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While Craigslist can offer some legitimate housing rental listings, its open nature makes it a hotbed for scammers, especially when targeting vulnerable groups like low-income families or those with poor credit. 

These scammers are sneaky… and clever… and know exactly what they are doing to steal money from unsuspecting victims. This guide covers the most common Craigslist housing rental scams and offers tips to protect yourself from falling victim to rental fraud.

Common Craigslist housing rental scams

How to spot a scammer on Craigslist

  1. Prices are too good to be true
  2. Requests for money upfront
  3. Typos, poor grammar, and excessive punctuation in listings
  4. High pressure
  5. Photos appear in other listings
  6. Lister won’t schedule a showing
  7. There is no tenant screening process
  8. Lister refuses to answer basic questions or speak on the phone
  9. The credit check is “free”
  10. You can’t verify the lister’s identity
  11. Unsecured payment methods

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The bottom line: are Craigslist apartments legit?

Common Craigslist housing rental scams

Here are some of the common scams that you might see on Craigslist. It’s essential to be aware of these, as they are more prevalent than you might think. According to the FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3), in 2023 alone, 9,521 people reported losing $145,243,348 due to online rental scams.1

Copycat apartment rental scams

The apartment rental scammer copies postings from legitimate real estate websites and posts them on Craigslist after slightly altering them, usually featuring an unbelievably great price. They will have photos of an adorable place with the desired amenities. The goal is to get you to pay a rental application fee and/or security deposit without showing you the apartment. 

Kevin Vitali, a seasoned Massachusetts realtor, is too familiar with this scam. “In the past, I have had Craigslist scammers stealing listing photos of a house I have had for sale online to use as a fake rental. This has happened many times over an 18+ year career as a listing agent,” he writes on his real estate website.2

Hawkins has experienced this scam firsthand, when a family member shared a listing they were interested in with her. “ The price was way below market rate for the neighborhood, which raised a red flag,” she shares. “I was able to do research and find the legitimate listing which had been duplicated.”

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Red Flags:

  • The rent is much lower than market rates.
  • You Google and find that ads come up for the same address, but with a different owner or rental company name. Per the FTC, that’s a clear sign you’re looking at a scam.3
Victim of Craigslist Apartment Scam
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The house that’s not even for rent scam

Reddit user “Independent-Ad1732” posted that she found her own house listed for rent on Craigslist—but it’s neither for rent nor for sale! 

Meanwhile, Tracey Hawkins, a real estate safety expert and former realtor, says it’s important to discuss generative AI’s role in rental scams. “Criminals are using AI tools like ChatGPT, CoPilot, Gemini, and Midjourney to create deep fakes of properties,” Hawkins, who hosts the award-winning real estate safety podcast, “Drive With NAR: The Safety Series,” says. “Criminals can create images of properties from whole cloth and create listings on Craigslist and even platforms like AirBnB to advertise them. They don’t have to hijack real property photos and listings anymore—it’s quite frightening if people don’t know to question not only the listing description but also the images!”

Red flags, according to the FTC:

  • The fraudulent advertisements may feature unusually low rents or exceptional amenities.
  • When you request a viewing, the scammer might claim to be abroad or provide another excuse for not showing the property, often pressuring you to make a quick decision.
  • The scammer may instruct you to send money via wire transfer, gift card, or cryptocurrency for the application fee, deposit, or first month’s rent.

“Free” house scams

In the ‘free’ house scam, the scammer offers a “free” house or claims the property is available for a low fee due to some hardship they’re facing. They’ll request a negligible processing or administrative fee. In reality, the house doesn’t exist or belongs to someone else. 

Hawkins says this scam isn’t as common as the others, but it does still exist. “Consumers are skeptical of getting something, especially a home or apartment, for free,” she says. “Giving away something of value doesn’t ring true if property owners are facing hardship. So, any offer should be made cautiously, especially if asked to pay upfront. The so-called owner will disappear once they get the money.”

Red Flags:

  • Landlord is offering a “free” house for a minimal fee.
  • There is no way to verify the property belongs to the advertiser.
  • The advertiser is pressuring you to act quickly without proper documentation.

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The “rent to own” scam

Lance Guanella, Lead Housing Counselor at Southwest Improvement Council, says this is one of the most common scams he sees. A rent-to-own agreement is a unique property arrangement where the current homeowner commits to selling you their property at a predetermined price in the future. Under this agreement, a portion of your monthly rent payments is applied towards your eventual down payment on the house.

Rent-t0-own allows you to gradually build equity in the home while renting, potentially making homeownership more accessible. But the FTC warns, “these deals can be risky — and even flat-out scams.” 

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The report “Rent-to-Own the American Dream: The Promises and Perils of Alternative Home Financing,” explains that predatory rent-to-own deals often  target vulnerable populations, particularly low-income communities and communities of color. The report, published by TechEquity Collaborative, states that these unfair deals exploit the dream of homeownership to lure people into unfair agreements.4

The FTC outlines these common complaints and issues with a bad rent-to-own situation:5 

  • The “seller” doesn’t really own the property
  • The owner hasn’t paid property taxes
  • The house is in terrible shape, or has issues like lead or asbestos
  • Promised fixes aren’t made after a contract is signed
  • The house is getting foreclosed on

“If someone is considering a rent to own option, it’s best to have a real estate attorney review the contract before signing,” Guanella advises. He explains that the attorney will make sure that legal ownership of the property would be transferred to you at the conclusion of the rent to own agreement, and that the agreed upon monthly rent amount that would go towards a down payment goes into a type of escrow account. 

Red flags, per the TechEquity Collaborative report:

  • Misleading marketing: Deceptive advertisements promising easy homeownership without credit checks or explaining risks.
  • Unfair contract terms: Complex contracts with hidden clauses that favor the seller and increase the risk of buyer default.
  • Financial traps: Excessive upfront fees, inflated purchase prices, or above-market rent payments.
  • Lack of transparency: Unclear explanations of payment applications and vague property maintenance responsibilities.
  • Legal ambiguities: Contracts that fail to establish clear buyer rights or use alternative financing methods with limited regulation.
  • Property condition issues: Undisclosed poor property conditions or unfair shifting of repair responsibilities to the buyer.
  • Eviction risks: Terms that facilitate easy eviction, potentially resulting in the loss of all invested money.
  • Limited buyer protections: Absence of standard homebuyer safeguards, including professional inspections and appraisals.

Section 8 and low-income housing scams

Scammers target individuals seeking affordable housing, such as Section 8 assistance. They pretend to offer low-income housing or claim to have access to a Section 8 voucher for a fee. They promise to help you bypass government procedures for a price, but there’s no follow-up after payment.

Hawkins says this kind of scam may be underreported, given “the long waiting list for Section 8 properties in many places, and the limited financial resources of those often with children who need to rent.”

The solution? “To raise awareness of how the programs work,” says Hawkins. “All applicants should know to contact the Section 8 and housing departments directly, and understand that the governmental programs don’t typically contract with private businesses to charge a fee to apply for these services.” 

Another important thing to keep in mind: the Section 8 voucher program is often targeted by scammers who create deceptive websites that appear legitimate, complete with official-sounding names and logos, per the FTC.6 These fraudulent sites typically request fees and personal information but provide no actual services, potentially leading to financial loss and identity theft.

In reality, the authentic Section 8 program is administered by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) through local housing authorities. To legitimately apply for a Section 8 voucher, individuals should directly contact their local housing authority to inquire about joining the waiting list lottery in their area, which is always free of charge.

Red Flags:

  • Demands for upfront fees to “help” you qualify for Section 8 housing. 
  • Fees to be “added to a waitlist.” The National Low Income Housing Coalition states: “State and local housing authorities do not charge fees to be added to a waitlist, so a red flag is evident when a social media post seeks payment through reloadable debit cards, gift cards, wire transfers, or cryptocurrency.”7
  • Promises of bypassing government procedures for a price.
  • Listings for rental properties that don’t actually exist. 
  • Requests for personal information, especially Social Security numbers, before providing services.
  • Any request to wire money or pay with a prepaid card for Section 8-related services.8

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Sublet scams

A scammer pretends to be the current tenant and offers to sublease a property they don’t own. After taking your money, they either disappear or continue subleasing the exact property to multiple victims. 

Reddit user “doublemerde” wanted to sublet an apt in Columbus, Ohio and found a good deal on Craigslist. After sending the payment, the landlord claimed it hadn’t gone through. Concerned, the renter decided to do some research on the house.

“I found the listing agent for the house (it was for sale, a red flag) who stated this person was not on any kind of lease. I also did an online search and contacted the ‘leasee’ via Been Verified. The real person then told me that their identity has been used in at least a dozen scams on Craigslist for sublets,” they write.

Craigslist Sublet Scam
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To avoid this scam, ask for proof that they own or rent the property (such as a lease agreement) and insist on meeting them in person before sending any money. 

Helene Raynaud, Money Management International’s Senior Vice President of Housing Initiatives​​​​, advises renters to always check the property in person. 

“If you can’t, find a friend or contact a local real estate agent who might agree to check the place out for you,” she says.

Red flags:

  • Someone claiming to sublease a property without proper documentation.
  • The advertiser is unwilling to meet you or provide proof of tenancy.

Rental application scams

The advertiser will ask for a rental application fee or security deposit before you sign a lease or even see the property. They often vanish after receiving the payment, leaving you out of money. 

Real estate expert Melissa Spittel says that legitimate rentals require you to pay an application fee and/or credit check fee upfront. After you’re approved and ready to sign the lease, you’ll need to provide a security deposit (typically equivalent to one month’s rent) along with the first month’s rent. 

She cautions that if a landlord asks you to pay anything other than an application fee and a credit check fee before even seeing the place or signing the lease, it’s most likely a scam, and you should be highly suspicious.

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Roommate is scamming people
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Red flags:

  • Requests for application fees before showing the property.
  • No formal lease agreement is provided after the application.
  • Payment methods are non-traceable.

Roommate scams

The roommate scam mainly targets the person with the apartment looking for a roommate on Craigslist. The scammer will reply to your ad and show interest in renting the room immediately. They’ll then ask you for your personal details, such as full name, email, and exact physical location. Next, the scammer will send you a money order or check for an amount much higher than the rent/deposit and instruct you to cash the check and send them back the extra money they sent by “mistake.” A few days later, the check will bounce, and you will be out of whatever amount you sent them.

Craigslist Roommate Scam
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Red Flags:

  • The potential roommate seems overly eager or too trusting.
  • Refusal to provide personal identification or references.
  • Wants to send payment before meeting in person or seeing the room.

Short-term rental scams

Scammers post listings for short-term vacation rentals on Craigslist, often in prime locations. The rental prices will be much lower than other properties in the same area. The ‘owner’ will insist the rental is in high demand and pressure you to pay a deposit to book the property. Once you send payment, the scammer disappears.

Red Flags:

  • Last-minute availability for a prime location.
  • The rental price is significantly lower than similar listings.
  • The host refuses to meet or provide a way to verify the property.

How to spot a scammer on Craigslist

Ultimately, the best advice is to trust your gut, says Hawkins.”If something feels wrong or off, believe the feeling, and don’t talk yourself out of it, no matter how much you want the house or apartment.” 

While Craigslist scammers are getting smarter, you can spot and outsmart them—look out for these red flags.

1. Prices are too good to be true

Found your dream rental at half the market rate? Sorry to kill your enthusiasm, but a property priced well below the going market rate in your area is an immediate red flag. “If it sounds too good to be true. It is. Full stop,” says Hawkins. 

Is this a scam? It looks on the border of “too good to be true”. I’m looking for an apartment on Craigslist and the rent is good (not unbelievably good) but with the asking to add my info to some website, it makes me question… The link takes me to TransUnion (that’s what it says it is)
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2. Requests for money upfront 

“Asking for upfront application fees or a security deposit and rent without the opportunity to see the property,” are major red flags, says Guanella. “The prospector renter should never send money without meeting the landlord or property manager in person.” In Denver, he notes, landlords must be licensed to help reduce the risk of working with a scammer.

‘Licensed’ Property manager from Craigslist wants us to pay security deposit and 1st months rent before even seeing the property.
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3. Typos, poor grammar, and excessive punctuation in listings

Typos, grammar mistakes, and poor punctuation that doesn’t make sense are good signs you’re dealing with a scammer on Craigslist. You may also notice inconsistent details, such as mentioning a city in a completely different location than the advertised listing. Or, the name of the landlord could keep changing as you interact. Serious homeowners will take the time to craft a decent listing and proofread it.

4.  High pressure

Scammers often create a false sense of urgency to push you into making a decision. If an advertiser pressures you to pay a fee for an application or submit personal information before viewing the property on offer, you should raise an eyebrow and be cautious. 

5. Photos appear in other listings

Kevin advises renters to always run a Google reverse image search on a few of the photos to see if the rental’s photos are showing up elsewhere under different listings. This is because scammers often steal photos from a current or recent home for sale and run the same photo on hundreds of other sites worldwide. 

