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7 Christian dating apps and sites’ reviews in 2023

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Christian dating sites help lonely Christians connect with people with similar values and find meaningful partnerships with other Christians. It can be easy to feel overwhelmed, confused, and shy about the many dating apps on the market. This guide will help you find the highest quality dating app in which to invest your hard-earned dollars, time, and vulnerable heart:

  1. Big Church
  2. Christian Cafe
  3. Christian Cupid
  4. Christian Mingle
  5. Crosspaths
  6. Upward Christian Dating
  7. eharmony

Our No. 1 dating app recommendation for Christians is actually not branded as a Christian at all. eharmony is the leading dating site for those seeking long-term partnership, with an emphasis on religious affiliation.

We like eharmony for Christian dating because:

  • A- Better Business Bureau rating
  • Scientifically proven to assist with more marriages and very low divorce rates when compared with other dating sites, quantified in a study published in Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.
  • Matches based on a deep personality questionnaire that emphasizes spirituality and religion
  • eharmony's founder Neil Clark Warren is a Christian theologian and seminary professor who developed the app based on his belief in the value of partnership and marriage.

Learn more about eharmony in our review, or try eharmony for free now >>

1. Big Church

Big Church lives up to its name in that its extensive user base is active. Elaborate, detailed profiles help with getting to know your potential mate.

The “Relationship Readiness” test quantifies and rates your values, aspirations, and family attitude to closely match you with a mate. Couples that share commonalities are more likely to stay committed. “Color Code” is another tool that color-codes your personality and makes it easier to stand out.

Unfortunately, the mobile site could stand tremendous improvements. Besides a handful of glitches, Big Church claims it has an iPhone app (using the Friend Finder Network app to log in), the result is disappointing. Once you try to download the app, it's not available “in your country or region.”

Is legit?

Yes, Big Church is legit. People put work into their profiles, and most interact with sincerity and are transparent with their goals. However, as with any app, exercise caution and make sure that a friend/family member knows where you are at all times.

There are no strict requirements for identity verification. Simply sign up with a valid email address and to create an account.

Also, it may seem disturbing to some that Big Church's parent company, Friend Finder Network, also owns Penthouse magazine and other niche dating sites, including Adult Friend Finder (used exclusively for hookups, threesomes, and fetishes).  In other words, a profit-driven company owns Big Church and not a team of devoted Christians. Although not accredited on BBB, Big Church's parent company (Friend Finder Network) holds an F rating.

Is Big Church Dating free?

In the free version of Big Church Dating, you can make matches. However, you are unable to communicate unless you pay to subscribe. If you are looking for free apps (or even try an app before committing), this is not the app for you. You will not meet a potential match for free. On the bright side, since you must pay to connect, the quality of singles is superior to free sites.

Big Church Dating pricing

1 Month Silver$15.95
3 Months Silver$29.95 ($9.98 per month)
1 Month Gold$19.95
3 Months Gold$39.95 ($13.32 per month)

Big Church pros

  • Thorough profiles and tons of features
  • Straightforward, intuitive design

Big Church cons

  • Cannot send/receive messages in the free version
  • No app, and the mobile and regular site malfunctions/inconvenient

Big Church reviews


I canceled my membership a few months back, yet is STILL DEBITING MY BANK CARD.!!!! Please help!! — Anonymous

HUGE SCAM SITE. Big CHURCH. I am a member of Big Church. I wish I had never joined. Christian Mingle is way better. Big Church has so many fake accounts it is ridiculous. If someone is beautiful, you automatically assume they are a fake, foreign person. The clues are apparent when they can't write English past a middle school level. Not even that. But when you talk with them on the phone, they try to muffle their voice. CREEPY. This site is charging you to view fake foreign accounts w fake good-looking pictures mostly. Terrible. — Anonymous

2. Christian Café

With 2.3 stars out of 5 on the App Store, Christian Café is not the highest-rated Christian dating app (it also has fewer members than Christian Mingle). The sign-up process is straightforward, and the site/app offers outstanding search filters. You can narrow down your search by faith commitment, app activity, and so much more. The site also takes the guesswork from searching with the Quick Match feature, a customized match-list catered to your preferences.

