whichever major jeweler is in your area to find out about upcoming events and how to register.

Jewelry appraisal app

While there are a few apps that claim to offer jewelry appraisals, none exist that offer authentic appraisals by a GIA-certified appraiser. 

Based on online reviews of the apps, most just offer pricing for similar items currently on sale that match your description.

Comparison chart

AppraisalEvaluationLab report/grading/certification
ProfessionalGIA certified appraiserLocal jeweler, pawn shop, some online diamond and fine jewelry buyersGIA, IGI or another internationally recognized gemologist laboratory
Length10-15 pages1-2 pages1-2 pages
Useful forTechnical detail of item + replacement valueUnderstanding resale or replacement valueTechnical detail of your jewelry
Unmount the diamond?No.No.Yes.
Price$26-$200, or $26 online via BriteCo.Free$50-$200+

Types of jewelry valuations

Jewelry appraisal vs jewelry grading

An appraisal can be done in less than an hour, and is typically used to determine the “replacement value” in insurance claims, or for tax or estate planning purposes. The appraised value will always be higher than the resale value.

A grading is conducted in a third-party laboratory like GIA or IGI by certified gemologists, and will give you a definitive determination of the cut, clarity, quality, origin and exact measurements of your diamond or other jewelry (GIA does not provide resale values).

If you are seeking resale information about your jewelry, a grading report is most helpful.

Keep in mind that an appraisal is often inflated above what you might pay for the same item at a jewelry store, but can be useful for insurance or tax purposes.

Jewelry appraisal vs jewelry evaluation

Often, a local jeweler, gold or diamond exchange or pawn shop near you will provide an evaluation for free.

Keep in mind that an evaluation may be lower than actual resale value, especially if the person giving it is interested in buying your jewelry.

Diamond appraisal vs retail value

A diamond appraisal will document the value of your diamond if it were purchased at retail today. You can use the information in a diamond appraisal for several purposes:

  • Determine a sales price if you choose to resell your diamond or diamond ring (but don't expect to get the appraised value)
  • Understand how much insurance you need on your diamond jewelry
  • Prove the value of your diamond jewelry when shopping for an insurance policy
  • Purchasing a diamond

Note that diamond values fluctuate much as any other commodity such as gold or silver based on supply and demand. With this in mind, the information in a diamond appraisal can become outdated within roughly 18 months or less.

When reselling your diamond, expect to get far less than retail value. Some recent surveys found that you will get 25 to 40% of the retail value of your diamond jewelry.

For example, if you paid $5,000 for a diamond solitaire ring, it should be appraised for approximately $5,000 for replacement purposes. That same ring will sell for about $1,250 to $2,000 or less to a diamond or jewelry buyer.

How much does a jewelry appraisal cost?

The cost of a jewelry appraisal depends on several factors:

  1. The complexity and rarity of the jewelry. A solitaire engagement ring is easier to appraise than an elaborate brooch with a dozen rare stones made by a known brand like Cartier or Bulgari.
  2. The qualifications of the appraiser. A GIA-certified appraiser will charge more than a diamond or gold buyer who may give you an evaluation for free and call it an “appraisal.”

If you are getting your jewelry appraised for insurance purposes from a local jeweler or appraiser, expect to pay a flat or hourly rate, based on $50 to $150 per hour, according to the insurance company Jewelers Mutual.

For a certified laboratory report from an independent association like the Gemological Institute of America, or GIA, a one-carat diamond ring will cost an average of $200, with prices varying on the size, rarity and other factors of the jewelry.

A gold wedding band, by comparison is not likely worth the cost of an appraisal, since its value is for melt value, and the resale value likely less than $200.

Where to get diamonds and jewelry appraised

A jewelry appraisal requires a certified appraisal who will provide a detailed report of your item, along with a retail value estimate. Here are your options:

Local jewelry appraisals

A quick “near me” search will help you find plenty of nearby jewelry appraisers, or people who claim to be authorities in appraising jewelry.

To find a reputable local jeweler for a GIA-certified appraisal of your vintage, antique or estate jewelry, the trade association Jewelers of America recommends searching the National Association of Jewelry Appraisers website.

Jewelry appraisals is largely an unregulated industry, so it is on the customer to ask for:

  • Jewelry appraisal credentials: A professional jewelry appraiser should be certified by the National Association of Jewelry Appraisers, or have a Graduate Gemologist diploma from the GIA.
  • Continuing education certificates: GIA offers continuing education courses for graduates to keep up to date on industry trends, topics, and research.
  • Jewelry appraisal experience: It's OK to ask an appraiser to detail their experience. It's also OK to get an appraisal from a new jewelry value estimator, as long as it's backed by someone with the right credentials.
  • Adherence to legal standards: Among other laws and standards, intentionally over-valuing on appraisals is illegal under Federal Trade Commission (FTC) guidelines and unethical.

Where to get a jewelry appraisal online: BriteCo

BriteCo is a startup jewelry insurance company that allows you to get an appraisal and insurance up to 125% of the value of your jewelry within minutes, at very affordable prices. They also offer online jewelry appraisals for $26 within a few minutes.

BriteCo has just four reviews on Trustpilot and is backed by A+-rated global reinsurance carrier A.M.

Here are some jewelry insurance policy examples from their website:

Jewelry appraisal pricing on Briteco.

Where to get jewelry appraised for free

Some local, reputable jewelers will give you an evaluation for free, but expect to pay for an objective appraisal report from a certified appraiser.

Any gold or diamond buyer will offer a free appraisal, but keep in mind that they are motivated to quote you a low valuation.

Check the National Association of Jewelry Appraisers for recommendations on professional appraisers. Yelp reviews can also be helpful.

What is involved in a jewelry appraisal? 

The essence of a jewelry appraisal is understanding the components of the precious metals and gemstones in your item, as well as any special design, brand or history that may contribute to its value.

Before you head to a local jeweler near you, or send your jewelry into an online jewelry or gold buyer, you can take these steps to understand the value of your item:

  • Learn whether your diamond is real and its characteristics like weight, clarity and cut
  • Understand if the gold is real, and its weight and karat
  • Educate yourself about the jewelry market. For estate and antique jewelry, understand that there are four ways to value the piece:
    • Replacement price: how much it would cost to buy the same item, in the event your piece is lost, stolen or destroyed
    • Estate value retail: what it would sell for in a store
    • Estate value wholesale: the price you would receive from a wholesaler or at auction
    • Intrinsic value: the market price of the gold, platinum, diamond or gemstones

However, keep in mind that the only way to get a useful jewelry appraisal is through a certified appraiser.