6. Lister won’t schedule a showing

A good landlord will not give you the runaround when you ask to see the listing. A scammer, however, will come up with an excuse not to meet you in person, like being abroad for work or serving in the military. To stay safe, always make sure you meet the landlord in person or request a virtual tour of the property so you know that the property exists.

7. There is no tenant screening process

A legitimate landlord or property manager will have a tenant screening process in place to ensure the safety and security of their property. If you encounter a situation with no tenant screening process, it could be a red flag for a potential scam.

8.  Lister refuses to answer basic questions or speak on the phone

Any legitimate advertiser will gladly answer any questions you may have regarding the listing. If they keep avoiding your questions, then you’re likely dealing with a scammer. “Typically, scammers only want to communicate via text messages or WhatsApp,” says Hawkins. 

9.  The credit check is “free”

Honest landlords typically require a background check, employment verification, and a credit check. However, this verification process should never be free. So if the ad says “free credit check,” there’s a high likelihood it’s a scam.

Helene notes that some landlords have legitimate properties available in areas with significant demand from individuals who might not have good credit or no credit history, such as in communities with large populations of new immigrants. Waiving this requirement can help expedite the application process, allowing tenants to move in faster. (She points out that in return, some of these properties might require higher deposits or rent amounts.) However, this is still something to be aware of as a potential sign of a dishonest listing. 

“Proceed with caution, though, as it can also be a red flag for a scam,” she says.

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10.  You can’t verify the lister’s identity 

Before you proceed with a listing, do a Google search using the phone number on the ad. Helene says this might give you some insights as to whether the ad/person is legitimate by revealing reviews or showing other listings. Check to see if the landlord’s name matches those on other listings. If it doesn’t, the “landlord” might be copying a legitimate listing.

Additionally, you can search for their name, email, or business name and see if you can find them on social media platforms such as LinkedIn and Facebook.

11.  Requests for unsecured payment methods

Asking for the money to be wired or sent via a gift card is a no-go, says Guanella. Federal Trade Commission (FTC) strongly cautions renters to never pay with cash, wire transfers, cards, or cryptocurrency. If anyone tells you to pay that way, it’s a scam.  Wiring money, sending gift cards, or paying by cryptocurrency is the same as sending cash—once you send it, you probably can’t get it back. Anyone who demands that you pay those ways is a scammer.

Legitimate landlords use traceable methods like bank transfers or rental-specific payment platforms.  

Scammed by a Craigslist rental ad? What to do

If you suspect that you’re dealing with a scammer or you’ve actually been scammed on Craigslist, here’s what you should do.

  • Flag the listing on Craigslist: To report a posting, use the “flag” button above the listing title.
  • Alert the Craigslist community: Share your experience and evidence, such as screenshots of the ad and emails on forums or community boards, to warn others about the scam.
  • Contact local authorities: If you have lost money to a scammer, you can file a report with your local police department.
  • Notify the FTC and IC3: You can also report the scam to the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) at reportfraud.ftc.gov and the Internet Fraud Complaint Center (IC3).
  • Monitor your accounts: If you provided personal information or financial details to a scammer, monitor your accounts for suspicious activity and even place a fraud alert on your credit report.

Alternatives to Craigslist for affordable housing

While Craigslist can sometimes have legitimate listings, it is no longer the only one-stop interface it used to be, and there are many alternatives.

“When dealing with a significant financial investment/commitment, we highly recommend that consumers use other, more secure and safer, platforms. Well-established rental platforms such as Apartments.com and Zillow are solid alternatives and offer more robust services—including an application portal, screening of applications, rent payment portals, etc.,” says Helene.

Let’s take a look at these and other alternatives to Craigslist.

Working with a housing counselor

If you have low income or bad credit and are unsure where to start, find a housing counselor who can advise on buying a home, renting, defaults, forbearances, foreclosures, and credit issues. Check the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) for a list of approved housing counselors who offer you independent advice at little or no cost. 

National Low Income Housing Coalition (NLIHC)

NLIHC is a non-profit housing organization advocating for affordable housing. Take advantage of various tools on the site to help you find affordable homes and rental assistance programs.

Apartments.com

Apartments.com is a popular rental platform featuring millions of verified apartment listings across the U.S. The site allows users to filter options based on location, price, and amenities to help them find a place that fits their budget and needs.

Zillow

Zillow is another reliable online real estate that lets renters search multiple listings in their desired city. It will narrow results by price, lot size, number of rooms, and other settings. The site also offers valuable tools and tips for rental house hunting.

The bottom line: are Craigslist apartments legit?

Yes, Craigslist apartments can be legitimate. However, before you send any money, make sure you verify property details, meet landlords in person, view the property, and sign a lease.

Follow these steps to protect yourself from scams on Craigslist and find legitimate, affordable housing options!


SOURCES

  1. “Federal Bureau of Investigation Internet Crime Report 2023,” Department Of Justice, Federal Bureau of Investigation.
    https://www.ic3.gov/Media/PDF/AnnualReport/2023_IC3Report.pdf
  2. “Rental Scams On Craigslist and 9 Ways to Spot One,” Kevin Vitali.
    https://merrimackvalleymarealestate.com/spot-rental-scams-on-craigslist/
  3. “Rental Listing Scams,” Federal Trade Commission Consumer Advice.
    https://consumer.ftc.gov/articles/rental-listing-scams
  4. “Rent to Own the American Dream: The Promises and Perils of Alternative Home Financing,” Techequity Collaborative.
    https://techequity.us/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Rent-to-Own-the-American-Dream.pdf
  5. “What you need to know about rent-to-own home deals,” Federal Trade Commission Consumer Advice.
    https://consumer.ftc.gov/consumer-alerts/2016/11/what-you-need-know-about-rent-own-home-deals
  6. “Section 8 scammers cheat people seeking housing,” Federal Trade Commission Consumer Advice.
    https://consumer.ftc.gov/consumer-alerts/2015/06/section-8-scammers-cheat-people-seeking-housing
  7. “State Housing Agencies Warn of Social Media Scam Involving HCV Waitlist Openings,” National Low Income Housing Coalition.
    https://nlihc.org/resource/state-housing-agencies-warn-social-media-scam-involving-hcv-waitlist-openings
  8. “Section 8 scammers cheat people seeking housing,” Federal Trade Commission Consumer Advice.
    https://consumer.ftc.gov/consumer-alerts/2015/06/section-8-scammers-cheat-people-seeking-housing

Private investigators are in demand and pay a starting rate of about $40,000 per year — and up to $250 for specialists. Female investigators are especially in short supply. Degrees are not required.

Here’s a closer look at what exactly a private investigator does, the skills you need to become one, and what path to take if you’re interested in a career move as a private investigator. 


What does a private investigator do?

How much does a private investigator make?

What skills do you need to become a private investigator? 

How do you become a private investigator?

Does a private investigator need a license?

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How to become a private investigator FAQs

  1. How long does it take to become a private investigator?
  2. What are the types of private investigators?
  3. What are good backgrounds for private investigators?

Amanda Appi’s advice for aspiring private investigators

Only about a quarter of private investigators in the U.S. are women, and experts like Richard Ring, a former special operations and intelligence and CEO and president of private investigation firm F3 Intelligence Corp, say there’s a great need to see that figure go up. Why? In many ways, he says, women can have the upper hand when it comes to investigations.

“Since most PIs are men, women often seem less suspicious and it’s generally much easier for female investigators to get the person they’re investigating to open up to them,” Ring says. “In my experiences, female investigators are often better received in negotiations in business meetings in the corporate world. While it’s a heavily male dominated field, if there’s a female that’s good at what she does, she can really kill it.”

Amanda Appi, a combat veteran turned private investigator in South Carolina, emphasizes the importance of hands-on experience and adaptability in the field of private investigation. “It’s really an art form because there’s a lot of moving parts in these investigations,” she notes, highlighting the need for quick thinking and good instincts in this career. Her journey from the military to business school to private investigation showcases the diverse paths that can lead to success in this field.

What does a private investigator do?

A private investigator is someone who is hired by an individual or company to provide investigative services and uncover information that can’t be easily attained. 

Also known as private detectives or private eyes, these individuals can work for all types of clients and companies. Below are some of the main types, and examples of the kinds of work a PI might be hired or contracted to do for each: 

  • Law firms: Anything from locating and interviewing witnesses, conducting background checks, gathering evidence for civil or criminal cases, and more
  • Corporations: Investigating employee theft or fraud, conducting due diligence on potential business partners, performing corporate security audits, etc.
  • Insurance companies: Investigating potentially fraudulent claims, conducting surveillance on workers’ compensation claimants, assisting with arson investigations, etc.
  • Law enforcement: Assisting with cold cases, conducting surveillance on suspects, locating persons of interest, and more
  • Individuals: Investigating potential infidelity in relationships, locating missing persons, conducting background checks on potential romantic partners, among others 

Appi, who hosts a podcast called Investigator’s Round Table, notes that the work can vary significantly depending on your niche. “There are other PIs whose niche is in criminal defense, or personal injury type stuff,  like insurance fraud, stuff like that,” she explains. But at her company, Immaculate Investigations, LLC, she says the “main bread and butter is really that domestic stuff.”

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How much does a private investigator make?

According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics the median annual wage for private detectives and investigators was $59,380 in May 2021. However, pay can vary significantly depending on specialty. Noting that it really varies depending on your location and niche, Appi provides some insight into starting salaries: “I would say probably for somebody that’s just starting out, you’re probably going to be in the $30K to $40K range as an employee.” 

“General investigators usually charge between $20 and $35 an hour,” Ring says. “But for people who specialize in things like cryptocurrency forensics, baseline salary is generally between $125 to $250 an hour.”

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What skills do you need to become a private investigator? 

Appi emphasizes the importance of adaptability and communication skills. “It’s really an art form because there’s a lot of moving parts in these investigations,” she says. “There’s a lot of on-your-feet thinking. You have to have good instincts; you have to be able to talk to people.” 

Depending on the field of private investigation you’re interested in, the specific skills you’ll need may vary. For example, if you’re looking to get into cyber crime, you’ll need experience in digital forensics, while a PI investigating fraud needs thorough knowledge in criminal and civil law. 

However, generally speaking, there are certain skills and traits that all private investigators need to be successful, says Richard Ring, a former special operations and intelligence and CEO and president of F3 Intelligence Corp, a private investigation firm based in Orlando, Florida. These include:

  • Having an analytical mind
  • Curiosity
  • Being methodical and detail-oriented
  • Good verbal and written communication skills 
  • Patience
  • Persistence and an unrelenting nature

“Basically, you’ll want to be like a bloodhound on a trail,” Ring says. “You’ll stay up for five days straight before you’ll go to sleep if you haven’t solved a case. That’s the type of personality good private investigators have. They’re very relentless.”

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How do you become a private investigator?

If you’re interested in making a career change to become a private investigator, there are a number of ways to get started. Different states have different requirements and processes so you’ll need to become familiar with the rules where you live. 

“Definitely work under somebody. Get as much training as you can,” advises Appi. “It’s a diverse field, so try out everything at first. Maybe try to work for somebody that takes on a broad range of cases—that way you get the experience everywhere.”

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College degrees are not typically required.

To get started as a general private investigator, consider an internship with a local private investigation firm. This can be an easy way to quickly learn how to search for information, conduct interviews and interrogations, and edit surveillance videos. You’ll likely have access to veteran PIs and can pick their brains about working in the field.

If you have a speciality, such as fraud investigations, arson investigations, digital forensics, or corporate investigations like mergers and acquisitions, Ring recommends looking for internships at hedge firms, corporations, or financial institutions. You might also consider law firms, insurance companies, security firms, identity protection services, and retail businesses.

Does a private investigator need a license?

Most states require professional private investigators to be licensed. Usually, a dedicated PI licensing board operates under an umbrella licensing body run by the state. This board oversees and regulates licenses for PIs. For example, Colorado licenses private investigators through the Office of Private Investigator Licensure, which is under the Department of Regulatory Agencies. Tennessee PIs receive their license from the Private Investigative and Polygraph Commission, within the Department of Commerce and Insurance. In other states like New Jersey, the regulation and licensing of PIs is the responsibility of the state police. 

Currently, all but five states require PI licenses at the state level. The states without this requirement includes:

  • Alaska
  • Mississippi
  • Idaho
  • South Dakota
  • Wyoming

Still, Wyoming and Alaska have licensing requirements at the local level. The remaining three states have professional associations dedicated to upholding codes of ethics for private investigators. 

Find out the private investigator requirements in your state

Each state has its own set of minimum requirements to obtain licensure as a private investigator. 

Generally, these minimum requirements include:

  • United States citizenship or legal residency
  • A high school diploma or GED certificate
  • Being at least a certain age, usually between 21 and 25
  • No history of felony convictions
  • No history of dishonorable discharge from the U.S. military

Check here to learn more about individual state licensing requirements for PIs.

Each state has its own education and experience requirements for PI licensing. Most states don’t require a certain degree to become a private investigator, but many professionals in the field choose to pursue a bachelor’s or associate’s degree in criminal justice or a related area.

