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Are you a mom thinking about starting your own business to bring in some extra income or replace your current job?

That’s great! Running your own business gives you the flexibility to set your own hours and choose the kind of work that you do—and don’t—want to do. This flexibility is a big part of why moms, including myself, are often so drawn to entrepreneurship to begin with.

What business can I do as a mother? 

Whether you’re happily married, newly divorced, or just a single mom, if you’re interested in starting your own business, the good news is there are tons of options out there to choose from.

Below are many business ideas to consider, including a number of work-from-home ideas that can be done with little more than an internet connection:

Bottom line: What is the best business for a woman to start?

Business idea #1: Bookkeeping

Earning potential: Average of $49,523 per year / $24 per hour*, though experienced bookkeepers with a mature client base can earn up to $72,500 per year or more.

What they do: At its simplest, bookkeeping involves keeping track of financial transactions for a business. The work can involve recording financial details, updating various financial statements, and reading over financial documents for accuracy. 

If you like working with numbers and want the freedom to work from home, then freelance bookkeeping could be an excellent business idea for you.

*All salary averages in this article are based on the most recent data from Ziprecruiter.

How to become a freelance bookkeeper

All it takes to be a freelance bookkeeper is a computer, internet connection, bookkeeping software, and the skills to get the job done. With the right training, it’s possible to kick off your career in a matter of weeks.

Bookkeeper Launch— an online course launched by Ben Robinson, a certified public accountant, and our recommended bookkeeper training program — takes just 90 days to complete and teaches you everything you need to know about starting your own bookkeeping business, and earn into the six-figures.

Learn more about how to become a bookkeeper in this post. And how to start a bookkeeping business here.

Read our review for Bookkeeper Launch.

Business idea #2: Proofreading

Earning potential: Average of $46,466 per year / $22 per hour, while those with more experience can make $74,500 per year or more. 

What they do: Proofreaders act as the final set of eyes to review a piece of content before it is published or otherwise pushed out into the world. Their job is to find and correct errors or inconsistencies in text.

Virtually any business that produces content can hire proofreaders. This includes:

  • Book publishers
  • Magazines
  • Newspapers
  • Websites
  • Advertisers
  • Television writers
  • Grant writers
  • Academics
  • Business owners
  • Speakers

Anywhere you see words out in the world, there’s a good chance that a proofreader was involved at some point in creating it.

Become a freelance proofreader

Proofreaders need to have an extremely strong handle on language, spelling, punctuation, and grammar. For that reason, many freelance proofreaders who are just starting out will complete some form of proofreading training to learn the tricks of the trade.

Learn more about what a proofreader does, how to learn the skills needed, find clients and work from anywhere.

Business idea #3: Doula

Earning potential: Average of $50,685 per year / $24 per hour, though some with more experience and credentials can earn $68,500 per year or more.

What they do: Doulas play a critical role providing physical and emotional support to new parents before, during, and after childbirth.

A doula’s role can vary significantly from professional to professional and also from client to client. These are some of the typical responsibilities a doula could have:

  • Educating parents about childbirth
  • Making parents more comfortable during labor
  • Providing physical care during and after delivery 
  • Ensuring the mother has a positive birth experience
  • After birth, ensuring that a mother is properly healing and adjusting to motherhood
  • Educating the mother on issues of breastfeeding and childcare

Become a freelance doula

You can get doula training and earn a certification from organizations like:

  • Doulas of North America International (DONA)
  • Childbirth and Postpartum Professional Association (CAPPA)
  • Childbirth International
  • International Childbirth Education Association (ICEA)

Then you can begin to advertise your services so you can build a clientele base. Check with your certifying organization for programs to help you find clients and get established.

How to become a certified doula

Business idea #4: Graphic design

Earning potential: Average of $55,650 per year / $27 per hour, though experienced graphic designers can earn $90,500 per year or more.

What they do: Graphic designers perform a variety of tasks depending on what their clients need. This can include designing anything from logos and websites to business cards, books, magazines, newspapers, ads, images, product packaging, and literally everything in between.

Become a freelance graphic designer

Becoming a successful graphic designer requires more than just solid art skills. You must also have a solid grasp on design best practices, the specific computer programs used for design, and the business acumen required to handle, manage, and communicate with clients.