Understanding a diamond appraisal

Like most jewelry, your diamond engagement ring, wedding ring, or other diamond ring has both metal and gemstones in it. Typically, a jeweler or GIA gemologist will evaluate the stone, and scrap metal valuations for any gold or platinum setting.

Also, it is important to understand that typically, the large center stone is the only diamond in most engagement rings that counts towards the carat weight. Side stones are typically not worth more than a few hundred dollars, unless they are of high quality and of at least .3 carat each.

A skilled appraiser or diamond buyer can also offer a quality estimate of the replacement value of your diamond, though there are many other ways to appraise a diamond and understand its value.

Learn more about how to sell a piece of Tiffany jewelry or engagement ring you no longer want.

How to sell an engagement ring after divorce and what to do with the money

Understanding gemstone appraisals

In order to get the most money for your gemstone, you must understand what they’re worth. While there are a number of factors that will influence the value of your gemstone, the most important are the same as for diamonds: 

  • Color: What specific color or hue is your stone? The rarer and deeper the color, generally speaking, the more valuable your gemstone.
  • Clarity: The clearer your stone, the more valuable it will be.
  • Carat: The larger your gemstone, the more valuable it will be.
  • Cut: If your gemstone is processed, the specific cut and quality of cut will impact its value.
  • Treatments: Is the gemstone color natural or achieved by other means, such as heating? For the most part, non-treated stones are more valuable.

While it may be possible to reference online charts and resources to conduct some sort of assessment for yourself, in order to get an accurate picture of your gemstone’s worth you need an appraisal.

Note, however, that unless your gemstone is of significant size and quality, most gemstones are worthless in resale.

Understanding antique and estate jewelry appraisals

A professional appraiser does an in-depth inspection to determine the value of your antique, vintage and estate rings, brooches, necklace, earrings or whatever piece you take in.

Usually, this is done to get the “replacement value,” so you can make sure you bought enough insurance, or to help you with a tax or estate plan. If you’re looking to sell your item — including any silver, gold or semiprecious gemstones, like a moonstone, tiger eye, lapiz lazuli, or an onyx — a jeweler can give you an idea of their value.

An appraisal is not the same as a “grading” (sometimes called a “lab report”). Grading takes place in a laboratory, such as the International Gemological Institute of America (GIA) or the International Gemological Institute (IGI).

Certified professional appraisers with extensive, scientific training in metals and gemstones will produce a 15-20 page report that details a gem’s size, clarity, color and cut, along with information about metals, market value, name brand and estimated resale price. Only a certified gemologist can give the correct value of your brooch, ring, necklace or other jewelry.

There are several ways to value antique or estate jewelry:

  1. Intrinsic value if your antique jewelry. What is the market rate for the weight of the scrap gold, silver and platinum, plus the market rate for any loose gemstones in the piece?
  2. Estate jewelry retail value. How much could this item sell for in a consignment, antique or jewelry store?
  3. Wholesale jewelry value. How much could you sell the item for to a wholesaler or retailer, who would then apply their markup when they put the estate jewelry to market?
  4. Replacement value. An appraisal for estate planning or insurance purposes seeks to set a value on antique jewelry that would help you replace the item were it lost or stolen.

Understanding the difference between jewelry appraisal and selling price

You might wonder why your sales receipt showing what you paid for your jewelry doesn’t suffice as an appraisal. Well, here’s why:

  • Jewelry appraisal establishes what the piece is worth
  • Takes into account factors like authenticity, condition, age, or rarity
  • Conducted by a certified jewelry professional
  • Worth assigned is mainly for insurance purposes and is often higher than retail or resale value because it also reflects the cost of the jewelry’s replacement1 

The selling price is different from your jewelry’s worth. It simply represents the jewelry’s fair market value to give you an idea of what you can expect to receive should you decide to sell it. 

How to sell your estate or antique jewelry for the highest price

Jewelry appraisals FAQs

What is the best way to appraise jewelry?

A local jeweler who is GIA certified is a good way to get an appraisal for insurance or estate-planning purposes — or if you just want to know more about your jewelry.

Can I get a jewelry appraisal online?

BriteCo offers online jewelry appraisals for $26, within a few minutes. Their main business is jewelry insurance.

Can I get a free online jewelry appraisal?

Any online jewelry buyer will give you a jewelry evaluation for free, though not all are done by GIA graduate appraisers.

Where is the best place to get a diamond ring appraised?

A reputable jewelry store with a GIA-certified appraiser is a great option if you want to get an appraisal done locally. Otherwise, you can send your diamond ring to a top-rated online appraiser or gemological lab. 

Bottom line: Are jewelry appraisals worth it?

Yes — jewelry appraisals are worth it, but only for high-value jewelry pieces. A typical appraisal costs about $100, so unless your piece is worth significantly more than that, spending money on an appraisal might not make sense.

If you simply want to understand what your jewelry is worth and what its qualities are, then a free evaluation by a local jeweler or trusted pawn shop may be helpful. Similarly, if you need your jewelry appraised for insurance purposes, go ahead and pay for one locally or online through a site like BriteCo.

If you have a significant piece of branded or large diamond or gemstone jewelry, then a lab report or grading from GIA or another laboratory is a good investment for purposes of insurance, legal documentation for an estate plan, divorce proceedings or to best help you assess resale opportunities.

SOURCES

  1. “Guide to Jewelry Appraisals” Jewelers of America https://www.jewelers.org/buying-jewelry/jewelry-repair-and-care/appraisals
What is a jewelry appraisal?

A jewelry appraisal is a statement of value that spells out the worth of your item. The person doing the appraisal, the appraiser, does a thorough inspection of your jewelry to determine the value.

How do you get jewelry appraised?

The main way most people get their jewelry appraised is through a local jeweler, who can give you a decent estimate of how much your item would get at retail value.

How much does a jewelry appraisal cost?

If you are getting your jewelry appraised for insurance purposes from a local jeweler or appraiser, expect to pay a flat or hourly rate, based on $75 to $150 per hour. Some appraisers charge based on a percentage of the appraised value.

How much do jewelry appraisers charge?

Many local jewelers will provide an appraisal for resale or insurance purposes, but expect to pay between $50 and $150 per hour for jewelry appraisal services.

Is it worth getting jewelry appraised?