Experience is often required to become a private investigator, though many states allow candidates to substitute education for experience. PI-related experience can include working as a claims investigator, risk manager, insurance claims specialist, director of security, or law enforcement officer.  

Appi stresses the value of practical experience over formal education. “Any way you can get hands-on experience, even if it’s just interning somewhere, is going to be your best bet,” she says. “It is such a unique field.”

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Consider certification

While certification is not a requirement to work as a private investigator, it can provide you with independent confirmation of your skills and also offer a resume boost. 

One option is the Certified Legal Investigator (CLI) certification from the National Association of Legal Investigators (NALI). To become a CLI, applicants must meet a number of requirements, including passing a written and oral exam and completing five years of professional experience, although one year of work experience can be substituted with completion of 60 semester hours or 90 quarter hours of course work at an accredited college or university.

ASIS International offers the Professional Certified Investigator (PCI) certification, which validates your knowledge and specialized skills in security investigations, including the effective use of surveillance, interviews, and interrogations. Earning a PCI certificate requires three to five years of investigations experience, as well as passing the PCI exam.

Consider enrolling in weapons and self-defense training

While weapons training might seem necessary,  Appi notes that it’s not always required, depending, again, on the type of work you’re doing. “I’ve never pulled a weapon on anyone or anything like that,” she says. “I mean, there is a danger factor of obviously getting caught, but a lot of times you’ll be in your car and it’s better to just drive away at that point.”

Some states allow PIs to carry firearms. In these states, candidates must pass mandatory firearms training to obtain certification. Firearm training can be done through the Federal Bureau of Investigation, the National Rifle Association, or an accredited police standards and training council firearms instructor school.

Pass state exam and background check

To become a licensed private investigator, some states require candidates to take and pass a state exam. These exams typically cover rules and regulations for working as a PI or running a private investigative business.

Additionally, you’ll need to pass a background check and submit a full set of fingerprints to obtain a PI license. Most states also require proof of a surety bond (similar to insurance) of no less than $10,000. You’ll need to submit all your documentation, along with necessary fees to your state’s licensing board.

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Bottom line: Companies need more women investigators

Appi emphasizes the unique advantages women bring to private investigation, particularly in family court cases. She notes that female investigators, especially those who are mothers, often have a keen eye for details that others might miss in child custody situations. This intuition can be invaluable when assessing child safety and well-being.

Appi also highlights the emotional intelligence that women often bring to the job. Many clients seek out private investigators during difficult times in their lives, and a nurturing, empathetic approach can be particularly effective. This communication style not only puts clients at ease but also encourages them to share more information, ultimately benefiting the investigation process

For those considering this career path, Appi offers this final advice: “I would say try it. That dream is in your heart for a reason and you don’t know until you try it. If you’re not ready to give up your full-time job or something like that, then just intern somewhere, or contact PIs in the area—maybe they’ll talk to you.”

How to become a private investigator FAQs

1. How long does it take to become a private investigator?

The length of time it takes to become a private investigator in the U.S. will vary from state to state, as each state has different education and experience requirements. For example, some states, like New Hampshire, require four years of experience in investigations for licensure, but two of those years may be substituted with education for candidates who have an associate’s or bachelor’s degree in criminal justice.

2. What are the types of private investigators?

Private investigators are hired for a number of reasons and there are a wide variety of specialities in the field. Some of the most common types of PIs include:

  • Accident investigation
  • Arson / fire investigation
  • Asset search
  • Background checks
  • Bounty hunter
  • Cell phone records
  • Cyber crime
  • Crime scene
  • Corporate
  • General investigators, whose services can include marital infidelity, child support / custody, missing persons, and debt collecting
  • Electronic / video surveillance
  • Fraud
  • Identity theft
  • Mystery shopper
  • Protection of celebrities or executives
  • Repossessions
  • Social media
  • Workers compensation
  • Wrongful death

3. What are good backgrounds for private investigators?

Private investigators come from a number of different backgrounds including:

  • Law
  • Criminal justice
  • Law enforcement
  • Military
  • Information technology (IT)
  • Business and marketing
  • Sales

According to Ring, having a science or healthcare background also lends itself to a career in private investigating. 

“People with medical or science degrees are very analytical and driven,” he says. “They know how to conduct research and how to use the scientific method, which is similar to the intelligence cycle. So I think people that are in healthcare, healthcare adjacent career fields or science career fields, make excellent detectives.”

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He also notes that the methodical nature of working in accounting or finance makes these fields excellent backgrounds for private investigators. 

Amanda Appi’s advice for aspiring private investigators:

  1. Gain hands-on experience by working under an experienced investigator. She recommends trying to work for someone who takes on a broad range of cases to get diverse experience.
  2. Focus on becoming a skilled field investigator and technician first, developing abilities in surveillance and other practical aspects of the job.
  3. Be prepared to think on your feet and develop good instincts. Appi emphasizes that private investigation is “an art form” requiring creativity and adaptability.
  4. Develop strong communication and people skills. Appi notes that the ability to talk to people and “sell yourself” to get information is often more valuable than law enforcement experience. (She says this is why people with a sales background can do really well in this field!)
  5. Consider studying business rather than criminal justice if pursuing formal education. Appi suggests a business degree may be more useful, especially if you plan to start your own agency.
  6. Be prepared for a challenging field. Appi warns that the industry can be “brutal” and “not for the faint of heart,” requiring thick skin and courage.
  7. If unsure if this is the right field for you, try interning or contacting local PIs to learn more about the profession before fully committing.
  8. Have realistic expectations about the work, understanding that much of it involves long periods of waiting and observation rather than constant action.

SOURCE

  1. “Private Investigator Demographics and Statistics in the United States,” Zippia. Accessed Nov. 22, 2024
    https://www.zippia.com/private-investigator-jobs/demographics/

I blindly grew up and into my 30s assuming the standard-issue feminist party line:

Women’s work is uncompensated and undervalued. When women become stay-at-home mothers, that benefits men’s careers, and when the marriage ends, she should be compensated for that lost earning potential. Both partners’ lifestyles should be the same when the marriage ends!

Then, I watched my friend get divorced, and face alimony.

He had a high-earning career, and after spending her 20s in low-paid retail jobs, his wife stayed home full-time until the kids were in high school, then worked part-time retail, tried to start a couple of craft businesses that went nowhere, and then started sleeping with her massage therapist.

When they divorced, this couple stayed on mostly friendly terms and would get together with the kids, who were by then in college.

His career continued on while she struggled bitterly. Since they broke up in the middle of the housing and stock market bust, there weren’t many assets to divide.

The kids were out of the house, so there was no child support. When they split, he had been laid off and was unemployed, so there was no alimony.

She went from a very comfortable life as a suburban housewife, to struggling very hard to get by, living in a shared apartment.

At the time, I was incredulous about this. He should support her, I screamed in my head. Her lifestyle is so compromised compared with his.

Today, I recognize alimony as a dated, sexist construct that has grown out of its intended purpose, and only holds women and gender equality back.

First, some basics on why and how stay-at-home motherhood hurts gender equality:

When I push back against the stay-at-home mom fantasy — the myth that children fare better when mothers do not work, and that this lifestyle benefits anyone at all — I am often met with: “What do you care? We should respect all women’s choices in the spirit of sisterhood!”

Wrong.

When women choose to stay home full time, abandon career and earning, in the name of better mothering, or commitment to family, we all lose, most especially women.

Why alimony is wrong, sexist, and unfair:

“As much as we would like to think the court is blind when it comes to alimony and gender, at least in Las Vegas, I would tend to disagree,” says Molly Rosenblum, founding attorney of The Rosenblum Allen Law Firm in Las Vegas, Nev.

In her Nevada practice, which handles family law, criminal defense, and civil cases, Rosenblum sees more women asking for alimony, about 90/10 women to men. And 95% of women receive alimony compared to 5% of men.

In Nevada, there is no set formula for alimony. It’s decided on a case-by-case basis considering factors like:

  • Length of marriage
  • Age
  • Health and well-being of both parties
  • Financial need of the alimony-seeking spouse
  • Employment status of the seeking spouse
  • Income disparity of both parties

Rosenblum leans toward the idea that Nevada’s alimony statutes compensate spouses who have truly been in long-term marriages, setting aside their own careers for the betterment of the wage-earning spouse. And although it’s not perfect, she believes it is equitable.

But there are definitely unfair scenarios that play out, depending on the couple.

“My overall sentiment about alimony is that it is risky business,” Rosenblum says. “In Nevada, if the receiving spouse remarries, they no longer get alimony.”

Rosenblum says the receiving spouse often loses financially when they move on to a new relationship — especially if he or she stayed home to raise the kids while their ex earned a ton of money. 

“My personal opinion is that a spouse who may be entitled to alimony should look to be compensated elsewhere,” Rosenblum says.

Other options might be asking for a larger share of the house equity or a bigger piece of the savings or retirement accounts. Rosenblum says if handled correctly, these options can put them in a better financial position long after alimony payments end.

1. You model a stereotypical female roles, which informs your children, spouse, friends and neighbors

2. Stay-at-home moms influence sexism in workplaces

3. Stay-at-home moms hurt the economy

4. The choice to stay home with children hurts the hiring and promotion of other women

5. Staying home with kids means you abandon the women who stay and fight for equality

6. Stay-at-home moms shame working moms

7. Stay-home moms perpetuate the myth that motherhood is enough to fulfill us

8. Stay-at-home moms are more prone to poverty

9. Women who do not work are less likely to be involved in family finances

10. Women who do not earn their own money are more likely to suffer domestic violence

11. When you divorce, stay-at-home wives and moms are screwed

12. When women stop working, you have far fewer choices, and we all lose

13. SAHMs’ post-divorce / separation life is tumultuous

14. How alimony hurts the gender pay gap

15. Alimony is legislated dependence for women

16. Alimony makes divorce so much harder, more expensive, and dragged out

17. Alimony and child support keep you passionately attached to your ex

18. Alimony makes co-parenting very contentious

19. Alimony holds you back professionally, personally and financially

Bottom line: Get off the alimony gravy train because your choices affect me, and my choices affect you

1. You model a stereotypical female roles, which informs your children, spouse, friends and neighbors

If you, woman, are home, your children equate housekeeping, child care and other unpaid ‘women’s work’ with women. They see their father, a man, earn in the world. That informs their ideas about gender and what is expected of women and men.

That is why Harvard professor Kathleen McGinn found, in her study of 34,000 people across 24 countries, that girls raised by mothers who worked outside the home for pay, achieved more academically and grew up to be women who achieved more professionally and financially than their peers who had stay-at-home moms.

Boys raised by working moms were more caring for children and older people living in the home than their SAHM peers, and grew up to be men who were the same — all while achieving as much academically and professionally as those raised by SAHMs. In short: kids grow up to be what they see.

2. Stay-at-home moms influence sexism in workplaces

Men — especially the white variety — still very much control corporate and government policy, and are far more likely to advocate for policy that supports working parents if they themselves share in family responsibility because their wives work, too.

Researchers at Harvard, NYU and University of Utah found:

“Employed husbands in traditional marriages, compared to those in modern marriages, tend to (a) view the presence of women in the workplace unfavorably, (b) perceive that organizations with higher numbers of female employees are operating less smoothly, (c) find organizations with female leaders as relatively unattractive, and (d) deny, more frequently, qualified female employees opportunities for promotion.”

3. Stay-at-home moms hurt the economy

When you do not participate in the labor force, the world misses out on your unique talents

Recent headlines such as “Closing the gender gap could grow the economy by $2.1 trillion” (CNN) scream that the best way to grow the economy is to better engage women in the professional world.

You consumed educational resources that were designed for the benefit of all of society. You worked hard to earn positions, raises or build a business.

When you drop out for any significant period, all those collective skills and network are paused — or tossed out. That is a brain drain that we, as a society and world, cannot afford to lose.

4. The choice to stay home with children hurts the hiring and promotion of other women

Your departure from the workforce discourages managers and companies from hiring, training and promoting women since it sets the precedence that women of a certain age will just drop out indefinitely to have babies. Read: “Motherhood Penalty Affects Women Who Never Have a Child” (NBC).

5. Staying home with kids means you abandon the women who stay and fight for equality

My friend Maria, a divorced mom, has fought her way into an executive position at the male-dominated accounting industry where she’s worked for 22 years.

She told me: “Every time a woman in my company drops out to stay home and ‘be a mom,’ I want to scream. I think, ‘I and every other woman in this big company need you to be here in these meetings and fight for them.’ I feel let down and, frankly, abandoned. They left me here to fight alone.”

6. Stay-at-home moms shame working moms

Culturally, Americans believe children need stay-at-home moms. Pew found that 60 percent of Americans believe it is best for kids when a parent is home full-time, and a full 40 percent of Americans say that children are harmed (!) when mothers work outside the home. 

A full 70 percent of U.S. mothers work, and the majority of those who do not would like to work, but do not because child care is so prohibitive, studies find.