While some graphic designers learn these skills by completing a degree in graphic design, it has become increasingly common for graphic designers to be self-taught through online courses.

Coursera, for example, offers a number of great graphic design courses that can help you learn what you need to do the job well. Classes and certifications cost $59 per month with a Coursera Plus subscription.

Learn more about what graphic designers do, the job market for designers, and how to find freelance design clients and full-time jobs.

Business idea #5: Coding

Earning potential: Average of $57,055 per year / $27 per hour, though experienced coders can earn $91,500 per year or more.

What they do: Coders perform the important task of designing, writing, and testing computer code for various applications, from web development to app development, software development, and everything in between. 

Demand for coders is increasing as more businesses find themselves needing websites or apps to interact with their customers. And because all you need is a computer and know-how to do the job, it’s possible to do this job from anywhere, including your home. 

Become a freelance coder

Many coders will enter the field after completing a college degree, but this isn’t always required. More important than holding a specific degree is being able to demonstrate your proficiency in the specific language needed by an employer or client.

Depending on the job, coders might need to know one or multiple programming languages. The most popular include Python, R, Javascript, C, C++, and PHP.

Before enrolling in a degree program, you might want to consider a self-paced, online course like those offered by Coursera, which are usually very affordable and high-quality.

How to become a coder (high paying and you can work from home)

Business idea #6: Freelance writing

Earning potential: Average of $60,985 per year / $29 per hour, though experienced writers can earn $156,000 per year or more.

What they do: Freelance writers create content for multiple projects, including:

  • Websites
  • Marketing or advertising efforts
  • Books
  • Blogs
  • Podcasts
  • Whitepapers

But this is just a short list of the options freelance writers can pursue. You can make money as a freelance writer either by contracting with clients (there are literally thousands of businesses that rely on freelance writers to create the content for their websites) or by launching and monetizing your own website and blog (more on that next). Many full-time blog owners earn in the six-figures, or even millions of dollars per year. (Check out these tips from millionaire moms on how to build wealth.)

Become a freelance writer

All you need to launch your freelance writing business is a computer and access to the internet. Well, that, strong writing skills, and a little bit of business know-how. 

Freelance writers monetizing their own websites will often start off making small amounts of money until their site truly starts taking off, but once it is rolling, the money can likewise be substantial.

Business idea #7: Project management

Earning potential: Average of $98,788 per year / $47 per hour, though experienced project managers can earn $157,500 per year or more.

What they do: When a business has a complex project to complete, they turn to project managers to get the job done. Project managers perform a variety of tasks designed to usher a project from planning all the way through to completion. This can include:

  • Scheduling
  • Budgeting
  • Assigning tasks
  • Managing personnel
  • Removing roadblocks
  • Communicating with project leaders and teams 

Most project managers work as employees of large organizations, but it is possible to work as a freelance project manager as well, especially for smaller businesses.

Become a freelance project manager

Many project managers will earn a degree in project management, with master’s degrees being very common amongst more senior-level PMs.

That being said, for those who are first starting out, certificate programs can be a great way of testing the waters and seeing if the work is right for you. They can also be a great way of learning enough of the basics to get an entry-level project management job.

Google offers certificate programs that you might want to consider if you think project management could be for you.

Google’s project management program:

  • No experience or degree required
  • Job ready in 6 months or less
  • Flexible schedule with 100% of courses completed online
  • Certificate upon completion
  • Financial aid available for those who qualify

If you think of yourself as a natural problem-solver, consider going for Google’s Project Management certificate.

Business idea #8: Resale shop owner

Earning potential: Average of $67,469 per year / $32 per hour, though some experienced resellers can earn $230,500 per year or more.

What they do: Resellers find and purchase items at a low price and sell them to make a profit.

When it first launched in 1995, eBay was a platform for people to make a few extra dollars on the side selling items they no longer wanted. But in recent years, online resale shops have become a gold mine for savvy sellers looking to launch lucrative businesses selling new and used goods. 

Become a resale shop owner

The fastest way to get your feet wet in the world of online resale is to start by selling your own items online. Once you’ve become familiar with the process and see what people are buying, you can start sourcing items through thrifting or wholesaling. 