If you are a social butterfly, you will love the extra community features (including a question/topic and prayer forums). Christian Café truly lives up to its' name by creating much more than a dating app a community with life/relationship advice forums.

Is Christian Cafe legit?

Christian Café is legit in that it delivers on what it promises. Its Trustpilot rating is 3.8/5. It as an A+ rating on BBB. Developed and owned by Christians, it prioritizes its Christian customers.

Christian Café does not verify identity but it does employ technology that disables profiles that engage in fraudulent activity such as scammers who try to get money from other members.

What is the Cost of Christian Café?

Christian Café offers a 7-day free trial with access to all membership features, which is a plus considering its slightly elevated prices. However, you must subscribe to retain access to any features after the trial.

Christian Café pricing


1 month$44.97
3 months$69.97 ($23.33 per month)
6 months$109.97 ($18.33 per month)
1 year$149.97 ($12.50 per month)

Christian Café pros

  • Owned and Funded by Christians
  • App for iOS

Christian Café cons

  • No practical free features after the initial trial
  • Outdated interface

Christian Cafe reviews

From Trustpilot:

CC is a true Christian dating site

Sadly, this dating site doesn't have more reviews. I love the site because it is truly a Christian dating site. There are very few Christians willing to go on a dating site. Yet, you will find all kinds of “carnal” Christians on POF or Match. If values didn't matter to them, why someone would call themselves a Christian is a mystery to me?
It is the same situation for me in that there are very few Christian men from my state (Washington) in my age range (50-55) on there, which makes it that much harder. But, I'm a firm believer that if it's meant to be, it will be.”
3/5 stars, by Jazzgirl

Trustpilot review for christian dating site christian cafe.
One-star review of Christian Cafe on Trustpilot.

Needs Better Messaging & Options

The app needs to have better messaging functionality (previously reviewed) and more filter options.3/5 stars, by Jason N.

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3. Christian Cupid

Christian Cupid provides an expanding platform for Christian singles to meet a potential mate. While the site is easy to navigate and sign up for, it is bare-boned and standard in features/fun of use. You can search manually or go with the site's faith-based recommendations.

Is Christian Cupid legit?

Operated by the Cupid Media network of 33 niche dating sites, Christian Cupid is trustworthy. While matches are arranged based on Christian principles, it's good to double-check as married individuals are also welcome. Its Trustpilot rating is 3.2/5.

While Christian Cupid does not require a valid I.D. when signing up, you may be asked to present a photo I.D. to verify your identity if you are locked out of your account.

How much does Christian Cupid cost?

Christian Cupid offers limited free features, including sending a “wink” to potential interest, browsing profiles, and interacting on chat with paid members only.

The paid subscription (Gold, Platinum or Diamond) offers an ad-free experience, chatting, and live messaging. In addition, the Platinum subscription enables further emails, profile priority in search results, and instant messaging. The Diamond subscription unlocks premium customer service, higher ranking in search results, priority messaging and other benefits. While the whole experience is somewhat limited, it is an excellent app to try if you live near an urban area or would consider relocating.

Christian Cupid pricing

Diamond Membership

1 Week$15
1 Month$29.98
3 Months$59.97 ($19.99 per month)
12 Months$119.98 ($10 per month)

Platinum Membership

1 Week$7.49
1 Month$14.99
3 Months$29.98 ($9.99 per month)
12 Months$59.99 ($5 per month)

Gold Membership

1 Week$5.49
1 Month$10.99
3 Months$22.99 ($7.66 per month)
12 Months$45.99 ($3.83 per month)

Christian Cupid pros

  • International platform/multi-lingual
  • Straightforward
  • Allows you to search for male/female profiles

Christian Cupid cons

  • No iOS app (Only Android)
  • Limited free and other features

Christian Cupid reviews

From Google Play:

Everyone was super far away from me! I don't like that it doesn't show people closer to me. You also consistently have to update your password! — Amlyn Royeggs

Cupid Media reply:

We apologize for the difficulties you experienced while using our app. If you would like some assistance or additional information, please contact us via, and we will be happy to help you further.”