The majority of moms who work do so because they need to eat, and their children need to eat — not because it is a lifestyle choice. In other words,

When women say, “I don’t want to go back to work because I love my children,” that means, “I love my children more than you do. I am a better mom.” We all love our children. Here a very important fact you need to hear right now:

The University of Maryland’s very important meta-study, “How Does the Amount of Time Mothers Spend with Children Matter?” found that for children ages 2 to 11, it makes no difference the number of hours a mother spends with her when it comes to the child’s academic or psychological success.

7. Stay-home moms perpetuate the myth that motherhood is enough to fulfill us

Instead, here are studies that show that mothers who work are happier and healthier, and less sad and angry, than their peers who work for pay. This is old news.

Betty Friedan’s 1963 blockbuster The Feminine Mystique established this five decades ago. We are having the exact same emotion vs fact debate today. Let’s move this conversation forward.

8. Stay-at-home moms are more prone to poverty

Whether you stay married for the rest of your life, divorce, or your spouse passes away before you do (statistically likely), you are more likely to be poor.

A financial plan in which an entire family is dependent on one income is simply bad planning. After all, you know you should buy life insurance in the unlikely event that you or your partner dies.

The chances of that happening are far, far lower than divorce, disability, illness or unemployment — all situations in which a second career could mean the difference between staying in your home or living out of your car.

The fewer women living in poverty means good things for all women — and members of the world.

9. Women who do not work are less likely to be involved in family finances

Knowing everything about your household finances is critical in the event that you divorce, or otherwise are forced to manage the money in the absence of your spouse (he becomes disabled, unemployed, dies, is incarcerated or any other horrible things that happen every single day).

One study found that women’s involvement in household finances is directly proportionate to their contribution to family income. In other words, the more a woman contributes to the family finances, the more involved she is with managing them.

The more involved a woman is with managing money, the more security she and her whole family have. this contributes to making wiser, empowered decisions, and being safe in every sense of the word.

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10. Women who do not earn their own money are more likely to suffer domestic violence

A full THIRD of U.S. women will be abuse victims at the hands of an intimate partner, and in 99 percent of those cases, financial abuse is part of the equation. You are in physical, emotional and sexual danger when you do not have your own money.

11. When you divorce, stay-at-home wives and moms are screwed

You have the same ~50 percent chance as the rest of us (though some studies suggest the divorce rate is higher in marriages when one spouse is financially dependent on the other).

Alimony reform is underway in every state, and while you may get short-term maintenance (think about that term: a man who you are no longer involved with is forced to maintain you), you are now expected to earn a living.

Statistically women wind up poorer after divorce than men — typically because we have less earning power to start with. Take away any recent work experience, you are s-c-r-e-w-e-d.

The challenges for divorced women with no recent work history run deep. Want to keep your house in your name? Without two years work history, you can’t get a mortgage.

You also likely can’t get a car loan or credit card with a decent interest rate. In short: the pay gap, wealth gap and women’s choices overall plummet without earning power.

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12. When women stop working, you have far fewer choices, and we all lose

According to the Institute for Women’s Policy Research, a woman’s earnings drop 30 percent after being out of the workforce for two to three years.

This calculator created by the Center for American Progress projects the potential impact to a woman’s lifetime earnings when she takes a break mid-career.

A 26-year-old woman earning $50,000 per year stands to lose more than $800,000 in wages, raises and retirement benefits over her lifetime when she steps off the career path for just five years. You also can’t get a decent car loan or credit card or mortgage.

13. SAHMs’ post-divorce / separation life is tumultuous

When you are in financial straits post-divorce/separation, you are understandably afraid, and acting in fear leads to bad decisions and poor behavior.

Any family attorney or divorce court judge will tell you that terrified women and angry men then spend a lot of very contentious time and lots of money with lawyers and judges arguing over money.

This conflict bleeds deeply into your co-parenting. It is impossible to share parenting time and decisions in a healthy way if you are duking it out in court. Your children suffer the most.

These are the same children who were supposed to benefit from the countless hours you spent with them at home.

As a citizen, I am affected because courts are jammed up with petty arguing over custody and alimony, while actual abuse and neglect cases are marginalized.

As a society, we all suffer, because statistically, when men are marginalized in custody cases — and they are in 80 percent of cases that go to court, in favor of giving mothers primary custody, despite 55 reviewed studies that prove that equally shared time with kids is best for children, once again following in those gender-stereotype  — they tend to drop out of kids’ lives all together.

This is good for no one. Not you, not me, not the kids, dads or penal systems, which are full of kids who did not grow up with involved dads. Ladies, be part of the solution.

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14. How alimony hurts the gender pay gap

There is a lot of pressure on women in the workforce to forsake their economic power in lieu of family.

Pew found that an astonishing 40 percent of Americans believe that children suffer when their mother works outside of the home.

And study after study finds that the 21% gender pay gap is a result not of rich white men in C-suite keeping competent women down, but rather women choosing to compromise their careers to care for loved ones.

This pressure is so great that women who actually earn a living, falsely label themselves “stay-at-home moms.”

A recent project between my friend time management expert Laura Vanderkam and Redbook magazine found that 62% of described stay-at-home moms contributed to their household income, including 25% who run businesses.

I know a blogger who earns $80,000 per year and calls herself a stay-at-home mom — a disconnect that is both common and destructive, since it perpetuates the economically oppressive pressure to abandon our livelihoods and lives for our children and husbands.

Meanwhile, all research confirms: It makes zero difference how much time a parent spends with a kid after age 2, and the greatest indicators of a child’s future wellbeing is her mother’s education and income level.

Let us not forget: Working mothers are far less prone to depression and anxiety, and divorce rates are 50% higher for families in which one spouse does not work.

In other words: We glamorize stay-at-home moms, when science proves again and again that everyone is happier, healthier and more financially secure when both parents work.

After all: Divorce rates have been more or less steady at 50% for 40 years. The other 50% of couples? Unemployment, disability, death and other catastrophes mean a one-career family is a precarious financial agreement indeed.

And when these families do divorce or separate, the new paradigm is likely to be very sexist indeed, with the mom having primary care of the kids, and being financially dependent on her ex’s child support and/or alimony payments.

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Breaking the cycle of the wage gap

So this is what you will do to make sure we break this cycle of women sabotaging their own wellbeing, and that of their children, marriage and for women and society overall:

You will identify a girl. Maybe it is your daughter, or granddaughter. Niece, student, mentee or neighbor. She might be 6 or 16 or a young woman of 26. You will tell her with zero nuance or caveat:

Always have your own money. 

Never give up your ability to earn.

You are not an adult if you chose to be financially dependent on another person. 

In my research, I have found it only takes telling a young person this critical message one time. The message taps into such a primal, visceral need for freedom, power and independence, even very young girls understand it intuitively.

But do not tell her just one time. Tell her again and again. Like you make sure your child knows to be kind, and say thank you and not to chew with her mouth open. Just as you make sure that young people know how to swim and must eat vegetables, this is a non-negotiable.

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Knowing this shapes the life decisions you make

Because when a child is raised to reap the magnificent bounty that is the education, professional, political and financial equality that women in this country in the 21st century enjoy, and understand that she will never, ever chart her own course in this world until she embraces it as her duty to exercise it in its fullest, you set her on a certain course.

On the right course. It is a course that affects every single vertical of her life:

  • The choices she makes in where she attends college, and how she will pay for it (because when you are wise about your education and related finances, and do not assume that a man will take care of you and your debt eventually, you make better choices).
  • The career path she pursues.
  • The relationships she forges with friends and colleagues (because these are the spine of her entire life).
  • The money she does and does not spend on fun.
  • The money she does and does not invest.
  • The partner she selects (or rejects).
  • The children she chooses to have (or not).
  • The age she chooses to become a mother.
  • The way she sees herself in the world, the value she brings to her partner, her children, friends, and the world around her. 

By saying: “Always have your own money,” to a girl you are saying:

“You are powerful. And I believe that you will never, ever give up that power.”

She gets it. She will thank you. And women everywhere, forever, will thank you.

Alimony contributes to the wealth gap

When women earn their own money and think like breadwinners, the wealth gap will shrink. One study found that women’s involvement in household finances is directly proportionate to their contribution to family income.

In other words, the more a woman contributes to the family finances, the more involved she is with managing them. Consider these alarming figures on female financial literacy from workplace wellness program firm Financial Finesse:

  • One-third of women feel confident about their investment allocation, vs half of men
  • 66% of women report a general knowledge of investing, vs 85% of men
  • 63% of women report having a handle on cash management, vs 78% of men
  • 47% of women indicate that they have an emergency fund, vs 62% of men

One, a stay-at-home mom told me at our kids’ bus-stop that if she ever got a divorce, her husband would have to pay her out the nose for all her “sacrifice.” Never mind he was perpetually unemployed in a middle-class job.

Where did she think that all that money would come from? Bottom line is she was relaying the common assumption that men always pay women when they have children together, and this woman had no money, a neglected career and a low-income husband.

Ending alimony would be a boon for family financial security, ringing a clear, screaming alarm that you, woman, must plan for the very real chance that both spouses’ income will be likely critical to the family.

What will it take for people to realize — and plan for — the fact that divorce rates have hovered around 50% for decades? Divorce is just one risk.

Maintaining a career is about being a responsible member of your family. Even if you have the hottest, most committed marriage that lasts until the end of one of your lives, there are other realities you must plan for.

And if you are divorced and dependent on income from your ex, never forget that he could lose his job, die, become disabled, chose a lower-paying career, see his business tank, or go MIA.

You have no control over that, and if you depend on his income, you live in fear every single day it will go away. Shift that energy into your own income and career, which you do have control over, and watch your life change.

Unemployment. Nearly four out of five U.S. adults will face severe joblessness, near poverty or being on welfare. Men in recent history have been far more likely to suffer in an economic downturn.

During the recession – from December 2007 to June 2009—men lost 5.4 million jobs while women lost 2.1 million. Again, this is a numbers game. Betting on your husband to support you and your family simply is not a good financial move.

Disability. Nearly 5% of all eligible adults receive disability insurance benefits.

Life. Crap happens. Accidents, psychotic breaks, natural disasters and fires. You have no idea what is in store. So you do smart things. Like keep a career going, which boosts your family’s financial security by 2x at least.

15. Alimony is legislated dependence for women

An end of alimony would force each able-bodied person to be financially responsible for themselves.

Suffragists and feminists before us fought bitterly (and sometimes joyously, one would hope) so you and I have financial and legal parity with men.

We have a ways to go, but for the most part in this country women have the opportunity to support themselves. With opportunity comes responsibility. You choose to be financially dependent on someone else (like a husband), you take a risk.

If that marriage ends and you have little career equity and low earning potential as a result, you must pay the consequences of the downside of that risk. Taking that responsibility away from women, and perpetuating a model in which women are financially dependent on men, infantizes all women.

We are not infants. We are capable adults with untold professional and financial opportunities.

Take alimony out of the career-planning equation and we force women to take full responsibility for their careers and finances from the beginning of adulthood.

This is critical if we are going to close the pay gap, which has little to do with workplace sexism, and more to do with women choosing lower-paying professions and stepping away from careers to devote to family life — all in the name of being a “better” mother who spend countless time with her children, even though all the search proves that children fare better when they have moms who work, and benefit none from endless hours with their parents.

Harvard professor Kathleen McGinn found, in her study of 34,000 people across 24 countries, that girls raised by mothers who worked outside the home for pay, achieved more academically and grew up to be women who achieved more professionally and financially than their peers who had stay-at-home moms.

Boys raised by working moms were more caring for children and older people living in the home than their SAHM peers, and grew up to be men who were the same — all while achieving as much academically and professionally as those raised by SAHMs. In short: kids grow up to be what they see.

I talk about this on this blog, my podcast, and book, The Kickass Single Mom (Penguin), and am very proud to say I have converted many moms to getting off the alimony gravy train (one of my favorite reader book reviews: “Thanks for ruining alimony for me forever, Emma!”).

Many women say that this message has propelled them into a life of autonomy independent of the man to whom they were once married.

Nonetheless, there continue to be lots of vintage thinking about money, marriage, family, and gender, and in this post, I explain why all the typical arguments in favor of alimony are wrong.

Listen to my interview with McGinn

16. Alimony makes divorce so much harder, more expensive, and dragged out

Alimony adjustments, enforcements and arguments, are the No. 1 reason that divorced couples return to divorce court, or otherwise spend money on expensive family lawyers. Think about it:

There are countless ways to fight about alimony:

  • You suspect or know his income increased, and therefore believe you are entitled to more.
  • He suspects or knows you are earning more (good for you!) and therefore he should be paying less.
  • He believes (or says) his income decreased, or his living expenses went up, so he should pay less.
  • One of your remarried, or is in a relationship or living with a girlfriend or boyfriend, and therefore your financial situation has changed, and one of you believes the payments should be adjusted, too.
  • Someone believes income is earned under the table, is not reported, or otherwise being hidden.

And on and on. It’s exhausting, toxic, keeps you enmeshed in the emotional part of the divorce for ever and ever, and the only people who benefit from this are the divorce lawyers, who laugh all the way to the bank.