Successful resale businesses understand which items to sell on which platforms and how to set prices to increase profitability. Different resale shops have different commission models.

Here are some of the most popular sites for selling items: 

Poshmark

Poshmark is like a social media site for resale. You can like and share listings to help them gain more traction, and people can follow your account to shop for new items you add. Poshmark began as a site strictly for clothing and accessories but has since expanded to include jewelry, children’s toys, art, and home goods.

For sales under $15, Poshmark takes a flat commission of $2.95. For items $15 and up, Poshmark has a 20% commision rate. Read our full Poshmark review here >>

Mercari

Mercari has a similar structure to Poshmark. Sellers can list items for free on Mercari — everything from clothing to electronics — and the site takes a 10% fee on each item when it sells. See our Mercari review here >>

thredUP

Unlike other resale sites, thredUP does not have individual seller profiles. Sellers submit their items to thredUP in free Clean Out Kits, then thredUP decides the value of the items and pays out commissions on a sliding scale of 5-80% (commission percentage increases with the value of the item).

thredUP only accepts about 50% of the items submitted and donates anything unusable, though sellers can choose to have their unsellable items returned for a $10.99 fee. Check out our review of thredUP here >> 

eBay

It’s free to post items for sale on eBay — unless you start listing more than 250 items per month. High-quantity sellers pay a $0.35 insertion fee per listing. In either case, if your items sell, they’ll be subject to a fee between 12-15%, depending on the type of item, plus $0.30 per order.

Business idea #9: Virtual assistant 

Earning potential: Average of $70,393 per year / $34 per hour, though some experienced virtual assistants can earn $171,000 per year or more.

What they do: Virtual assistants handle tasks like:

  • Scheduling meetings
  • Responding to emails
  • Managing social media accounts
  • Drafting presentations
  • Supporting the day-to-day operations of a company or individual.

Become a virtual assistant

If you can type and have basic computer skills, you can start your own business as a virtual assistant. 

As more companies shift to a remote model, more of these positions should become available. If you start your own business as a virtual assistant, you can pick up multiple clients and market any unique skills you have (like marketing, copywriting, or graphic design). 

Learn how to become a virtual assistant and market yourself and get started on a lucrative new career.

Business idea #10: Blogging

Earning potential: Average of $73,199 per year / $35 per hour, though some experienced bloggers can earn $122,500 per year or more.

What they do: Bloggers create and manage a blog about a subject they are passionate about such as:

  • Personal finance
  • Health and lifestyle
  • Fashion
  • Celebrity news
  • DIY and crafts
  • Food

Blogging is a flexible career, and studies find that most moms prefer to have the flexibility to work at home at least part of the time. I get why! When you’re your own boss, own your time, decide how much money you can earn (opposed to a boss telling you what your salary is), you are in control. That is power. Control. Freedom. Joy.

Become a blogger

Starting a blog is easy.

First, find a URL, also called a blog address or domain name, and buy it. (My URL is Wealthysinglemommy.com).

In the past, I had good experience with the hosting service BlueHost that will help you buy your domain name quickly and cheaply (a few years ago when my site was getting really big and I needed high-end security and tech support, I upgraded to WPEngine as a host. WPEngine is amazing but costs about $3,000+ per year. Start small and cheap and upgrade as you grow).

Find partnerships either directly through the company sites, or through networks like:

To build a successful affiliate blog requires focusing on search engine optimization, or SEO. Spend some time with SEO expert Neil Patel‘s blog and videos to get the basics as well as deeper insight into this critical and frankly complicated and competitive industry.

Bloggers and social media influencer income ranges from $0 to millions of dollars. I recently attended a blogger conference where a few of my colleagues shared their experience in building sites that they all recently sold for between $6 million and $7 million.

What they shared is not highly technical, or complicated. It is what many of us can do, but they were diligent and ran their sites like businesses. It took them years — between six and 11 years, in these cases, but it is possible.

Business idea #11: YouTuber

Earning potential: Average of $65,999 per year / $32 per hour, though some experienced YouTubers can earn $81,100 per year or more.