If you have a significant piece of branded or large diamond or gemstone jewelry, then a lab report or grading from GIA or another laboratory is a good investment for purposes of insurance, legal documentation for an estate plan, divorce proceedings or to best help you assess resale opportunities.

If you have lots of loose change lying around, you can convert it into spendable cash. 

While you can search for “coin-counting machines near me” or “Coinstar near me,” there are other places to turn your quarters, dimes, nickels, and pennies into cash. Keep reading to learn where and how you can cash in your coins:  

Banks

Coinstar

Credit unions

Big-box retailers

Grocery stores

Retailers with self-checkout stations that accept coins

FAQs about cashing in coins

Banks

When you want to turn in “coins for cash near me,” banks are the most obvious place to do it. Most banks, including Bank of America, will turn coins into cash as long as they’re rolled in designated coin wrappers. Note that partial rolls may not be accepted. 

Before heading to any bank to cash in coins, it’s a smart (and potentially time-saving) idea to call ahead to make sure the bank accepts rolled coins and to see if they charge any fees, especially if you don’t have an account with the bank. 

Personal check cashing “near me:” 19 places to go

What banks have free coin-counting machines?

Although coin-counting machines were once a fixture in many banks, that’s not the case anymore. Banks like Capital One, TD Bank, and PNC Bank pulled the plug years ago on their coin-counting machines, citing reasons such as declining customer demand, inaccuracies, and malfunctions. 

The following list is not exhaustive, but it includes a few banks in the U.S. that still have coin-counting machines. Keep in mind that if you aren’t an account holder at a bank but want to use its coin-counting machine, there’s a good chance you will have to pay a fee:

  • Fidelity Bank: Nearly all Fidelity Bank branches have coin-counting machines in their lobbies. Bank customers can cash in their coins for free, but non-bank members may have to pay a fee (depending on the branch). You can also cash in coins with a bank employee or redeem them for a Visa gift card. However, the Visa gift card option will incur a $2.50 fee. 
  • JBT Bank: Every JBT branch has self-service coin-counting machines that are fee-free for JBT customers. Non-customers might have to pay a fee. 
  • Manasquan Bank: Manasquan customers can cash in their coins for free. However, those who don’t bank there will incur a 15% redemption fee. 
  • Fifth Third Bank: Some Fifth Third branches offer loose coin exchange. Contact a branch to find out if the service is available and if any fees apply. 

Coinstar

Coinstar has thousands of coin-counting kiosks across the globe, including those at U.S. retailers, grocery stores, and some credit unions. If you’re wondering, “Where can I find a Coinstar machine near me?” you can use Coinstar’s kiosk finder. Enter a street address or ZIP code to locate the machines nearby. 

Does Coinstar have a limit?

Coinstar has a limit of $3,000 per coin-counting session. Call Coinstar customer service at 800-928-2274 if you think the coins you’d like to cash in will exceed the limit. Coinstar may be able to provide you with special assistance. 

What percentage does Coinstar take?

Coinstar charges an 11.9% coin-processing fee. So if you cash in $100 worth of coins, you’ll pay a fee of $11.90, leaving you with $88.10. However, fees may vary by Coinstar kiosk location. 

How do I avoid Coinstar fees?

You can avoid Coinstar fees by opting for an eGift card instead of cash. Coinstar offers eGift cards from the following stores and restaurants for the following minimum and maximum amounts:

  • AMC: $10-$100
  • Amazon.com: $5-$1,000
  • Apple: $10-$500
  • Applebee’s: $5-$500
  • Cabela’s: $5-$500
  • Chili’s: $5-$100
  • Domino’s: $5-$100
  • DoorDash: $15-$200
  • GameStop: $5-$500
  • GAP: $10-$500
  • Hotels.com: $10-$500
  • IHOP: $5-$200
  • Lowe’s: $5-$1,000
  • Nike: $5-$500
  • Outback Steakhouse: $5-$500
  • ROBLOX: $5-$500
  • Razer Gold: $10-$500
  • Red Robin: $5-$150
  • Southwest: $25-$500
  • Starbucks: $5-$500
  • Steam: $5-$250
  • Texas Roadhouse: $5-$100
  • The Home Depot: $3-$2,000

Not all Coinstar kiosks offer the full suite of eGift cards to choose from; options will vary depending on kiosk location. 

To find out which kiosks stock the eGift card you’re looking for, visit Coinstar’s eGift Card website, locate the eGift card you want and click “Find a Kiosk.”

Your browser will redirect you to the “Find a Kiosk” webpage and automatically add the name of the gift card you’re seeking to the search filter. All you have to do is enter the street address or ZIP to begin searching. 

Credit unions

If you’re not up for cashing in your coins at a Coinstar kiosk for the almost 12% fee, you’ll be interested in other “coins to cash near me” options.

You might be able to cash in your coins at a credit union with a teller. Some credit unions might also have self-service coin-counting machines that you can use to count your change and exchange it for cash. 

Depending on the credit union’s policies, however, you might have to pay a fee — especially if you aren’t a member. Here’s a list of some credit unions that offer coin-counting machines and their respective fees.

  • ACCESS Federal Credit Union: Free coin-counting services are provided for non-business members at the following branches: Camden, Clinton, Oneida, and Rome. Business members and non-members who want to use the service will incur a small fee. 
  • American Heritage Credit Union: Use of the coin-counting machine is free for all members. Non-members may incur a fee.
  • Hershey Federal Credit Union: The credit union’s Hershey office has a self-service coin-counting machine that’s free for members. Non-members will have to pay a 5% fee. 
  • Mission Federal Credit Union: Most branches have coin-counting machines. Members can cash in up to $200 per month worth of coins or up to $1,000 per year using the teller line or coin machine. Coin counting in excess of the stated limits will incur an 11% fee. 
  • NASA Federal Credit Union: Coin-counting machines are available at NASA Federal Credit Union’s Annapolis, Arlington, Bowie, Collington, Columbia, Falls Church, Greenbelt, Oak Hall, and Rockville branches. Non-members who use the machines will incur a 6% fee. 

Grocery stores

The coin-counting machines you’ll find in grocery stores are often Coinstar kiosks. Here’s a list of some of the grocery stores that are known to have Coinstar machines.

However, you’ll want to use Coinstar’s “Find a Kiosk” page to confirm if a particular grocery store in your area actually has a machine. 