Take alimony out of the equation, the co-parenting relationship improves, and the divorce is far more amicable from the start. In fact, you may even be file a no-contest, DIY divorce, for a few hundred dollars.

17. Alimony and child support keep you passionately attached to your ex

I have a friend who abandoned a thriving small business she’d built for 15 years when she married a successful New York City tax attorney and had a baby.

The marriage ended. He pays her a sum each month that keeps her in an Upper East Side two-bedroom, three-story townhouse, while she struggles to rebuild her business. “Tell your readers to never stop working,” she told me recently.  “There is nothing worse than being dependent on a man who you are trying to separate from.”

Also, there is nothing better than knowing that your own life is entirely of your making. That is the definition of empowerment — gender or otherwise.

I was on WCCO CBS in Minneapolis speaking about this win my friend, anchor Jordana Green who receives alimony. “Isn’t it unfair if you’re used to living in a $500,000 house but have to move into an apartment when you divorce?” she asked.

My answer? “If you want a $500,000 house, pursue a career that affords you one.”

As one alimony reform activist emailed me: “Alimony law was created to ‘keep the lesser earning spouse in the lifestyle in which they are accustomed.’ Using that logic, wealthy parents should be legally obligated to support their kids throughout their lives.” I agree.

18. Alimony makes co-parenting very contentious

Alimony and child support are the main reasons that people return to family and divorce courts again and again. There has never, ever in the history of divorce been a person who pays money to another person who they believe is capable of supporting themselves.

Since your ex is angry about paying alimony (and child support), that anger will manifest in all sorts of ways in your relationship, which has now been reduced to coparents. May not be fair, may be court-sanctioned, but you are lesser co-parents because this money came between you. 

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Dana Lin was a stay-at-home mom for most of her marriage, and admits there was a measure of pride in not pursuing alimony or child support in her divorce, even though she could barely support herself — selling her wedding and heirloom jewelry to make ends meet, and not eating for days on end when her children spent time with their dad. She was entitled to $3,000 in monthly support alimony.

Lin, the mother of two grade-school daughters at the time, also didn’t want money complicating her relationship with her children’s father.

“I never wanted him to be able to say, ‘I can’t spend time with the kids because I have to work long hours to support you,’” says Lin, who at the time of the split worked part-time as a school office manager for $20 per hour.

Today, she says, she has a very friendly relationship with her ex, who “is an amazing father now,” while he was only marginally involved while married.

If you receive alimony, your ex is likely really angry about it. He will question all your lifestyle choices, want to know why you are not earning more yourself, and be resentful of any man who comes into your life — especially if you live together or otherwise share expenses.

All of this makes it so much harder to co-parent. So much more tension, suspicion, and anger — all of which you both need to shed in order to move on with your own lives and come together for your kids.

19. Alimony holds you back professionally, personally and financially

In most courts, you only get child support or alimony if you earn less than your ex. If that is always on your mind, it is easy to consciously or unconsciously earn less in order to qualify for alimony.

That money often makes women less ambitious, less professionally fulfilled, and more resentful of your ex. This is bad for you, a bad example for your children, bad for women, and bad for the pay and wealth gaps.

Meanwhile, plenty of women flip the script. Dana Lin was guaranteed alimony as a stay-at-home mom with a high-earning ex-husband. But she turned it down.

“I was very ambitious and had great earning potential,” says Lin, 43. “I didn’t want anyone to say I couldn’t make it without him.”

Lin pursued her dream of being a screenwriter, today working as a script doctor and ghostwriter. Two years ago with a partner she launched Zen Life Services, which provides stress training management skills to law enforcement employees.

“Living lean taught me to be more disciplined,” she says. “Sometimes if you have too much of a cushion you’re not as aggressive in pursuing your dreams.”

The takeaway? Keep a foot in the workforce, even when your kids are babies.

Accept as fact you have a 50 percent chance of being divorced, and even if your husband seems to fully support heading a one-income household, deep down he likely feels very differently — or eventually will.

Regardless of what everyone feels, the only feelings that really matter are the judge’s. And as more women take the ranks of the courts, there is less legal inclination for alimony — especially when the petitioner is an educated woman who chooses not to earn a living.

Bottom line: Get off the alimony gravy train because your choices affect me, and my choices affect you

Nearly 400,000 divorced women receive alimony — a critical topic when considering post-divorce life, feminism, the pay gap, and women’s empowerment — financial or otherwise.

I feel very strongly that every single woman (indeed, 97 percent of people who get spousal support are women) should turn down any opportunity for alimony, aka spousal support, as it is a took to keep women to be dependent on men and not take full responsibility for themselves.

None of us live on an island. This is community and society and we are all intertwined. Choices matter, and when you make choices that hurt gender equality, I am hurt by that. All women, children and men are hurt by that. I am responsible to you, and vice versa.

I get the challenges. I appreciate very much that childcare is prohibitively expensive. I recoil at the fact that the United States has some of the worst maternal leave, child care, and health care policies when it comes to working parents.

I work very hard in both my personal and professional lives to change that. I also understand very much the incredible social pressure to stay at home full time with children.

This pressure is rooted in the misconception (some of the numerous relevant studies cited below) that this is what is best for children. I meet many women who make the decision to fully abandon their earning power and become dependent on husbands with genuine belief that this is what is good for their families.

Many others leave the workforce because child care costs make employment unaffordable.

The United States needs vast policy change.

But votes and calls to legislators are not enough.

Each of us is called to make choices for our lives and families that aim for the greater good — including equality for all people. The more educated you are, the more money, access, privilege you have, the more responsibility you have to others to live a life that pushes the envelope for positive change in the world.

Related:

The real reason your ex doesn’t see the kids

Why is child support so unfair to fathers? A case for needed reform

A dad explains: “Why I don’t see my son.”

What is parental alienation? Recognize the 18 signs

In 2024, the average national cost for health insurance was $745 per month for an individual and $2,131 for a family, according to an employer health benefits survey by KFF, an independent source for health policy research, polling and journalism.1 

If your employer doesn’t offer affordable health insurance or you are currently job seeking, self-employed, or unable to work, affordable health coverage for your family can be daunting.

Low-income health insurance and the government shutdown

At the heart of the fight that has shut the federal government are health-insurance subsidies which are scheduled to expire at the end of 2025. Democrat lawmakers are fighting to extend the Affordable Care Act subsidies, while Republicans are set to end them.

ACA marketplace health plans now cover more than 24 million people.

Premiums for ACA plans are expected to increase steeply in most states, with many insurers hiking rates 20% or more, due largely to higher spending on patients’ care.

If the enhanced payments end, fewer enrollees will get help from subsidies, and the sums will shrink for those who still qualify for them. KFF, a health-research nonprofit, estimates that average annual out-of-pocket premium payments could more than double next year, to $1,904 from $888.

Where can I get affordable health insurance as a single mom?

We put together a list of health insurance options for single moms, with information about how to choose the plan that best suits your family’s needs:

1. Government health insurance exchanges

2. Medicaid

3. CHIP

4. Family health insurance plans

5. Other ways of accessing health care without insurance

Health insurance FAQs

1. Healthcare.gov or state health insurance exchanges

If you cannot afford health insurance, go to Healthcare.gov, sometimes referred to as the health insurance “marketplace” or “exchange.” Your state may also have its own health insurance exchange. 

Healthcare.gov was established as part of the Affordable Care Act, a federal statute enacted to provide health coverage to millions of uninsured Americans. 

Louise Norris, a licensed broker and analyst for healthinsurance.org, an independent health insurance guide, says the health insurance exchange is the best place to start. 

“Single parents who aren’t eligible for employer-sponsored coverage will often find they and their kids are eligible for financial help with health coverage obtained through the exchange,” she says.

To get started, head to Healthcare.gov and enter your zip code. This will bring up policies you are eligible for. If your state has its own exchange, you will be directed to your state’s website. Open enrollment begins on Nov. 1 in most states each year (in Idaho, open enrollment starts Oct. 15), and you must enroll by Jan.15 in most states to get coverage for that year.

ACA Open Enrollment end dates:4  

  • Idaho: Dec. 16
  • Massachusetts: Jan. 23
  • California, Washington, D.C., New Jersey, New York, and Rhode Island: Jan. 31
  • All other states: Jan. 15

However, if you’ve experienced a major life event, you can qualify for a special enrollment period. These events include:

  • losing your employer-sponsored health coverage 
  • getting married 
  • moving 
  • having a baby
  • adopting a child

Depending on your situation, you may have 60 days before or 60 days after the event to enroll. To see if you’re eligible for a special enrollment period, you can complete a brief questionnaire on Healthcare.gov.

You can purchase a plan for your family through the website, or if you need assistance, you can use the Find Local Help tool to connect with someone in person who specializes in the healthcare exchange. You can also contact the marketplace call center at 800-318-2596. This number is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week except on holidays. Finally, a mail-in application is available.

Who qualifies for the Affordable Care Act?

To be eligible to enroll in health coverage through the Affordable Care Act, you must live in the United States, be a U.S. citizen or national, and not be incarcerated.

When the health insurance Marketplaces/exchanges were first introduced for 2014 coverage, premium subsidy (premium tax credit) eligibility was initially capped at household incomes of 400% of the federal poverty level (FPL), which is a measure of income issued every year by the Department of Health and Human Services. This meant that individuals with incomes above 400% of FPL were responsible for the full cost of their health insurance. However, this changed in 2021 with the American Rescue Plan, which temporarily eliminated the “subsidy cliff.” Originally set to expire at the end of 2022, this provision was extended through 2025 by the Inflation Reduction Act (IRA). As a result, the subsidy cliff has been removed for the time being, making premium subsidies available to more people. It’s worth noting that unless Congress takes further action, the subsidy cliff could return in 2026.

As of now, individuals who qualify for subsidies through the health insurance exchange must have a household income that makes the benchmark plan cost more than 8.5% of their income (or a lower percentage for those with lower incomes). Put another way, this means that your contribution to your employer health insurance cannot be more than 8.5% of your household income for the year. 5

As of 2024, the federal poverty level for a two-person household is $20,440. For each additional person in the household, the FPL increases by $5,380. FPL guidelines are different for Alaska ($25,540 and $6,730 for each person) and Hawaii ($23,500 and $6,190 for each additional person).6

You can see if you are eligible for premium tax credits that would lower your insurance costs by answering a few questions about your income on Healthcare.gov.

2. Medicaid

Medicaid is a government program that provides free or low-cost health coverage for low-income adults, children, pregnant women, older adults, and people with disabilities. Medicaid.gov reports that more than 80 million Americans are covered by Medicaid.7

Who is eligible for Medicaid?

Eligibility criteria for Medicaid varies state by state. Determining factors include household income, family size, age, and disability. You can take a quick screening on Healthcare.gov to see if you may qualify for Medicaid.

To qualify for full benefits, you must be a U.S. citizen, a U.S. national, or have satisfactory immigration status.

Under the ACA, many states expanded Medicaid coverage to cover all people with a household income below a certain threshold. In these states, you can qualify for Medicaid if your household income is below 133% of the FPL.

However, 10 states have elected not to expand Medicaid coverage. These states are:

  • Alabama
  • Florida
  • Georgia
  • Kansas
  • Mississippi
  • South Carolina
  • Tennessee
  • Texas
  • Wisconsin
  • Wyoming

In these states, eligibility criteria for Medicaid is stricter with much lower income limits. 

Individuals who don’t qualify for Medicaid based on income should still apply, especially those who are pregnant, have children, or have a disability, as you may be eligible for these reasons. 

There is no open enrollment period for Medicaid, and you can apply at any time of year. You can apply through the health insurance marketplace or through your state Medicaid agency. 

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What is the lowest income to qualify for Medicaid?

In states that have expanded Medicaid coverage, individuals qualify for Medicaid if their household income is below 138% of the FPL. 

These are the 2026 Federal Poverty Guidelines:

Number of people in family/householdAnnual income
1$15,960
2$21,640
3$27,320
4$33,000
5$38,680
6$44,360
7$50,040
8$55,720

For families/households with more than 8 people, add $5,680 for each additional person.

“Medicaid eligibility can be calculated based on monthly income, so if income temporarily drops to these levels, Medicaid can be available at that point even if the total annual income would be above those levels,” Norris says.

What does Medicaid cover?

Federal law requires states to provide certain mandatory benefits under Medicaid. These include: 

  • Inpatient and outpatient hospital services
  • Doctor visits
  • Laboratory and X-ray exams
  • Home health services

It is up to the individual state to determine optional benefits, including prescription drugs, case management, physical therapy, and occupational therapy. 

Is there Medicaid for single mothers?