What they do: Like a blogger, a YouTuber can take on many forms — from posting funny videos about your kids, to teaching your audience how to do a certain professional or creative skill, to social activism.

Become a YouTuber

It’s free to set up a YouTube account. It’s actually included if you already have a Google account. You have a Google account if you have a Gmail email address. Once you set up your account, you can create a YouTube channel.

YouTubing is very competitive, but those who stick it out long-term and invest time and money in their platform can earn six figures or more through advertising, affiliate revenue, selling a product or course of their own — or a combination. YouTube marketing agencies can be a good investment by offering expert guidance on strategy, content, and audience engagement.

Many YouTubers take the audio from their videos and turn those into podcast episodes, and repurpose their material on a blog and social media accounts like TikTok and Instagram.

When making TikTok or YouTube videos, outfits from ellaelisque.com can make your video content pop because they’re luxuriously tailored and unapologetically bold, so you can own the screen.

Business idea #12: Flipping pallets on Amazon

Earning potential: Average of $67,469 per year / $32 per hour, though some experienced flippers can earn $230,500 per year or more.

One Redditor says their friend makes about $40,000 per month from flipping pallets:

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What they do: Pallet flipping is a lucrative way to make money on Amazon returns. When buyers return an item to Amazon, many sellers don’t pay to have Amazon ship merchandise back to them. As a result, Amazon has a large stock of returned items they are willing to sell for a steep discount.

A pallet can be a large box of returned goods or an actual wooden pallet (platform with shrink-wrapped, stacked goods). These pallets can be filled with anything, from electronics to clothing and jewelry.

You can buy them from Amazon Liquidation Auctions through its partner, B-Stock, liquidators like BULQ, Liquidation.com, or local liquidators in your area. Then, resell the items through eBay, Facebook Marketplace, Mercari, and other selling platforms. 

Other ways to find pallets:

  • Facebook – Search Facebook for liquidator groups and become a member to find out when they offer pallet sales
  • Seller/reseller forums – Forums on sites like Reddit, Warrior Forum, and eCommerceBytes can offer helpful information on where you can buy a pallet
  • Online searches – Use your preferred search engine to look for “buy Amazon return pallets near me”

Can you make money flipping pallets on Amazon?

Yes, you can make money flipping pallets on Amazon. However, there is some risk involved. When you buy a pallet, you won’t know what’s in it until you open it. For example, these resellers spent $500 at a liquidator and ended up with items that they could sell at over $1,400:

However it doesn’t always work out. These Redditors share the not-so-good experiences:

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If you’re buying direct from Amazon, they offer an estimated value on the pallet and accept bids from the public. 

Here are some tips for making it a profitable business:

  • Do your research, buy only from Amazon or a reputable liquidator
  • Refurbish or fix your goods to make them look like new to get better profits
  • If the original box is missing, buy a replacement or use a box branded to your business
  • Factor in any selling and shipping fees to price your goods competitively
  • Join a reseller support group or connect on seller forums to ask questions
  • Bundle similar products
  • Have a designated area where you can store, refurbish, and ship the merchandise

Business idea #13: Dog groomer

Earning potential: Average of $47,659 per year / $23 per hour, though some experienced groomers can earn $72,000 per year or more

What they do: Dog groomers bathe, brush, and trim nails and fur to maintain a dog’s appearance. They may also provide special services such as creative grooming, which involves dying fur or painting nails with animal-safe products.

There is a great demand for dog groomers, and many who are in the profession express a great love for dogs and a high level of satisfaction about the work. However, dog grooming can be physically demanding, and you need a lot of patience to deal with different temperaments of dogs (and their humans)!

If you’re building a pet-related business, it can also help to partner with trusted food brands like California Dog Kitchen to offer clients better nutrition options for their pets.

These Reddit users share their experiences, both good and bad:

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Your level of experience will make a difference in your earnings. This is a career where your salary can grow from year to year as you build your skills, services and client list. Once you have the basic skills under your belt, you can think about how you want to continue:

  • Home-based: You will perform dog grooming services at your home
  • Mobile: You will travel to clients to perform dog grooming services
  • Storefront: You will groom dogs in a corporate setting (you can open your own shop)

Become a dog groomer

To become a dog groomer, you need to take classes to learn grooming skills and practice those skills in real life.