Most of my matches were last online from 3 to 12 months ago. This app is nonsense. After a period, you should inform them to delete or continue. Rest is fine. — Nath Gómez

New to online dating? This post will help you write an online dating profile, while this is our guide to how to choose dating pics.

4. Christian Mingle

Considering that religious profiling is a niche market, the number of single/quality profiles on Christian Mingle is impressive. However, given the 1.5/5 Trustpilot rating, many fake profiles, horrid customer service, email malfunctions, and unclassified disasters occur.

In 2016 Christian Mingle was forced to become an inclusive community and allow varied search options due to a lawsuit by the LGBT community. Now the site boasts over four million LGBT users. However, according to the site, Christian Mingle is single-handedly responsible for over thirty percent of all Christian marriages. So read on and decide: whom do you believe?

Is Christian Mingle legit?

Yes, Christian Mingle is legitimate and has been around since 2001 to target Christian singles. With its male-to-female ratio being close to equal, it's a unique platform in a dating world where women typically have their pick.

In addition, seniors (over 50) make up close to a quarter percentage of all clients. However, in the free version, you cannot message or have your profile approved (this means no visible picture), so you will either think yourself terribly unpopular or not get a good idea of how the app works.

Christian Mingle reviews member profiles but does not use identity verification tools such as background checks or criminal screenings.

Read our Christian Mingle review.

How much does it cost to be on Christian Mingle?

Christian Mingle starts at $24.99 per month for a 90-day package. The free features are limited, and you will not score a date without paying.

Christian Mingle pricing

1 Month$42.99 per month
3 Months$24.99 per month
6 Months$19.99 per month)

Christian Mingle pros

  • App iOS and Android
  • Blog
  • Multi-lingual options

Christian Mingle cons

  • No free chat/profile “pending review” until subscription purchase
  • Numerable fake profiles

Christian Mingle reviews (

“One star is way too many

After my husband passed, I reluctantly decided to try online dating. Thinking a Christian website might be a bit more genuine than others, I paid $50 for a month of fake profiles, fake contacts, fake people, and fake customer service. There is NOTHING real about this website. Just scammers are trying to take advantage of vulnerable people wanting to make a genuine connection. — Beth D.

A Total Scam

A total scam! I received dozens of smiles every day from women all over the U.S. and other countries. I'm 53 years old, and I know my playing field. There's no way on God's green earth these women would be interested in me. Not to mention the numerous messages stating they have a friend “Not on the site” that is perfect for me, and she's really into my profile, and here's how you contact her, really? Do not join this site! The owners of this site have lots of control, just don't care if they are part of the scam. — Shawn K.

“I want a boyfriend but a good man is hard to find.”

5. Crosspaths

Crosspaths is a steadily growing platform for Christian singles looking for love. While the number of local profiles is limited, you are not limited to your geographical location (even though you must allow location tracking on your phone). In addition to the app experience, Crosspaths offers social events where local singles mingle. With over 110,000 members across the US, Crosspaths is growing exponentially. The biggest age group are males between the mid-20s to early 30s.

Is the Crosspaths dating app legit?

Crosspaths is a legitimate app (available for iOS or Android) although simple without many features. Fake profiles are minimal due to a stringent sign-up process. You can only create an account using either your Apple ID or Facebook, and this is the extent of identity verification. One downside is that you may end up swiping on the same profiles multiple times, presumably due to a limited database of active users.

Is Crosspaths dating app free?

Signing up is free, and you can browse profiles without paying. The process is easy and intuitive. You answer the standard questions and specify your denomination and level of Christian devotion. Your answers to the faith question allow Crosspaths to pair you with like-minded matches.