Yes, Medicaid is available for single mothers and children who qualify. Even if you are pregnant with your first child, you may be eligible. Medicaid coverage and options vary by state but the standard for determining eligibility is based on factors like:

  • Income: Modified Adjusted Gross Income (MAGI) is the basis for determining financial eligibility (In general, families with children living at or below 133% of the FPL are covered, although some states allow for higher income levels)
  • Government benefits: Those receiving Supplemental Security Income (SSI) are automatically eligible
  • State residency: You must be a lawful resident of the state when you apply
  • Citizenship: You must be a lawful citizen of the United States (includes lawful permanent residents and qualified non-citizens)
  • Age: Those 65 and older may be automatically eligible, if they meet other requirements set by the state they live in
  • Parenting status: You may be eligible if you are pregnant, a single parent, or a custodial co-parent 
  • Health needs: If you are disabled, blind or have significant health needs, you may qualify 

To know specifics about your eligibility, learn how to apply for Medicaid or check with your state’s Medicaid agency.

Is there a pediatric Medicaid?

Yes, there is pediatric Medicaid in that Medicaid covers children, as does the Children’s Health Insurance Program (CHIP), although some states may call it by another name. If a pregnant mother qualifies for Medicaid, states can decide to cover the infant for up to one year after birth, even if the mother’s income or other eligibility factors change.

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3. CHIP for infants, children, teens and minors

What does CHIP stand for in healthcare? The Children’s Health Insurance Program, or CHIP, is another option for single moms to ensure health insurance for their children. CHIP provides health insurance for infants, kids, teens, and minors.  

CHIP is a federal and state government program that provides healthcare for children of families who do not qualify for Medicaid but are unable to afford a private plan.

As of January 2024, all states are now required to keep children continuously enrolled in Medicaid and CHIP for a full year with limited exceptions. This change aims to improve healthcare access and reduce coverage gaps for children.8

CHIP qualifications 

  • CHIP age limit: Under 19 years old
  • Uninsured: Anyone who is uninsured and ineligible for Medicaid, not covered by a group plan or credible health insurance (Medicaid eligibility is based on factors like income, state residency, citizenship status, and in some cases age and medical condition so being ineligible means you do not meet certain criteria for benefits)
  • Residency requirements: U.S. citizen or meet immigration requirements, resident of the state in which they apply
  • CHIP income limits: Meet household income eligibility requirements, which vary by state. Some states offer CHIP for pregnant women and parents.

According to the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services, eligibility levels for CHIP range from 170% to 400% of the FPL, and vary by state. To see if your children qualify for CHIP, visit the Medicaid & CHIP Eligibility Levels page.

Families and individuals can apply online through healthcare.gov’s health insurance marketplace or by calling 800-318-2596. Like Medicaid, there is no limited enrollment period, so you can sign up for CHIP at any time of the year.

In every state, it’s common for kids to be eligible for Medicaid or CHIP, while the parent is eligible for a subsidized private plan instead, Norris notes.

“So an application submitted through the exchange may result in various family members having different coverage,” she says. “But it will ensure everyone has the financial assistance they’re eligible to receive.”

How much does CHIP care cost?

Routine wellness or dental visits are free to CHIP recipients. Other services may require a copay and some states require a monthly premium. Those premiums are different for each state, but the program caps monthly premiums as follows:

  • If your household income is at or below 150% of the FPL, your premium can’t exceed the amount established by Medicaid9 
  • If your household income exceeds 150% of the FPL, your premium can’t be more than 5% of your annual household income

To learn about copay pricing for your state, check with your state CHIP office.

What is Kidcare CHIP?

Each state has its own name for CHIP. Some states, like Hawaii and Nebraska, simply call it CHIP. In Florida, it’s called KidCare. In Arizona, it’s called KidsCare. Check with your state Medicaid/CHIP office to learn what it is called in your state.

What is included in CHIP?

Benefits under CHIP vary by state. However, all states provide essential health care services through CHIP, including: 

  • Routine check ups
  • Doctor visits
  • Immunizations
  • Prescription medications
  • Inpatient and outpatient hospital care
  • Dental and vision services
  • Laboratory and X-ray services
  • Emergency services

You can check online to see what services your state covers through CHIP.

Is CHIP in every state?

Yes, CHIP is available in every state. Those who meet eligibility requirements get access to state CHIP benefits.

Where do I find CHIP health providers?

To find CHIP health providers, you can:

  • Call the number on your CHIP insurance card or eligibility letter
  • Check your health plan’s website (Some states offer a provider directory online)
  • Check with your state Medicaid/CHIP office
  • Ask your preferred doctor or pharmacist if they accept CHIP

4. Family health insurance

For young adults who are single parents, staying on their family’s health insurance plan can be a viable option to ensure their coverage.

Under the ACA, children can stay on their parent’s health insurance plan until the age of 26. This includes children who are married and have kids of their own. 

However, keep in mind that the health insurance coverage does not extend to your children in most states (Pennsylvania, as an exception, covers a child for 31 days after birth on the mother’s plan).

If you decide to go this route and you are not already on your parents’ plan, you will need to be added during the open enrollment period. Your parents can check with their employer to see when this period is.

Can you stay on your parents’ health insurance plan?

As long as your parent’s health insurance plan covers dependents, you can usually join or remain on their plan until the age of 26. This is an option even if you are:

  • Married
  • Living separately from your parents
  • Not financially dependent on your parents
  • Attending school
  • Eligible for health insurance through your employer
  • Have a child (though your child will need separate health insurance)

Once you turn 26, this coverage will end. When that happens, you will qualify for a special enrollment period through the health exchange on healthcare.gov. 

5. How to find access to health care when you don’t have health insurance

If you are uninsured and do not qualify for Medicaid or CHIP, you can find free or low-cost healthcare at community health centers. 

These centers can be found in both urban and rural communities and provide general primary care, prenatal care, immunizations for babies, and referrals to specialized care. Typically, you will be charged for these services based on your income. 

The HHS Health Resources Services Administration (HRSA) provides a directory of community health centers that operate on a sliding fee. You can receive care here even if you cannot pay.

Search “free walk-in clinics near me”

Another option is to simply search on Google. You can enter a search for “free walk-in clinics near me” or “community health clinic near me” to see where you can get free or low-cost health care in your area.

Go to an emergency room if there is a medical emergency

If you or your child is experiencing a medical emergency, go to your local emergency room. Federal law stipulates that anyone coming into an emergency department must be stabilized and treated, whether or not they have health insurance.

This means your family will be treated at the emergency room whether or not you can pay.

Also, learn how to get health insurance for your pet.

Health insurance FAQs

What health insurance terms should you know?

Premium – This is the amount you pay to have a health insurance plan. It is paid by the individual and/or employer monthly, quarterly, or yearly.

Copay – This is a fixed amount that you pay out of pocket for covered health care services. This amount can vary depending on the type of service and type of doctor you see.

Coinsurance – This is the amount of a covered health care service that you are responsible for paying after you’ve paid your deductible. 

Deductible – This is the amount you owe for health care services covered by your plan before health insurance coverage begins. For example, if your deductible is $1,000, your health insurance coverage won’t kick in until you’ve paid $1,000 out of pocket for covered health services where the deductible applies. Note that certain services may not be subject to the deductible.  

Out-of-pocket maximum – This is a set amount that will be the most you will pay during a policy period (typically a year) before your plan pays for 100% of services. 

Prescription benefits – If your health plan has prescription benefits, this means you will get assistance in paying for prescription medications.

What is the free healthcare in the U.S. for low income?

Medicaid is a government program that provides free or low-cost health coverage for low-income adults, children, pregnant women, older adults, and people with disabilities.

CHIP is a federal and state government program that provides healthcare for families that do not qualify for Medicaid but are unable to afford a private plan. 

What is the lowest income to qualify for Obamacare?

Obamacare is another word for the Affordable Care Act, so it includes private health insurance plans, which are often subsidized, as well as expanded Medicaid for low-income adults.

In most states (the 38 states where Medicaid has been expanded), adults are eligible for Medicaid with a household income of up to 138% of the poverty level. In 2024, that’s $28,207 for a household of two, $35,632 for a household of three, and $43,056 for a household of four.

“If an exchange applicant is not eligible for Medicaid or CHIP, the eligibility determination system will then look to see whether they’re eligible for premium tax credits to offset the cost of a private plan,” Norris explains.

How much is health insurance for a single mom?

This is difficult to answer because the factors vary widely. However, it’s helpful to know that, according to the 2024 KFF Employer Health Benefits Survey, the average monthly premiums for employer-sponsored health insurance in 2024 are:

  • For single coverage: $746 per month ($8,951 annually)
  • For family coverage: $2,131 per month ($25,572 annually)

On average, workers contribute $525 per month ($6,296 annually) towards family coverage, while employers pay the remaining $1,606 per month ($19,276 annually).10

For a single mom seeking family coverage through the ACA marketplace (if employer-sponsored insurance is not available), the costs can vary significantly based on several factors:

  1. Household income: This affects eligibility for premium tax credits and cost-sharing reductions.
  2. Age: Premiums increase with age.
  3. Location: Health insurance costs vary by state and even within regions of a state.
  4. Plan type: Bronze plans have lower premiums but higher out-of-pocket costs, while platinum plans have higher premiums but lower out-of-pocket costs.
  5. Number and age of children: This affects the total family premium.

The national average health insurance premium for a benchmark plan (the average premium for each state’s second lowest cost silver plan) in 2024 is $477, according to the Kaiser Family Foundation.11

What is the best health insurance for single moms?

“An ACA-compliant major medical health plan is by far the best option for people who aren’t eligible for Medicaid, Medicare, or CHIP,” Norris says.

However, the best health insurance for a single mom will depend on her needs and budget. “The plan that works best for one mom won’t be the best for another,” Norris says.

In general, plans with low premiums tend to have higher deductibles, and plans with higher premiums, lower deductibles. If you or a family member has a chronic medical condition that requires regular medical care, you may want to prioritize finding a plan with a lower deductible to save money in the long run.  

This matters even more if a condition calls for ongoing specialty treatment. Families managing complex or chronic illnesses that require regular infusions often work with a specialty infusion provider like Acelpa Health, which administers therapies such as immunoglobulin and biologic infusions at home or at a dedicated infusion center, so those recurring costs are worth weighing when you compare deductibles and networks.

What is an alternative to buying traditional health insurance?

“An ACA-compliant major medical health plan is by far the best option for people who aren’t eligible for Medicaid, Medicare, or CHIP,” Norris says. “And premium tax credits are only available for major medical plans purchased through the exchange.”

If a person misses open enrollment, doesn’t qualify for a special enrollment period and needs health insurance temporarily until the end of the year, Norris recommends short-term health insurance if you do not have pre-existing conditions.

Some people benefit from health care sharing ministry plans, often combined with direct primary care or a fixed indemnity plan.

However, these options typically require you to pay full-price for medical care up-front, and file a lot of paperwork for reimbursement, neither of which are a fit for every family.

Here are some more resources for low-income families and individuals:

Help for single moms: 16+ resources$500 monthly single mom grant
Free laptopsScholarships for single moms
Free carFree Christmas gifts
Free smartphoneBest jobs moms can do from home
Free wifiFree and low-cost prescriptions
Free formulaFree clothes
Free toysGovernment assistance for single moms
Free gasFree daycare
Free preschoolFree prescription glasses
10+ charities that help single mothersTutoring and homework help
Free diapersDumpster diving
Low-income home loansFree school supplies
Home buyer grantsFree housing
Free or cheap dental careFree Christmas money
Cheap eats near meFree money for bills
Free hearing aidsFree hearing test
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What is the free healthcare in the U.S. for low income?

Medicaid is a government program that provides free or low-cost health coverage for low-income adults, children, pregnant women, older adults, and people with disabilities.

What is the lowest income to qualify for Obamacare?

Obamacare is another word for the Affordable Care Act, so it includes private health insurance plans, which are often subsidized, as well as expanded Medicaid for low-income adults. In most states (the 38 states where Medicaid has been expanded), adults are eligible for Medicaid with a household income of up to 138% of the poverty level. In 2024, that’s $28,207 for a household of two, $35,632 for a household of three, and $43,056 for a household of four.

What is an alternative to buying traditional health insurance?

“An ACA-compliant major medical health plan is by far the best option for people who aren’t eligible for Medicaid, Medicare, or CHIP,” Louise Norris, a licensed broker and analyst, says.