You can:

  • Take classes online or in a classroom setting from dog grooming schools like the Paragon School of Pet Grooming or Nash Academy of Animal Arts
  • Start as a bather working for a business, and learn skills on the job
  • Volunteer for a business that shows and breeds dogs to learn the basics

While there is no required license for the profession, having formal training and certifications will increase your credibility and earning potential. It’s also good idea to attend dog grooming conferences to learn about the industry and stay on top of tools, techniques and trends.

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Business idea #14: Crafting and selling handmade items

If you have a knack for crafting, turning your hobby into a business can be both fulfilling and profitable. Platforms like Etsy make it easier than ever to reach a global audience.

Potential Products to Create and Sell:

  • Home décor: Craft items like candles, wall art, or decorative pillows that cater to current interior design trends.
  • Pet products: Handmade pet accessories, including collars and leashes, made with durable materials, such as high-quality webbing and durable plastic buckles for backpacks, ensures longevity and appeals to pet owners looking for cute, unique and high-quality products for their fur babies.

Steps to start your crafting business:

Identify your niche: Focus on a specific type of product that you are passionate about and that has market demand.

Source quality materials: Invest in high-quality supplies to ensure your products are durable and appealing. For instance, using durable plastic buckles for backpacks can enhance the functionality and attractiveness of your items.

Create an online presence: Create an online store on platforms like Etsy or Shopify, and use social media to showcase your creations and connect with potential customers.

Price competitively: Research similar products to set pricing that reflects the quality and uniqueness of your work while remaining attractive to buyers.

Bottom line: What is the best business for a woman to start?

There truly is no one-size-fits-all approach to deciding which business to start. Choosing the right business for yourself is all about figuring out what you love to do and how you can make money doing it. 

There are three key questions to ask yourself when you’re thinking about starting a business: 

  1. Am I passionate about it?
  2. Do I have the skills or knowledge to run it?
  3. Can I make money doing it? 

If you answered yes to all three, you’ve found your match. But whatever business you decide to start, you can’t run it successfully without a top-notch website. A website is the primary way you can communicate the value of your business and build trust with the people who will become your customers.

Looking for more ways to earn extra income? Here are 86 side hustles and ways to earn passive income. Plus, learn about how to manifest money (if you believe in that sort of thing).

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What business can I do as a mother?

Whether you’re happily married, newly divorced, or just a single mom, if you’re interested in starting your own business, the good news is there are tons of options out there to choose from, many you can do with little more than an internet connection.

What business can I do from home?

One of the great things about being a working mom today is the fact that so many jobs can be done from the comfort of your own home. This gives you the freedom to stay on top of mom-life while still making money.

How do I start my own business as a mom?

There are four steps to get started: 1. Decide what kind of work you want to do. 2. Forming an LLC. 3. Buy a domain name and launch a website. 4. Start building a client base.

If it’s been a while since you hit the dating scene, you’ll realize that a lot has changed. While Match.com and eharmony were once the go-tos for online dating sites, apps have changed the game as to how people meet.

You can thank Tinder for setting the stage for on-demand dating.

When it comes to dating apps, Tinder reigns as the OG. With its invention of the swipe (they actually trademarked swipe right and swipe left), Tinder is as synonymous with dating apps as Uber is to ride-sharing.

In fact, the app prides itself in having more than 55 billion matches and is available in 190 countries. While Tinder was originally branded as a hook-up app, the platform now promotes making connections, whether it’s to find love, or just date around, or to hook up. (I personally know many married couples who met on Tinder!)

In fact, right now Tinder is my go-to dating app. I’ve been having a great time chatting and meeting up with my matches.

Here are our top three dating app recommendations:

eharmonyTinderHinge
– A- BBB rating
– Focused on serious relationships
– 150-point personality report
– Apps for iOS and Android
– 100% member verification (no catfishing)
– Billions of potential matches worldwide
– For love, casual dating, and hookups
– No long sign-up process
– Easy, swipe-based matching
– Photo verification
– Focused on serious relationships
– Lots of free features, including messaging
– Algorithm designed to match compatible people
– Prompts encourage conversation
– Hybrid between eharmony and Tinder

If you’re curious about Tinder can offer to your dating it, read on.