While people can add their specifics and other data, the search filters are minimal. For example, you cannot narrow down your choices by height range. However, once you match, you are free to connect. Unpaid features include browsing profiles, swiping left/right, one “super-like,” messaging matches, changing search location. Surprisingly, the app allowed us to “undo” swipes in the free version.

The paid version includes extra features such as message read receipts, and choice of location, seeing who liked you, and access to the “most eligible” profiles.

Crosspaths pricing

1 month$24.99
3 Months$44.99 ($15 per month)
6 Months$59.99 ($10 per month)

Crosspaths pros

  • More legitimate profiles given the Facebook/Apple ID sign-ups
  • The free version is enough to meet and date.

Crosspaths cons

  • No website
  • Limited features and a still-growing base of users

Crosspaths reviews

From Google Play:

I enjoy the simple format. I wish there were more users. It'd be cool if there were an option to plug in social media for more ways to connect with others. But overall, I like how it's based on mutual likes and not random people messaging you. Though I wish you could see who liked you back. — Suzie Toanone

Found my match, and it is going well between us. However, we should be careful with the fake profiles, and Crosspaths should act on that. It hasn't reached very well in India, and the users were also fewer. But somehow, things worked out in my life. — Balaji Baskaran

6. Upward Christian Dating

The Upward dating app is best suited for people who want to date only fellow Christians. This app is available on Android and iOS platforms. You can sign up for a free membership (enough to meet people and possibly date). You can also subscribe to premium or elite memberships. To minimize fake accounts, Upward verifies all accounts with a phone number. Considering most members are looking for long-term relationships or marriages, this may be the app for you.

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Is Upward legit?

Yes, Upward is a legit dating site. While you will come across fake profiles, it's best to exercise caution. You can report any profiles that do not adhere to the community regulations.

Like many other apps, mutual “likes” result in a match and the ability to send messages. You cannot see who “likes” you in the free version until you match someone. You can “super-like” potential mates to let them know you're interested. 

You may start chatting once you match and mutually “like” each other. Potential profiles derive from a computer algorithm and your search preferences. If you include faith and other criteria in your search preferences, you can narrow your results. The free membership offers enough value to make it possible to meet potential matches.

Upward does not perform identity checks on its members.

How much does Upward cost?

The free version is sufficient to swipe through profiles, chat and meet. However, Upward offers premium and elite plans if you wish to splurge.

Upward pricing


1 week$8.99
1 month$14.99
3 months$22.49
6 months$35.99


1 week$17.99
1 month$29.99
3 months$44.99
6 months$71.99

Super-likes and boosts

5-pack of Super-likes$1 each
25-pack of Super-likes$0.60 each
60-pack of Super-likes$0.40 each
1 boost$2.99
5-pack of boosts$2.40 each
10-pack of boosts$1.80 each
  • Upward pros
  • Faith-based profiles with a clean, intuitive interface
  • Priority on lasting relationships
  • Free membership offers value
  • Upward cons
    Upward is still developing, and its' user base/features are in the improvement phases
  • Substandard quality of matches

Upward reviews

From the Apple app store:

Worked for me.

The glory belongs to Christ and Christ alone because all good gifts come from above. I downloaded Upward in late December of 2020 and didn't have high hopes. I prayed about my search and meticulously read bios before swiping left or right. Eventually, I started to chat with a few dudes, but the conversations faded out. I got stood up once, but a very successful series of dates quickly overshadowed that event. One date resulted in an engagement/marriage. So, in summary: I downloaded Upward, met a man who aims to put God first, fell in love with him, and got married (in less than a year). Our timeline may be faster than yours, but hopefully, the results are similar. Thanks Upward ☺️— Ginabinabop

Mixed feelings. I love and dislike it.