  • Harris Teeter
  • Food Lion 
  • Albertson’s
  • Kroger
  • Safeway
  • WinCo
  • Dillion Food Stores
  • Food Maxx
  • Cub Foods
  • Meijer
  • ShopRite
  • Shop & Stop

Walmart

With 4,735 stores across the United States, Walmart is another location where you can find coin-counting machines — specifically those owned by Coinstar. Visit Coinstar’s “Find a kiosk” webpage to find out if a Walmart near you has a machine. 

QuickTrip

QuickTrip has more than 900 stores in 14 states. According to QuikTrip’s media consultant, Aisha Jefferson-Smith, QuickTrip stores do exchange coins for cash without a fee.

One tip Jefferson-Smith gave was that customers should exercise patience if they bring in their coins to a QuickTrip location. 

Depending on how busy the location is, the attendant may ask the customer to step aside until the attendant can devote the time needed to accurately count the loose coins and exchange them for the cash value. 

Retailers with self-checkout stations that accept coins

Another way you can cash in coins is at self-checkout stations that accept coins. Granted, you won’t receive cash back (unless you overpay), but it’s still a way to get 100% of the value from the coins you have piling up at home. 

Here’s a list of some retailers that have self-checkout stations, but you’ll have to check for yourself which stations accept coins. 

  • Target
  • Walmart
  • Dollar General
  • Kroger
  • Costco
  • Albertson’s

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FAQs about cashing in coins

Where can I cash in coins for free?

You can cash in coins at some banks and credit unions for free — especially if you have an account. 

If you are OK with being paid in gift cards, you can also cash in coins for free at Coinstar and other coin machines.

What’s the best place to cash in coins?

If you’re interested in getting cash back for your coins, the best place is often a financial institution where you hold an account, such as your bank or credit union. Unlike Coinstar, banks and credit unions often do not charge their customers fees for this service. 

While you’re cashing in on the loose change around your house, it’s a good time to see if you have any gold and silver jewelry lying around that you no longer wear. 

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Does Coinstar have a limit?

Coinstar has a limit of $3,000 per coin-counting session. 

What percentage does Coinstar take?

Coinstar charges an 11.9% coin-processing fee. So if you cash in $100 worth of coins, you’ll pay a fee of $11.90, leaving you with $88.10. However, fees may vary by Coinstar kiosk location.

Where can I cash in coins for free?

You can cash in coins at some banks and credit unions for free — especially if you have an account.

What’s the best place to cash in coins?

If you’re interested in getting cash back for your coins, the best place is often a financial institution where you hold an account, such as your bank or credit union. Unlike Coinstar, banks and credit unions often do not charge their customers fees for this service.

Whether you’re going through a divorce, need to satisfy a court order, or you just want to become a better mom, dad or caregiver, parenting classes can help you build a healthier relationship with your children.

Christina Puterbaugh, a licensed marriage and family therapist in Reston, Va., says it’s important to understand that parenting classes are not for “bad parents.”

“They are often for parents who simply want to make sure they’re doing the best they can for their children,” she says.

Finding the right parenting class — one that fulfills any requirements and fits into your schedule — might seem like a tall order. But there are more flexible and accessible options for parenting classes than ever before.

Keep reading to learn more benefits of taking a parenting class and how to find one that works for you: 

What are parenting classes?

6 benefits of parenting classes

  1. Build a closer bond with your children
  2. Manage conflict
  3. Learn a new parenting style
  4. Communicate more effectively
  5. Craft a new family routine
  6. Become a successful co-parent

When should you start parenting classes?

What do you do in parenting classes?

What should you look for in a parenting class?

What do you learn in parenting classes?

How long do parenting classes last?

Are parenting classes effective?

How much money do parenting classes cost?

Which states require parent education classes in divorce?

Bottom line: Are parenting classes worth it?

What are parenting classes?

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Parenting classes are designed to help you provide a healthy physical and emotional environment for your children. 

In some cases, you might be required to take a parenting class by child and youth support services or some other state department. When it comes to divorce and family court, many courts require parenting classes, particularly those that focus on co-parenting after divorce or when parents live separately. 

Even if you aren’t required to take a parenting class, it still can be worthwhile to learn  about child development, and discover effective tools and techniques for raising children to be resilient.

6 benefits of parenting classes

Parenting classes can improve the way you interact with your children. If you’re going through a divorce, they can also help you navigate co-parenting with your former spouse.

Here are 6 benefits of taking parenting classes:

1. Build a closer bond with your children

Parenting classes can help you learn to actively listen to your children’s concerns, tune in to their needs, and maximize the time you spend together, especially if you don’t live with your children full-time. 

“Children don’t come with a handbook, and research is constantly helping us learn how to interact with our children better,” says Dr. Sarah Kendrick, a licensed clinical psychologist with Thriveworks in San Francisco. 

2. Manage conflict

If you struggle to control your anger or don’t know how to respond when your kids act out, parenting classes can help you learn and practice conflict resolution skills. Likewise, if you’re co-parenting with an ex, learning to manage conflict can reduce your stress and show your children what healthy conflict resolution looks like. 

“The children then can, in turn, learn to manage conflict effectively themselves,” Puterbaugh says. 

Parenting classes can help you identify and address unhealthy parenting habits, including these common toxic parenting signs. 

“Learning what things can be harmful to a child's development allows you to modify your behavior to parent more effectively,” Kendrick says. 

3. Learn a new parenting style

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We often base our parenting style on how we were raised — or in opposition to the way we were raised. Learning about different parenting styles can help you fine-tune the way you communicate, discipline, and relate to your children. 

But no matter the parenting style, children benefit from parents being on the same page, Puterbaugh says. 

“Often, children are skilled at splitting, or going to the parent with whom they believe is going to either side with them or give them what they want,” Puterbaugh says. 

She says parenting classes can help parents get on the same page and raise their children with a more consistent, intentional way.

4. Communicate more effectively

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Research published in Frontiers in Psychology found that efforts to improve the quality of parent-child communication may actually improve a child’s academic success. 

Parenting classes can teach you how to better listen to and communicate effectively to better connect with your child. 

5. Craft a new family routine

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Family dynamics are constantly changing — perhaps with a breakup, birth of a child, death of a parent, relocation, or a long-distance work assignment — parenting classes can help you navigate a new normal.

“Anytime you implement new skills, you have the ability to create a family routine that makes space for a new family dynamic,” Kendrick says.

6. Become a successful co-parent

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Parenting classes are required in some states as part of the divorce process, and they can give you the tools you need to successfully co-parent with your kids’ other parent, even if you’re dealing with a narcissist or you prefer to follow a parallel parenting plan. 