How does Tinder work?

Tinder’s app design is very simple and customizable; you can include as little or as much about yourself in your profile. First, users fill out their profile with basic info (name, age, occupation, sexual orientation). Then, you’ll upload photos and (if you want) write a blurb about yourself, and include “passions” to share your interests. 

Want advice for what to say in your bio? Check out our advice:

As for matches, you can go to your settings and filter who you want to see by distance, age range, and gender. You can also search for someone on Tinder.

Swiping: How many swipes do you get on Tinder?

Once you create your profile, you can begin swiping. Just how many swipes you get per day depends on the user. There is no set amount. Tinder uses its own algorithm to calculate your daily maximum swipes. 

When you see a profile you like, you swipe right. If you’re not into them, you swipe left. When it’s a mutual swipe right, you have a match!

Anyone can make the first move and Tinder also allows you to send GIFs and photos if you’re at a loss for what to say.

Other features to help you find your match

Besides basic swiping, Tinder also has features to help you boost your chances of getting matches: “super likes,” top pics, and profile boosting.

You can give one “super like” per day, which means you give your matches a “blue star” to help you stand out better. According to Tinder, your chances of matching are 3x more with a super like, and conversations last 70% percent longer. 

You also have the option to boost your profile, which lets you get 10x more profile views.

Tinder also has a feature called top picks, where the app curates matches that they think you’d like based on your interests and swipe history. Tinder allows you to look at them once a day and choose to match with one profile that piques your interest. And if you’re trying to avoid any exes or weirdos, Tinder just added a new feature that lets you block contacts so you won’t run into them while you’re swiping.

Who’s on Tinder?

Short answer: Everyone’s on Tinder. People looking for booty calls, people looking to meet people (as platonic friends or possibly something serious), cougars, and people looking for a partner. Even married people are on Tinder.

With so many people on Tinder, it’s easy to get tons of matches off the bat. But sometimes quantity doesn’t always mean quality. You’ll find fake profiles or may experience little to no interaction from matches. 

In my personal experience, I’ve encountered many profiles where all you’ll see is a shirtless body (no face pics) or just a collection of expensive watches and cars. But I’ve also encountered nice, well-intentioned men with whom I have wonderful conversations that lead to a successful night of dinner and drinks. It is possible to find love on Tinder, you just need to really search for it.

Is Tinder worth it for over 40?

Tinder might be worth trying if you’re over 40, especially according to recent data on online dating over 40. The user base skews younger with 45% of users aged 25 to 34 and 76% of all users living in cities.1

So, it’ll depend on the age range of who you prefer to get to know. Some users in the Reddit r/datingoverforty community think it’s less about your age and more about your geographic location.

Reddit user shares advice about dating over forty on Tinder.
Reddit user shares some of the challenges of dating over forty on Tinder.

It’s worth a try to see what connections you can make on Tinder, though there are also still plenty of places to meet someone over 40 IRL.

Is Tinder good for dating?

Tinder’s easy-to-use platform and its on-demand dating appeal quickly gained the reputation of the “hookup app.” But don’t be turned off about the app’s stigma, it is possible to find love on Tinder. 

How much does Tinder cost?

Tinder app is free to use, but they do have subscription plans priced at one month, six months, and 12 months. These subscription plans offer more features to help your profile get more attention. Like with most dating apps, Tinder’s free version offers a taste of what the app can do for your dating life. Here’s what you get with the free Tinder app:

  • Up to 100 likes a day
  • One “super like” a day
  • Option to choose 1 profile daily from your top picks

But if you want to maximize your chances of finding a quality match, you may want to consider these subscription apps.

Here’s how the other packages stack up (prices updated September 2025).