I downloaded this during quarantine. I noticed you couldn't see who likes you unless you match. I wish there were a way to see who liked me. There may be people I skipped over and never noticed. I have matches, but people barely message on there. So, it's a little discouraging (maybe offer a video chat feature). Also, I noticed that there aren't that many Christian people, even though it's a Christian dating app. People are “spiritual” that don't consider themselves Christian… that's weird to me. I would think on a Christian Dating app that people dating are not casual. I've noticed some people are on there looking to get their freak on… like, go on Tinder. I'm sure the creators of the app have great intentions.
I'm an African American woman and barely saw any black men. I don't discriminate and love them all, but it would be nice to see people like me. Most people are hunters, fishermen, etc.😭I love Jesus, but man, I am discouraged by who I see. In sum, can there be a paid feature about $2.99 to see who liked you😫? — Djkay9815

7. eharmony

While eharmony is not branded as a Christian dating site, its roots are in Christian, as founder Neil Clark Warren is a psychologist, Christian theologian and seminary professor who developed the app based on his belief in the value of partnership and marriage. A number of the 150+ questions as part of its compatibility test focus on religion, spirituality, morals and values.

Is eharmony legit?

eharmony is one of the oldest dating sites, and has long been accredited by the Better Business Bureau where it enjoys an A- rating as of June 2023. The site is very active with hundreds of millions of members.

eharmony uses SMS (text message) verification to confirm the identity of its members. Members who use this verification feature have an SMS Verified symbol on their profile. eharmony also has a Trust & Safety Team that reviews profiles for legitimacy.

eharmony has proven success connecting singles with long-term partners, according to researchers at the University of Chicago and Harvard who conducted a study of marriages, breakups and divorces. The researchers broke down online dating site where the couple met, and found that couples who met on eharmony had the highest marriage rate, highest marriage satisfaction rate, and the lowest breakup and divorce rates. eharmony had the best results out of all the major dating sites:

  • 25% of the more than 19,000 marriages studied by the University of Chicago started at eharmony
  • 3.86% divorce rate, (vs. national U.S. average of ~50%, per Census data)

eharmony cost:

For June 2023, eharmony’s prices:

Free basic account: $0
6-month membership:$39.54/mo
12-month membership:$27.54/mo << MOST POPULAR
24-month membership:$21.54/mo

You can save 25% off of a eharmony membership with code: WSM25.

Learn more about the details of the eharmony process and research into its success rates in our eharmony review.

Bottom line: What is the best Christian dating site?

What makes a great dating app? Top popular features include convenience, portability, significant user base (less of an issue if you live near an urban center), quality/completeness of profiles, esthetic appeal, and sufficient free features to promote chatting, meeting, and mingling.

So, who are our clear winners? In order we recommend:

  1. eharmony
  2. Christian Cafe
  3. Upward
  4. Crosspaths
  5. Christian Cupid
  6. Big Church
  7. Christian Mingle

If partnership is a priority in your dating, and you hope to meet a Christian, check out eharmony now.

eharmony is the best Christian dating app because of its focus on partnership, high ratings and reveiws, and large number of active users.

With 10 million users, a high Better Business Bureau rating and proven history of helping singles find meaningful, lasting partnership, eharmony is our No. 1 pick.

Interested in other dating sites? Check out our roundup of best dating apps and sites for single parents.

If you are serious about partnership and have money to invest, learn more about professional matchmaking services, including Tawkify and It's Just Lunch.

Looking to meet someone special out in the real world? Check out Meetup today >>

What is the best Christian dating site?

Top popular features include convenience, portability, significant user base (less of an issue if you live near an urban center), quality/completeness of profiles, esthetic appeal, and sufficient free features to promote chatting, meeting, and mingling. If partnership is a priority in your dating, and you hope to meet a Christian, check out

Maria Raczka, PhD, writes about relationships, dating and wellness for sites including, CitySignal, and The Blast. She holds advanced degrees from Northwestern University and the University of Rochester. Maria lives in New Jersey. Maria's LinkedIn profile

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