You might also want to consider a parenting class before you file for divorce:

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When should you start parenting classes?

It can help to start parenting classes at any point in the parenting journey. However, the earlier you start learning the tools and techniques for better parenting, the more likely you are to be an effective parent. 

Additionally, if you know you’re going to be getting divorced, it can help to enroll in a co-parenting class as soon as possible to begin working on the new family dynamic.

Reasons to take a parenting class include:

  • You're a new parent and feel clueless
  • You're going through a divorce or breakup
  • You have a very difficult child or violent home
  • You're required to take court-ordered parenting or co-parenting classes
  • You are seeking a parenting course for autism, teenagers or another special need
  • Anger management is an issue
  • You just want to be a more confident mom or dad

What do you do in parenting classes?

That depends on the type of parenting classes you’re taking and whether you take them online or in person. Court-mandated parenting classes must meet certain criteria set forth by each state, which may include taking a final exam and receiving a certificate of completion.

Parenting classes often provide insight into child development as well as offering tools and techniques for providing a supportive emotional environment. Parenting classes also often focus on ways for you to manage your own emotions and response.

Parenting classes may include lectures, interaction with the teacher and other students, role-playing, watching educational videos, some writing assignments and other ways of learning.

For example, court-approved parenting class provider Online Parenting Programs offers several types of online classes, including those on: 

  • Co-parenting divorce class – Covers family dynamics, changes in family structures and their effect on children, common parenting mistakes, shared parenting tips, advice on co-parenting mediation and crafting a parenting plan
  • High-conflict co-parenting class – Teaches you how to cope with stress/manage emotions, solve co-parenting issues, and avoid extreme behaviors that can negatively impact your child
  • Parenting skills class – Helps parents with child development, sleep issues, nighttime fears, potty training, self-esteem, socialization, child care, discipline, health, raising children with disabilities, and parental resources
  • High-risk parenting skills class – Class tackles topics like abuse/neglect, juvenile justice, relatives caring for children, partner violence, complex family situations and helps children understand the needs of their children as they grow

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What should you look for in a parenting class?

A parenting class should have some online reputation — via BBB, Trustpilot, Google or other site. Also look for credentials from the instructor, such as being a therapist or counselor or social worker. Look for designations like: 

  • Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) 
  • Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) 
  • Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) 
  • Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor of Mental Health (LPCC)

If needed, make sure the parenting class will satisfy any court-ordered requirements. 

Here are our top recommendations: 


Court-ordered parenting classes: OnlineParentingPrograms.com
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What do you learn in parenting classes?

In general, you gain access to knowledge, tools and resources designed to help you create a home environment and family relationships that enhance the wellbeing of children and parents. You can learn how to control your anger and other feelings, discipline techniques, how to better co-parent with your child's mom or dad and how to create routines and schedules for your family.

How long do parenting classes last?

Parenting classes can last anywhere from two hours to several weeks, depending on the course you choose. Some court-ordered parenting classes can be completed in several hours online, as long as it meets the requirements of the court. Other parenting classes last 6 to 12 weeks, and include coaching and counseling.

Are parenting classes effective?

Research published in the journal Research on Social Work Practice reviewed six studies of parenting classes, ranging from the study of newborns to teenagers, and found that parenting classes have the potential to create a calmer home environment and better outcomes for children, as well as the parents, co-parenting relationships, and overall family and household wellbeing.

A definitive list of 7 co-parenting boundaries you need to know

How much money do parenting classes cost?

Parenting classes range in cost, depending on what you are trying to accomplish. There are free online parenting classes, as well as free in-person parenting classes provided by state agencies and nonprofits. However, you might have to pay anywhere between $25 and more than $200 for parenting classes that offer different tools and resources. 

If you need to find court-approved parenting classes that cost money, there might be some financial assistance available.

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Which states require parent education classes in divorce?

Some states require families going through divorce or family court to take parenting classes in an effort to reduce conflict and better co-parenting relationships.

These states require all divorcing parents to attend parenting classes:

  • Alaska
  • Arizona
  • Connecticut
  • Delaware
  • Florida
  • Hawaii
  • Illinois
  • Massachusetts
  • Missouri
  • New Hampshire
  • New Jersey
  • Oklahoma
  • Tennessee
  • Utah
  • Washington
  • West Virginia
  • Wisconsin

Idaho, Minnesota, Nebraska, and Virginia require parents filing a contested divorce to attend a parenting class.

Court-monitored communication? Get a co-parenting app

Best co-parenting apps: We review 16 paid and free co-parenting apps

Bottom line: Are parenting classes worth it?

Parenting classes benefit adults and children by providing direction to parents when it comes to creating healthy physical and emotional environments. According to a research review of different parenting programs, parenting classes can help children with behavioral and emotional adjustment, as well as contribute to parental wellbeing.

Plus, even great parents can learn something new — after all, Tiger Woods has a swing coach!

When you do online parenting classes, you have the advantage of completing the work at your own pace and reviewing information you missed the first time. On the other hand, you might not get the same level of in-person support with online parenting classes that you’d get with parenting classes near you.

However, with in-person classes, you might not be able to work around a difficult schedule since you need to be present at a specific time and plan for transportation to the class. Attending in-person classes can also be an embarrassing experience, especially if you run into someone you know.

Regardless, parenting classes can be beneficial for many families open to growing and changing.

What are parenting classes?

Parenting classes are designed to help you provide a healthy physical and emotional environment for your children.

When should you start parenting classes?

It can help to start parenting classes at any point in the parenting journey. However, the earlier you start learning the tools and techniques for better parenting, the more likely you are to be an effective parent.

What do you do in parenting classes?

Parenting classes may include lectures, interaction with the teacher and other students, role-playing, watching educational videos, some writing assignments and other ways of learning.

What do you learn in parenting classes?

In general, you gain access to knowledge, tools and resources designed to help you create a home environment and family relationships that enhance the wellbeing of children and parents. You can learn how to control your anger and other feelings, discipline techniques, how to better co-parent with your child's mom or dad and how to create routines and schedules for your family.

How long do parenting classes last?

Parenting classes can last anywhere from two hours to several weeks, depending on the course you choose. Some court-ordered parenting classes can be completed in several hours online, as long as it meets the requirements of the court. Other parenting classes last 6 to 12 weeks, and include coaching and counseling.

How much money do parenting classes cost?