SOURCES

  1. “2024 Employer Health Benefits Survey,” Oct. 9, 2024. KFF.
     https://https://www.kff.org/health-costs/report/2024-employer-health-benefits-survey/
  2. “What Trump’s 2024 Victory Means for the Affordable Care Act,” by Cynthia Cox for KFF. Nov. 2, 2024.
    https://www.kff.org/quick-take/what-trumps-2024-victory-means-for-the-affordable-care-act/
  3. “How health care could change under the new Trump administration,” by Stephanie Armour for NPR. Nov. 6, 2024.
    https://www.npr.org/sections/shots-health-news/2024/11/06/nx-s1-5181861/2024-election-trump-kennedy-health-care
  4. “Renewing Market Place Coverage FAQs.” Accessed Nov. 14, 2024. KFF.
    https://www.kff.org/faqs/faqs-health-insurance-marketplace-and-the-aca/?view=2&topic=579145119
  5. “Obamacare’s ‘subsidy cliff’ eliminated through 2025,” by Louise Norris for HealthInsurance.org. Aug. 23, 2024.
    https://www.healthinsurance.org/obamacare/beware-obamacares-subsidy-cliff/
  6. “HHS Poverty Guidelines for 2024.” Jan. 17, 2024. ASPE.
    https://aspe.hhs.gov/topics/poverty-economic-mobility/poverty-guidelines
  7. “October 2023 Medicaid & CHIP Enrollment Data Highlights” Jan. 31, 2024. Medicaid.gov.
    https://www.medicaid.gov/medicaid/program-information/medicaid-and-chip-enrollment-data/report-highlights/index.html
  8. “A Look at Medicaid and CHIP Eligibility, Enrollment, and Renewal Policies During the Unwinding of Continuous Enrollment and Beyond,” by Tricia Brooks, Jennifer Tolbert, Allexa Gardner, Bradley Corallo, Sophia Moreno, and Anna Mudumala for KFF. June 20, 2024.
    https://www.kff.org/medicaid/report/a-look-at-medicaid-and-chip-eligibility-enrollment-and-renewal-policies-during-the-unwinding-of-continuous-enrollment-and-beyond/ 
  9. “Cost Sharing,” Medicaid.gov. Accessed Feb. 5, 2024. https://www.medicaid.gov/medicaid/cost-sharing/index.html
  10. “Annual Family Premiums for Employer Coverage Rise 7% to Average $25,572 in 2024, Benchmark Survey Finds, After Also Rising 7% Last Year,” KFF news release. Oct. 9, 2024.
    https://www.kff.org/health-costs/press-release/annual-family-premiums-for-employer-coverage-rise-7-to-average-25572-in-2024-benchmark-survey-finds-after-also-rising-7-last-year/
  11. Average Marketplace Premiums by Metal Tier, 2018-2025,”  KFF. Accessed Nov. 14. 2024 
    https://www.kff.org/affordable-care-act/state-indicator/average-marketplace-premiums-by-metal-tier

If you’re in the market for a used car, the last thing you want to do is spend your hard-earned money on a vehicle that turns out to be a lemon.

While most states have “lemon laws” to help protect consumers who purchase defective vehicles, in many cases you must have an active warranty or service contract1 for the law to provide protection. 

It’s great that these laws are there  if we need them, but it’s ideal to not buy a lemon in the first place! Here is what experts want you to know to protect your pocket and sanity:

What is a “lemon law”?

10 things to do before you buy a used car

  1. Know your rights
  2. Look for a vehicle that can handle high mileage
  3. Don’t come into the test drive blind
  4. Check the car’s title
  5. Get a free vehicle history report
  6. Check for recalls
  7. Make sure the car hasn’t been declared as “salvage”
  8. Inspect the car yourself
  9. Get an independent mechanic’s inspection
  10. Do a gut check

Should you consider a certified pre-owned vehicle?

Answers to FAQs about buying used cars

What is a “lemon law” anyway and why do we care?

Recently, these laws have p their worth for consumers around the country. In August 2024, for example, Colorado implemented a stronger lemon law, extending coverage to more vehicles and giving buyers more time to file claims. In a public advisory, Colorado Attorney General Phil Weiser told his constituents, “Colorado’s lemon law, which used to be one of the worst in the country, just got a lot better for consumers. These changes aim to better protect car buyers from being stuck with defective vehicles.”  

Colorado’s beefed-up lemon law isn’t just a local win—it’s part of a bigger wave of states stepping up to protect car buyers across the country. This trend is great news for you as a consumer: it means more safeguards against lemons, tougher standards for dealers and manufacturers, and more options if you find yourself stuck with a problematic ride.

Lemon laws absolutely can provide protection for used car buyers, as demonstrated by two recent cases. In one instance, a client of Kimmel & Silverman, P.C., a law firm with offices around the United States, purchased a used BMW X-6 with 46,000 miles from CarMax, only to experience numerous engine problems between 46,000 and 50,000 miles. 

After a trial, the jury awarded the client a full repurchase totaling over $50,000, including repayment for engine repairs.2 In another case, a client of California-based Lemon Law Associates who bought a “Certified Pre-owned” Honda discovered prior damage that had not been disclosed.3 The law firm successfully compelled the Honda dealer and manufacturer to buy back the client’s car under the California Consumer Legal Remedy Act. These cases highlight the importance of consumer protection laws in the used car market and show that buyers have recourse when sold vehicles with undisclosed issues.

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These anecdotes illustrate how lemon laws can protect you if you purchase a defective vehicle, even if you live in a state with more limited  protections. Most of all, they highlight the importance of understanding your rights as a consumer! Knowledge is power. And with that in mind:

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10 things to do before you buy a used car

We consulted a master mechanic and a car expert for tips on buying a used car that will last and keep you safe on the road.

1. Know your rights

The NYC Office of Consumer Protection recommends that before you get started, you read the  Used Car Consumer Bill of Rights (which, incidentally, must be provided to you before you sign a contract). 

2. Look for a vehicle that can handle high mileage

According to Carfax,4 you should look for a used car with mileage that adds up to 12,000 miles or less per year (i.e. 60,000 miles or less for a 5-year-old car). 

However, Jason Farrell, a certified master automotive technician based in Philadelphia and editor-in-chief of Mechanic’s Diary, a site that publishes maintenance and troubleshooting guides for common automotive problems, says some car models can withstand higher mileages and may not need a new transmission until 200,000 miles or more. 

A car search website called iSeeCars.com5 conducted a study of more than 260 million vehicles sold between 2012 and 2022 to determine which models had the highest chance of reaching 250,000+ miles. These are some of their findings: 

  • Ford F-350 Super Duty ranked the highest, with a 49.1% chance of reaching 250,000+ miles
  • 10 of the 23 longest-lasting vehicles are pickup trucks
  • Toyota models took up 8 of the 23 top spots
  • Toyota Land Cruiser, Toyota Sequoia and Honda Pilot are the longest-lasting SUVs
  • Honda Accord, Toyota Avalon, and Toyota Camry were the three longest-lasting passenger cars

They found that the average vehicle has an 11.8% chance of lasting at least 250,000 miles.

“If you can, choose reputable brands like Toyota, Honda, and Subaru, which are known for their reliability and often have affordable, long-lasting models,” recommends Tomer Ruderman, Founder and Owner at Car Keys Ottawa. “Avoid cars with a salvage title, as these vehicles, while cheaper, could come with hidden damage and safety issues. Be sure to factor in not just the price of the car but also the cost of insurance, regular maintenance, and gas,” he adds.

“Read some professional reviews — especially long-term reviews — from well-regarded sources like Car and Driver, Road & Track, and Automobile,” says Reddit user verdegrrl. “It will give you an idea of what the testers liked about the car and what they disliked.” 

You can also check Consumer Reports6 to identify models with above-average reliability ratings. 

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3. Don’t come into the test drive blind 

Once you know which make and model vehicle you’d like to buy, make an appointment to test drive the car. But before you show up to the dealership, read reviews about the car, paying particular attention to any areas of concern for other people who have driven that car. 

“Start by being clear about your needs,” says Ruderman. “Do you need something reliable for commuting, or are you looking for more space for kids and cargo?” 

Ruderman says you should inspect the car thoroughly before getting behind the wheel: “Check for dents, scratches, and wear on the tires, and make sure there are no signs of leaks in the engine.” He also recommends that you “keep an eye out for visible rust, especially underneath the car, and watch for signs of engine or transmission issues like leaks or strange sounds, as these can turn into expensive problems later.”

Then, when you’re driving the car, both Ruderman and Farrell advise you to pay close attention to how the car feels and sounds. “Any strange noises from the engine, transmission, or brakes could indicate underlying problems,” says Ruderman. “Test out all the features, like the AC, heater, windows, and electronics, to ensure everything works properly.”

“When you’re driving the car, listen to the engine, test the brakes, check for smooth acceleration, tight turns, and whether the car pulls to one side or the other,” adds Farrell. 

Finally, one last tip from Ruderman: “I’d also recommend you bring along a friend or family member to get a second opinion during the test drive.”

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4. Check the car’s title

A car’s title establishes proof of ownership and includes identifying information about the vehicle such as make, model and VIN (vehicle identification number). Before buying a car, you can look up the car’s title at the National Motor Vehicle Title Information System (NMVTIS) website. You can usually find the car’s VIN on a sticker inside the driver’s door. 

Checking the title can protect you from fraud, such as buying a car that has been stolen (for which you would be unable to register or get a tag) or a car that has been damaged by flooding. 

5. Get a free vehicle history report

A vehicle history report provides you with details of the car before you came along, including the number of owners, any accident history, mileage, title status, maintenance and repair reports, and whether the car has been branded a lemon. Companies like AutoCheck and CarFax provide vehicle history reports for a small fee, and auto dealers sometimes provide these reports to buyers at no charge. You may also get a free vehicle history report from NMVTIS at VehicleHistory.gov.

“As you go through the report, keep an eye out for any accidents,” says Ruderman. “A minor fender bender isn’t usually a dealbreaker, but it’s best to stay away from cars that have been in serious crashes or had structural damage. Also, check for regular maintenance records, like oil changes, which can be a good sign that the car was taken care of properly.”

He recommends that you make sure the odometer readings make sense throughout the car’s history so you don’t end up with a car that’s had its mileage altered. “And definitely steer clear of cars with titles marked as salvage, rebuilt, or flood-damaged, as these can bring more trouble than they’re worth!”

6. Check for recalls

If the car you’re considering needs to be repaired as part of a manufacturing recall, you can find out by entering the VIN at the site of the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration.  

7. Make sure the car hasn’t been declared as “salvage”

The National Insurance Crime Bureau’s website lets you enter a VIN and find out if the vehicle has been flood damaged, was stolen but un-recovered, or otherwise declared as salvage. Visit www.nicb.org/vincheck to start the search.

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8. Inspect the car yourself

To make an informed purchase, take time to carefully inspect the car. “When checking a used car, watch for wear and tear like rust, dents or paint that doesn’t match, which says it had damage before,” Farrell says. “Check the tires, brakes and suspension too. See how many miles it has and any papers on work done.” 

The NYC Office of Consumer Protection offers these tips for checking for water or flood damage:7 

  • Trust your sense of smell. Musty or moldy smells may be a sign of water damage. A strong air freshener or cleaning solution smell may be an attempt to cover up mildew. Run the air conditioner so you can check the vents.
  • Check the carpeting and upholstery for discoloration. Differences in color, especially if they appear to be stains, may indicate water damage. Be aware of used cars with brand-new upholstery.
  • Examine the exterior for water damage. Check for fogging inside headlamps or taillights and dampness inside the wheel well. Look for a water line in the engine compartment or the trunk.
  • Inspect under the car. Look for rust and flaking metal.

If you test drive a car that has an error code, the dealer may reset the code—but that doesn’t always mean the problem is fixed. Reddit user ProfessionalEven296 recommends buying your own code reader from an auto parts store. “Get one which tells you if the ‘drive cycle’ is complete. When the dealer gives you these back, plug in; I bet that the drive cycle isn’t complete because they just reset the code; and you’ll have an error code before getting home.”

Finally, compare the odometer reading to the bill of sale and check the Federal Trade Commission’s (FTC) Buyer’s Guide and NYC Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV) inspection sticker which must be posted on the car. “If the car’s miles seem way lower than what you’d expect for its age, the odometer could have been tampered with,” says Ruderman.”

9. Get an independent mechanic’s inspection

In addition to inspecting the car yourself, Farrell recommends taking it to a good mechanic “to find problems you can’t see.”

Many car shops, garages and vehicle service centers offer free car inspections. Before purchasing a used car, schedule an inspection with a local mechanic. If the seller won’t let you take the car for an inspection before purchasing, that’s a red flag and you should keep looking for another car.

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10. Do a gut check

When you really need a car and you find one you like at a great price, it can be easy to become enamored with what seems like an amazing deal and ignore any red flags. Take time to check with your common sense before committing to a car.

“If a deal sounds too good to be true, keep looking,” Farrell says. “Doing your homework protects you from getting tricked into a bad deal.”

Ruderman agrees. “A great deal might catch your eye, but if the price doesn’t match the car’s model or year, there’s a good chance something’s being hidden,” he says. “Sellers should be upfront about the car’s history, and if they’re reluctant to provide a detailed report, that’s a major warning sign. These reports give you info on past accidents, odometer readings, and any mechanical problems that could cost you down the line.” 

The NYC Office of Consumer Protection also notes that you should make sure there is a refund policy posted in the office where sales take place.

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Should you consider a certified pre-owned vehicle?

Some dealerships sell “certified” used cars, which means the car has been thoroughly inspected and the dealer is willing to offer performance guarantees, usually in the form of a lengthy warranty. 

“Certified used cars come with perks like longer warranties, thorough checks and peace of mind, but they cost more than regular used,” Farrell says. “While the price may be worth it for safety, others save money by skipping certification and taking it to a mechanic. In the end, it depends on your budget and how sure you need to be that a car is OK.”

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Answers to FAQs about buying used cars

“I bought a used car, now what?”