Parenting classes range in cost, depending on what you are trying to accomplish. There are free online parenting classes, as well as free in-person parenting classes provided by state agencies and nonprofits. However, you might have to pay anywhere between $25 and more than $200 for parenting classes that offer different tools and resources.

Are parenting classes worth it?

Parenting classes benefit adults and children by providing direction to parents when it comes to creating healthy physical and emotional environments. According to a research review of different parenting programs, parenting classes can help children with behavioral and emotional adjustment, as well as contribute to parental wellbeing.

Encouraging words from Christie (who learned to ride a street motorcycle by herself):

“Identify one on this list that sounds a little scary and hard, and then chip away at it until you’ve conquered it. That is a goal anyone can achieve!”

This is a list I co-created with the wonderful members of our closed Facebook group Millionaire Single Moms:

Travel

“Travel somewhere where you don’t speak the language,” Cheryl says.

Learn all about house swapping and hiring a petsitter.

5 benefits of hiring a housekeeper or house cleaner

Roadtrip

Read my 7 tips for roadtrips for single moms from my many long trips with Helena and Lucas.

Hike

I've found myself feeling scared, alone on a trail (bears can smell your period, right?), but also exhilarated by the solidarity with nature, the danger of it (a little and only sometimes).

Camp

Especially if you're not experienced with it.

Go to the beach

If you want to earn perks like airline miles and points you can redeem for cash or free hotel stays.

Negotiate on and then buy a home (or car)

If you're ready, owning a house or condo can be a very scary, exciting, empowering and wise adult decision that you may have never thought you could do solo — even if you have a low income. More on low-income home loans, and grants for homes.

Orgasm

Says Cheryl: “Learn how your body works and what makes you have awesome fulfilling orgasms!” Related: Why dating is better as a single mom

Go to a sex-toy shop

Literally go in to a store and shop for a vibrator or other goodies — don't cheat by shopping online!

Also, learn more about feeling sexy at any size.

Open and own and fund a savings account — in your name alone

Learn more about how and why to save.

Open and fund an investment account

File your taxes

Courtney says: “I’m currently irritated in the process of learning this, and wish I had done it sooner.”

What single moms and dads need to know about taxes

Write a will / estate plan

Whether or not you have kids, pets or a partner, a will and estate plan will be a kind gift to your decedents, even if you don't care what happens to your things and money after you die.

Buy life insurance

You know you need it, and buying it yourself for those who depend on you — or who you would like to benefit — reminds you how meaningful you are, just as you are.

Live alone in your own home

Not being alone a lot because your partner works a lot / travels extensively / is deployed. No – sign your own lease, put all bills in your own name, buy your own furniture. Lola shared: “My mom always said the one she regretted was never living alone. She went from her parents house to married life then kids. Living alone before I had kids was the best time I’ve ever had 😊.”

Fix a major appliance

Free home repair programs for low-income families

Decorate your home, just as you like it

Whether you are moving on from divorce, or otherwise living alone, decorating your own home is a powerful experience. One timeless option for decor is real-touch, wholesale artificial flowers with ultra-realistic textures. These lifelike florals mimic the beauty of fresh flowers, providing long-lasting elegance without the need for constant care.

Enjoying a nice meal in a restaurant

Says Kelsi: “For some reason, that was a big one for me. But now I love taking myself on movie and dinner dates. I have no problem being alone now but it took some work to get there.”

Go to a movie

Search “movies near me”

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Attend the theater

Free outdoor shows, expensive Broadway productions in your town, indy theater!

Go to a sporting event or a concert

“Start a fire (campfire or in your fireplace),” Jennifer says.

Go to a bar or club alone

“I was so intimidated but it was such an empowering feeling to be able to do it confidently!” says Jasmine.

Go dancing (salsa, swing, ballroom, whatever sounds fun to you)

“People go solo and it’s no big deal, you get to have fun and meet great people!” — Selena

Go on a date with yourself

Plan your perfect evening: dinner at a restaurant, hiking and picninic, or even Netflix and chill?

Intentionally carve out an evening to stay home alone and binge Netflix / Hulu / Amazon Prime, and savor every minute.

Book a European Cruise

See Europe from the water, drifting past historic cities and picturesque villages while you unwind.

Work a power tool (and yes, that kind, too)

Here is a list of a few basic power drill and tool kit that every adult needs:

Change a tire

This quick and dirty video shows you how to change a tire by yourself:

Learn where to get free tires.

Home improvement projects

Wallpaper a bedroom, replace a vanity, fix a kitchen cabinet, conquer the world.

Mow a lawn

Says Gina of the three things to do by yourself, above: “Not because any of these are fun but so you CAN!”

Spend a major holiday solo

Says Cameron: New Year’s Eve! I spent it alone last year, and it was the most wonderful, introspective and empowering experience to be alone on NYE and totally okay with it!”

Throw a dinner party

Just because! My roundup of grocery delivery and meal-planning services.

Basic car repairs and maintenance

Says Danyle: “Know how to check your oil/put more in if needed, check tire pressure, and know other basic things about cars so you’re not taken advantage of — and then make a man feel like an idiot when they tell you your cars needs some ridiculous thing and you can set them straight…feels so good!”

Learn how to get a free car and where to get free car repairs.

Take out the trash cans to the street

Cynthia says: “I use to hate doing this. But now I feel so strong doing it without a man. Such a simple thing but so powerful for me.”

Spend several days alone — not visiting or speaking with anyone else

Learn more about affordable travel through sits like HomeExchange or TrustedHouseSitters.

My experience taking a solo vacation as a single mom

When, my kids are in Europe with their dad for weeks, I take advantage of the time alone. Everyone kept asking what special things I was going to do with all my free time. I had a long list of friends I hoped to see, work and home projects that had gone unattended to, and for the most part I can say I didn’t make a dent in any of that.

But I did fixate on getting away for a few days. Recently I’ve fantasized about a writer’s weekend. I envisioned myself in a cabin in the woods where I could escape city noise and filth and lavish in the gruesome loneliness that creative people know fuels great art.

But then that fantasy started to feel like garden-variety loneliness. After all, I spend much of my life writing, alone, and feeling lonely. Doing the same in a prettier location is no vacation!