After you buy a car, you need insurance, registration, and a tag. Before leaving the dealership or completing the transaction, you need to make sure you get a clear title transferred to you. Next, get insurance on your new vehicle. To save money, look into affordable car insurance options that provide the coverage you need without breaking the bank. Once you have a title, you can register the vehicle and get a license tag. You’ll also have to pay any sales taxes that are due on the transaction.

My car got repossessed. Now what?

Is it illegal to sell a car and not disclose problems?

It’s generally considered unethical to sell a car without disclosing problems, but federal regulations requiring disclosure are more specific about new cars rather than used cars, according to Reiff Law Firm in Philadelphia.8 Because there are no strict federal regulations regarding disclosure of issues with used cars, it’s especially important to check a vehicle’s history and get a mechanic’s input before purchasing.

What if I bought from a private seller, and they lied about the car?

Your options may vary depending on the depth of the seller’s deception. For example, when Reddit user SagewiththeSauce went to register a newly purchased used car with the Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV), they found out that the seller had sold a car with an altered title and an altered odometer. Because tampering with the odometer is a federal crime, the DMV recommended filing a police report. 

However, most private vehicle transactions are considered to be sold “as is.” That means the buyer is responsible for any problems they learn about after the sale. If you feel that a seller took advantage of you, check the laws in your state or talk to an attorney to see if you can pursue damages. 

Can I return a used car within 30 days?

If you purchase privately from an individual, any return would be at the seller’s discretion. 

If you purchase from a dealer, return policies vary and often depend on the state in which they’re located. In some states, dealers are required to give you an option to return the car and cancel your transaction, often within three days. You can check with your state attorney general’s office to find out the rules in your state. It’s a good idea to ask for the dealer’s return policy in writing before you complete a transaction. 

Someone sold me a bad car, what can I do now?

“If someone sells you a bad used car, know your rights,” Farrell says. “Acting fast is important. Depending on what happened, you may be able to get it fixed and get the repair costs or your money back.” 

Farrell recommends documenting the issues and trying first to resolve the issue with the seller. If the seller won’t help, contact a lawyer, the Better Business Bureau or the Bureau of Consumer Protection to stand up for your rights and resolve the situation.
Also, if the used car is only a few years old or has less than 100,000 miles, the problems may still be covered under the original factory warranty, suggests Reddit user CWNIV93. If you think this may apply, check with a local dealership to find out whether you can get needed repairs completed for free under the original warranty.


SOURCES

  1. “Magnuson Moss Warranty-Federal Trade Commission Improvements Act,” Federal Trade Commission. https://www.ftc.gov/legal-library/browse/statutes/magnuson-moss-warranty-federal-trade-commission-improvements-act 
  1. “Lemon Law Attorneys Recent Successes,” Kimmel & Silverman, P.C. https://www.lemonlaw.com/about/recent-successes.html
  1. “Our Success Stories,” Lemon Law Associates.
    https://www.lemonlawassociates.com/our-success-stories/
  1. “What Is Good Mileage for a Used Car?” by Jack Ferry for CarFax. Aug. 30, 2021. https://www.carfax.com/blog/good-mileage-for-used-car
  1. “The Longest-Lasting Cars, Trucks and SUVs To Reach 250,000 Miles and Beyond,” Iseecars.com. Aug. 12, 2024.
    https://www.iseecars.com/longest-lasting-cars-study
  1. “Guide to Car Reliability & Owner Satisfaction,” Consumer Reports. Oct. 24, 2024.
    https://www.consumerreports.org/cars/car-reliability-owner-satisfaction/guide-to-car-reliability-owner-satisfaction-a9213219653
  1. “Beware of Buying Flood-Damaged Cars,” NYC Consumer and Worker Protection.
    https://www.nyc.gov/site/dca/consumers/shopping-goods-beware-flood-damaged-cars.page
  1. “Buy a Used Vehicle? The Defects Not Disclosed at Sale Can Hurt or Kill You and Your Loved Ones,” Reiff Law Firm.
    https://www.reifflawfirm.com/buy-used-vehicle-defects-not-disclosed-sale-can-hurt-kill-loved-ones/

If you need money for Christmas — whether you want to buy presents or need to put a meal on your table — there are a lot of ways you can get money for Christmas.

Head’s up: it’s best to start applying for Christmas financial assistance as early as possible. Early October is not too soon! Many programs have limited resources and operate on a first-come, first-served basis. Below, find our giant list of resources:


1. Best way to get free Christmas money: Seek assistance from churches and charities

2. Apply for community Christmas charity assistance programs

3. Look for holiday help from Christmas cops

4. Search for grants “for Christmas” and financial aid

5. Check with financial institutions for “bonuses”

6. Search online for additional resources for Christmas help

7. Best way to earn money for Christmas: Sell something

8. Earn money through Care.com gigs

9. Win a little money for Christmas through survey and rewards sites

10. Save money and get cash back cash on money you’re already spending with online shopping apps

11. Get a holiday job or side gig

12. Sell plasma

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1. Best way to get free Christmas money: Seek assistance from churches and charities

Churches often set aside a benevolence fund for people who need assistance with utility bills, rent, and other expenses. While you may not be able to get money for Christmas presents directly, you can ask for help with your other monthly expenses to reduce your financial burden or ask to be included in programs that provide free Christmas gifts. 

If you are not currently part of a congregation, you can search for “churches near me” and call around to see if any local churches can help you out. You may have to volunteer time at the church or attend classes on money management to qualify for assistance.

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Catholic Charities

Catholic Charities has a variety of programs to help families who need money for Christmas, such as a “Christmas food basket” program, where people donate produce, turkeys, and canned goods for families to have a Christmas dinner. Catholic Charities also offers an “adopt-a-family” program where families who need Christmas assistance are matched with donors who provide them free toys, clothes, and other items.

There are also numerous church-based organizations that provide financial assistance to low-income individuals: 

  • Love INC
  • United Methodist Church
  • The Episcopal Church
  • The Jewish Federation of North America
  • Lutheran Social Services

2. Apply for community Christmas charity assistance programs

While most charities don’t give out Christmas money directly, there are lots of organizations that provide free Christmas gifts, as well as money for things like utility bills, rent, and food during the holidays and year-round: 

Christmas toys and gifts

These are some places you can get free Christmas gifts and toys: 

You may also be able to find local charities that offer free Christmas money or gifts by searching “Christmas charities near me:” 

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Check out this post for details on how to apply to these and other Christmas gift programs: 

11 places for free Christmas gifts for low-income families

You can also get free toys and gift cards year-round.

Assistance League

Depending on where you live, the Assistance League offers various holiday programs, including one where members “adopt” a family for the holidays, giving them gifts, food baskets, and decorations. Some chapters also host a “Santa’s Closet” that offers help in the form of gift cards from supermarkets and local retailers.

Boys & Girls Clubs of America

Boys & Girls Clubs of America are known for their after-school programs, but some chapters also host holiday programs like toy drives and meals for people struggling with Christmas money.

Lions Club

Lions Club chapters all over the world host Christmas assistance events for families during the holidays. They collect items like Christmas trees and toys, and host holiday parties where anyone can stop by for a free meal. Lions Club chapters also work with local businesses to collect and distribute toys to local families in need.

United Way

The United Way connects people with assistance programs and helps raise money for local communities during the holidays. If you dial 2-1-1 from your phone, you can ask about local organizations and nonprofits that provide Christmas assistance and other resources for low-income families in your area. 

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YMCA and YWCA

Local YMCA and YWCA chapters partner with organizations like Toys for Tots and Salvation Army to provide Christmas assistance to low-income families.

3. Look for holiday help from Christmas cops

Police departments and police organizations often partner with local organizations to help families in need during the holidays, providing free Christmas gifts, meals, cash and more.

Reach out to your local police station (non-emergency number) to find out how to apply for local programs that offer free Christmas money and holiday help. 

Search “police station near me:” 

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4. Search for grants “for Christmas”

Our research didn’t uncover grants specifically targeting Christmas, but we do maintain a vast list of grants to help single moms, single parents and low-income families find grants to cover living expenses and financial hardships. The grants won’t put cash in your pocket for Christmas shopping, but they may be able to cover living expenses, which can make it a little easier to enjoy Christmas for your family.

Here is a list of grants and resources for financial help for single moms.

You can search for grants on a site called Grantspace.org, which has a comprehensive list of grants for individuals, artists, small businesses and nonprofits. Some grants require you to show proof of income, while others just require you to disclose your need.

Each month, our team here at Wealthysinglemommy.com gives away $500 to one single mom in need, no strings attached. 

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5. Check with financial institutions for “bonuses”

Some banks, credit unions and credit card companies offer up to $300 bonuses just for opening an account. You may be required to set up direct deposit, make an initial purchase, or start with a minimum account balance. Some credit card companies also offer incentives when you transfer balances. 

Another option that banks and credit unions offer is something called loan payment deferment. If you have a car loan or a mortgage, some banks will allow you to skip one payment if you are experiencing hardship. Note that the interest will likely still accrue, but you may be able to skip a principal payment. To do this, call your bank and ask about loan deferment or forbearance. It costs nothing to ask!

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6. Search online for additional resources for Christmas help

Websites like 211.org provide information on various assistance programs, including those specific to holiday needs. Additionally, social media platforms and local community forums can be good sources for finding holiday help opportunities. Some tips to get started:

  • Find and follow your town’s official social media accounts, as well as your local library’s Instagram and/or Facebook page. 
  • Search for Facebook groups that serve your community by searching for your town in the search field and seeing what group names pop up.
  • Search “soup kitchens near me” and “charities for families + your town, state” or “Christmas help for families + your town, state”

7. Best way to earn money for Christmas: Sell something

Chances are you have a lot of stuff you can sell to make money for Christmas. Here are some ideas: 

If you don’t have many secondhand items to sell, consider selling some low-cost, popular small items. For example, customized bottle opener keychains are very practical during the holiday season, especially as gift exchanges or holiday party favors. 

They are affordable, portable, and can be sold at community markets, school events, church sales, or local Facebook groups. GSJJ boutique keychains support quick customization; you can design styles with holiday elements or personalized patterns to increase added value, attract buyers more easily, and add a flexible source of income to your Christmas budget.

For more ideas, check out our list of 33 things to sell to make money from the stuff around your house. 

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8. Earn money through Care.com gigs

During the holidays, parents often need childcare to take care of shopping and gift wrapping. Consider creating a profile on Care.com, a marketplace for babysitting gigs, home health care, pet sitting, cleaning services, and more. 

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9. Win a little money for Christmas through survey and rewards sites

There are a lot of websites and apps that allow you to earn Christmas cash or gift cards for taking surveys, shopping online, and completing other tasks. Most of these sites and apps do payouts through Paypal, so make sure you have an account before joining. Some also offer cash just for signing up. 

You can also download cash-back apps to scan receipts for money.

Survey apps:

If you’re willing to share your opinion, you can earn money on these apps: 

  • Kashkick (also pays you for watching videos and surfing online)
  • Opinion Outpost
  • InboxDollars (also pays you for online shopping and watching videos)
  • PaidViewPoint
  • PrizeRebel
  • Survey Club
  • Game and casino apps:

    • Swagbucks LIVE
    • Skillz Games
    • Mistplay
    • Sweatcoin (earn money for meeting daily steps benchmarks)

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    10. Save money and get cash back cash on money you’re already spending with online shopping apps: 

    Using cashback sites like Rakuten, Ibotta, or Honey when shopping can help you earn money back on purchases. Use these tips for maxing these out in time to get some cash back for Christmas 2024:

    • Welcome bonuses: New users can take advantage of sign-up bonuses. For example, Rakuten is currently offering a $30 welcome bonus for new users who make a qualifying purchase.
    • Early start: Starting to use these apps now gives you several months to accumulate cashback before Christmas, maximizing their potential earnings.
    • Regular payouts: Rakuten pays out quarterly, while Ibotta allows withdrawals once you reach $20. Starting now should ensure you can receive payouts before the holiday season.
    • Special promotions: Both Rakuten and Ibotta often offer increased cashback rates and special promotions during the holiday season, so be on the lookout for those!

    11. Get a holiday job or side gig

    A lot of retailers hire extra staff specifically for the holiday season. If you have time to pick up a part-time job, you can earn Christmas money and get an employee discount at the store you work for (I used to save 45% on select days when I worked at Kohls as a seasonal employee). 

    You can also look into starting a side gig or finding a new, higher-paying job, including jobs that do not require a background check.

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    12. Sell plasma

    According to DonatingPlasma.org, you can get paid for donating plasma — which makes up 55% of your total blood volume and helps with things like infection prevention and injury recovery — if you: 

    • Are at least 18 years old
    • Weigh at least 110 pounds or 50 kilograms
    • Pass a medical examination
    • Complete a medical history screening
    • Test non-reactive for viruses like hepatitis and HIV
    • Follow a recommended diet that includes 50 to 80 grams of protein per day

    While payouts vary, most places will pay you $30-60 per session. The FDA mandates that you cannot donate plasma more than once in a two-day period or more than twice in a seven-day period.1 

    If you want to donate plasma, search for “places to sell plasma near me.”

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