Enter my recent lover. We started planning a weekend at an inn upstate New York. At the last minute he sprung a fever and took to hibernation, and I considered canceling the getaway all together. But I just could not squander the precious kid-free time away. So at 4 p.m. Friday I booked an AirBnB property – a funky cabin in the woods upstate New York – tossed my hiking boots, swim suit and a going-out dress (you never know) in my overnight bag. Grabbed some croissants at my corner bakery and fruit at the weird Pakistani bodega that sells more or less nothing you would ever need but has fantastic melons and avocados — and I was outta there. 

Less than two hours later I pulled up to the cabin, secluded from the road and just big enough for one or two people — and it was all mine for the weekend. I was greeted by my friendly host who invited me to join him for dinner — pasta made with swiss chard pesto from his garden. As we drank cold beer and chatted about work (he’s an exhibit designer), and romance (he just wrapped up a two-year affair with a local college boy whose name he does not know) I was brought back to my own many solo travel adventures in my teens and early 20s — the way people and experiences magically unfold when you are on the road.

The next morning I woke up in the windowed sleeping loft surrounded by the vision and smell of green. Took my time enjoying black coffee and figs on a chaise lounge the stone patio (close your eyes and imagine me as Cleopatra – I did) when a flock of eight or nine wild turkeys emerged from the property’s many raspberry bushes.

I then jumped in the car and headed to a forest preserve a few miles away. Thrilling in an outing unencumbered by kids and the many accruements they require, I all but leapt out of the car with nothing more than my keys, a tampon and a $20 in my pocket.

The preserve was perfect and empty of any other people. Golden late summer sun shone through the giant trees. A quiet lake where I sat and sat — silver fish intermittently leaping out, here, there (did they sense me?). It felt so good to move my body, climb up mossy hills and over logs, fill my lungs with clean air. It was delightful to be totally, completely alone.

“I’m completely alone,” I thought. “Wait, I’m completely alone.” An edge set in. I wasn’t sticking to the marked trails. I had no food or water. I’d left the map in the car. Bears can smell your period, right? I started to think about The Blair Witch Project.

Needless to say I found my way back – and in a way, back into my old self.

This weekend — like those years ago, backpacking around South America and Europe, jetting off for last-minute weekends to see friends — the experience was just being. Just being in the quiet. Just falling asleep looking at the stars through the skylight. Just napping without guilt or a wakeup time. Just sitting in the cool mountain sun and being so grateful that there is time and place and money to luxuriate in the opportunity to recalibrate.

I thought about how in the past bunch of months I have felt a disconnect from my kids. There are parenting tasks I do not enjoy — I do not enjoy playing make-believe (hello — I’m a journalist. Real life is really interesting, kids!). I do not enjoy hanging out at the playground or engaging in a game of tag. No. But I do enjoy travel. And exploring, and meeting people and talking and learning about the world. And that is what I plan to do more of with my family — without guilt for my disinterest in the other stuff.

And so, in my ongoing gratitude exercise I am grateful for this time away. Time away all by myself. Because being alone doesn’t always have to feel lonely. In fact, it can give you the perspective you need to connect with people in your life in new ways.

If you have gold or silver coins you want to sell, they can be worth quick cash. 

If your coins are rare or potentially valuable, we cover where you can sell valuable coins.

If your coin isn’t collectible, it is still worth its scrap value. Learn more about the value of gold and silver scrap, and how to sell it for the most money.

Here's what else you should know about selling coins:

Places where you can sell coins

Best place to sell coins

Process for how to value coins

FAQs about selling coins for cash

Bottom line: What is the best way to sell my coins?

Where to sell coins

If you have coins that are potentially rare or valuable, you can sell them to:

  • Coin dealers
  • Coin collectors
  • Auction houses
  • Online marketplaces

If you have bullion coins or other kinds of coins that are less valuable, consider:

  • Pawn shops
  • Cash for gold stores
  • Coin machines
  • Online metal buyers

Keep reading to learn more about where and how to sell valuable coins and coins worth scrap:

I have coins that might be valuable. Who buys old coins?

If you’ve got coins to sell, the good news is that you will have no shortage of potential buyers, including:

  • Individual collectors: If you’ve got an exceedingly rare or valuable coin, selling that coin directly to an individual collector is likely to get you the most money for your coin or collection. Of course, finding the perfect collector can take months or even years, and requires you to do a lot of work on your own to make the sale happen.
  • Coin dealers/coin shops: If you're searching the internet for ways to “sell coins for cash near me,” a coin shop or dealer is likely to get you your money much quicker than if you were to try to sell directly to a collector yourself. But it is important to note that the dealer will likely not pay as much as the collector would. After all, they need to make money when they make the final sale. In general, it is not uncommon for a coin shop to purchase a coin at 60%-80% of the price that they themselves will sell it.
  • Auction houses: An auction house can be a great way of selling valuable coins or collections, because it allows multiple bidders to drive up the final price. Auction houses also tend to have relationships with collectors, which can make it easier to sell the piece. Of course, the auction house will take a cut of the final sale price for their work, and most will have strict limits for the coins they accept. This is likely only a route for exceedingly valuable coins. 
  • Online marketplaces: An online marketplace like ebay, Etsy, or countless other sites can put you in touch with thousands of potential buyers online. However, as the majority of these sites tend to charge a fee to list each individual item (on top of the percentage of each sale they take) this can be an expensive way of selling your coins — as well as very time-consuming.

If you are not yourself a coin collector and don’t have a clear understanding of what your coin collection might be worth, working with a coin dealer or auction house can be a great way of learning about your coins so that you are sure you are getting a fair price when you sell. Of course, these options involve their own fees, which will eat into your profits.

Douglas Winter, founder of Douglas Winter Numismatics, has written more than a dozen books on numismatics — the study/collection of currency.

He says most people who inherit coins inherit a random assortment — what he calls an accumulation — rather than a collection with documentation. 

“I would say 98% of the time that I'm contacted by somebody with coins, it's kind of just a random accumulation of stuff, and there's not going to be much of value,” he says. 

However, if you inherit a collection from dealers with meticulous records, that’s a good sign you likely have something of some value.If you do have a high-quality, documented collection, Winter recommends seeking out a qualified specialized dealer, preferably one who is a member of the Professional Numismatists Guild (PNG). PNG offers a search tool to find qualified coin dealers on its website.

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Winter says local coin dealers — places like pawn shops and local cash for gold buyers — are likely to offer a fraction of what you could get from a large national dealer, auction company, or a reputable PNG dealer. 

I have coins that aren’t collectible. Where can I sell all my coins at once?

If your coins do not have value as collectibles, though, selling them becomes much easier. Gold buyers and silver buyers use two factors to determine the price of items they buy: the purity of the metal, and the weight of the object. The closer you get to 24 karats, and the heavier your coin, the more it will be worth.

These are some places you can take a lot of coins at once:

  • Pawn shops: Best way to cash in on coins if you need money quickly
  • Cash for gold stores: If your coins consist of precious metals like gold or silver and are not otherwise valuable as collectibles, then selling them to a cash for gold store or an online cash for gold buyer is likely to be your quickest path to getting the most money in your pocket. 
  • Coin machines: If you have pocket change you’d like to turn into cash, you can typically find Coinstar and other similar coin machines in grocery and big box stores. These machines accept loose change, which you can convert to cash (usually for a fee), a gift card (like Amazon, Applebees, Doordash, AMC, Gap, etc.), or a donation to a charity of your choice.

Best place to sell coins online and for the most money: CashforGoldUSA

There are a number of online outlets where you can sell your coins, but CashforGoldUSA is our No. 1 recommendation for all but the rarest of coins. 

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  • Founded in 2005, this company that buys gold, diamonds and silver in any form
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How to value coins before you sell

To find out how much your coins are worth, start by researching online. Visit sites like ebay and Reddit to see what similar coins are selling for.

If you believe your coins are rare or otherwise valuable as a collector’s item, you can search for a “coin dealer near me” who can give you an appraisal on your coins.

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You can also consult The Red Book, A Guide Book of United States Coins 2022 75th Edition.

Winter also recommends the Professional Coin Grading Service as an online source to find out information about your coins. 

There are also apps available, like CoinSnap, that help you identify coins in your possession.

If you determine your coins are not worth anything more than their scrap metal value, you can send them to CashforGoldUSA to get the melt value before selling. A local metals buyer, pawn shop or jeweler can also weigh and grade the quality of the metal in your coins.

Which coins are worth money?

Coins can be valued in a number of different ways. For example, you might value a coin based on its:

  • Rarity: The rarer a particular coin, mintmark, or series, the more valuable the coin will likely be. Coins that were misstamped, misprinted, or which otherwise contain errors can likewise be worth significant amounts of money.
  • Grade: The condition of a coin can be graded on a scale from Poor to Mint State (with a number of steps along the way). The better the coin’s condition, the higher the grade will be, and the more valuable it is likely to be.
  • Metal composition: Many coins, especially older coins, consist of precious metals like gold, silver, platinum, and various other alloys. In addition to any value these coins have as collectibles, they also have an inherent value depending on the purity of the metal that they contain.
  • Face value: So long as the currency is still in use, every coin will be worth at least its face value, even if it has no worth as a collectible.
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What coins are most valuable?

The more rare the coin and the greater its historical significance, the more valuable it’s likely to be. According to the American Numismatic Association, these are six of the most valuable coins: 

  • 1794 Flowing Hair Dollar: $10 Million
  • 1933 St. Gaudens Gold Double Eagle: $7.6 Million
  • 1787 EB on Breast Brasher Doubloon: $7.4 Million
  • 723 Umayyad Caliphate Gold Dinar: $6 Million
  • 1913 Liberty Head Nickel: $4.5 Million
  • 1804 Bust Dollar: $4.1 Million

Which coins are worth selling?

While most people don’t have multi-million dollar coins lying around, these are some common coins worth selling that a dealer would likely buy for their precious metal content (based on the December 2024 pricing for those metals): 

Common silver coins:

Morgan Dollars$24.67
Peace Dollars$24.67
Liberty Head (Barber) Half-Dollars$11.54
Walking Liberty Half-Dollars$11.54
Franklin Half-Dollars$11.54
Kennedy Half-Dollars$11.54
Liberty Head (Barber) Quarters$5.77
Standing Liberty Quarters$5.77
Washington Quarters$5.77
Liberty Head (Barber) Dimes$2.30
Winged Liberty Head (Mercury) Dimes$2.30

Common gold coins:

American Gold Eagle$2,876
American Buffalo$2,637
Canadian Gold Maple Leaf$2,637
Indian Head Gold Eagle$1,275
South African Krugerrand$2,637

How do I find out what my coins are worth?

A visit to a local coin dealer, reading about coins through books and quality internet posts, as well as info like on this video can help you get started learning about buying, selling and collecting coins — including selling coins:

Is there a free app to scan coins for value?

CoinSnap is an app available on iOS and Android devices that uses AI technology to identify coins. The app is free to download but costs $30 a year to use.

FAQs about selling coins for cash

When should I sell my coins?

“The obvious answer is you want to sell when prices are strong, and not when they are weak,” Winter says.

Hower, if you need money, there is always a market for coins — and cash in hand is better than not.

Who pays the most for old coins?

Reputable coin dealers who understand the value of old and rare coins are likely to pay you the most for them. Look for dealers who are members of the Professional Numismatists Guild.

Is there tax on inherited coins?

The federal government does tax any inheritance, including coins. However, three points to keep in mind:

  • Coins are taxed only when they are sold
  • Coins are taxed as an estate tax, paid for by the decedent
  • Some states also levy their own inheritance tax

Bottom line: What is the best way to sell my coins?

If you want to sell coins for the most money, you should first find a reputable local coin dealer or auction house to evaluate your coins and determine if they hold any value as a collector’s item. If you know the type of the coin you have, you can also do internet research and look at recent sales of similar coins to determine a fair sales price. 

If your coins are not worth money as a collector’s item, you’re likely to get the most money for your coins by selling them to a local pawn shop, metals exchange or online precious metals buyer.

CashforGoldUSA, our top choice for selling non-collectible coins online, accepts all of the following (and more):

How do I find out what my coins are worth?

A visit to a local coin dealer, reading about coins through books and quality internet posts, and YouTube videos could help determine if you have coins of value.

Is there a free app to scan coins for value?

CoinSnap is an app available on iOS and Android devices that uses AI technology to identify coins. The app is free to download but costs $30 a year to use.

Who buys old coins?

If you’ve got coins to sell, the good news is that you will have no shortage of potential buyers, including: individual collectors, coin dealers, coin shops, auction houses, and online marketplaces.

Where can I sell all my coins at once?

You can sell a coin collection at once to: metal buyers, coin collectors, and coin machines.

Who pays the most for old coins?

Reputable coin dealers who understand the value of old and rare coins are likely to pay you the most for them. Look for dealers who are members of the Professional Numismatists Guild.

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