SubscriptionPriceFeatures
Tinder Plus1 month: $17.99

6 months: $9.00/month

12 months: $6.00/month
– No ads
– Unlimited likes
– Unlimited rewind (Let’s go back and match with a person if you change your mind.)
– Passport feature: Users can swipe on potential suitors in different destinations around the world no matter where they are.
Tinder Gold1 month: $26.99

6 months: $13.50/month

12 months: $9.00/month
– All the features of Tinder Plus
– See which people already liked you
– You’ll be shown top picks on a daily basis
– Free super likes
– One free boost a month
Tinder Platinum1 month: $35.99

6 months: $18.00/month

12 months: $11.25/month
– All the features of Tinder Plus and Tinder Gold
– Priority Likes (any profile you like gets seen faster by potential matches vs non-subscribers)
– Lets you message suitors before you match
– See likes you’ve sent

What are the pros of using Tinder?

Here are some of the pros of using Tinder:

  • You can tailor the app to fit your needs
  • It has tips of how to be safe yet have fun
  • It offers advice on dating and consent
  • You can verify your profile with a photo test 
  • You can change your geographic location with Tinder Passport

What are the cons of using Tinder?

Here are some cons to using Tinder:

  • You can leave your profile blank
  • Fake profiles 
  • Profiles don’t share basic information like height, education, or religion
  • Hard to filter out promising matches

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Tinder reviews

Men and women often have vastly different experiences in the online dating world, and Tinder is no exception. Check out these reviews from men and women who have used the dating app. 

Tinder reviews from a woman 

Check out this Reddit thread where women weigh in on their Tinder experiences:

Tinder reviews from women on sites like Trustpilot and ConsumerAffairs range from scathing to glowing. 

The following feedback shows the negatives and positives of using the app as a woman. Here’s what they shared:

Pros:

  • Finding love is possible
  • Good matches happen

Cons:

  • Possible shadow banning
  • Scary or boring men
  • Weird comments
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Tinder Trustpilot Review From July 2024-2

Tinder reviews from a man

A similar Reddit thread asks men to weigh in on their Tinder experiences, good and bad. Here’s what they shared:

Pros:

  • Finding a life partner

Cons:

  • Fake profiles
  • Spam notifications

A lot of Tinder reviews from men talk about the large number of fake profiles and spammers who try to contact them, but there are a few success stories sprinkled in:

Man's positive Tinder review about meeting wife.

Tinder Better Business Bureau and Trustpilot reviews

As of September 2025, Tinder has a B rating on the Better Business Bureau and has a 1.1 star rating on Trustpilot, with the majority of reviews expressing frustration over the lack of customer support and the number of fake profiles they encounter.

Tinder BBB Page From February 2025

Tinder reviews on Reddit

Reddit has a whole Tinder channel, including profile reviews (harsh!), feedback on your profile pics, and more. Comb the threads for the good, bad, hilarious and ugly.

Can you delete Tinder?

Deleting Tinder is easy so it’s worth giving it a try to see how it works for you. To delete your account for good, go to settings and tap “delete account.” Tinder will ask you some questions asking why you’re deleting the app, also giving you the option to pause the dating app. With subscriptions, you can cancel through the app and you’ll just have to pay the rest of the month.

Tinder vs. Bumble

Bumble and Tinder work very similarly (after all, it was founded by a former Tinder exec). But on Bumble, women make the first move, while on Tinder, anyone can reach out and message first.

Bumble also provides a lot more upfront information about the profile you’re looking at (such as height, religion, etc.), whereas Tinder doesn’t require users to disclose those details.

Tinder vs. Hinge

Hinge focuses on creating long-term relationships. It encourages users to interact with each other based on prompts that they’re required to fill out as opposed to just photos. Tinder does not offer any prompts and allows users to have free rein to create their profiles.

Tinder vs. eharmony

Another website focused on creating long-term relationships, eharmony matches users based on a compatibility quiz, relying on science to compare you and our matches’ traits to help you get closer to meeting your partner.

While Tinder is for all kinds of dating — serious, casual, marriage-minded, sex — eharmony is solely focused on helping singles find long-term partnerships and marriage.

With Tinder, you’re matching with people based on proximity and have little to no knowledge of your compatibility between matches.

Tinder’s prices are lower than that of eharmony, which is solely focused on long-term relationships, and has a proven success rate in helping singles find marriage and relationships — as well as a lower-than average divorce rate. Read more in our eharmony review.

Bottom line: Is Tinder a good dating site?

It can be! Because Tinder is all about making connections and doesn’t emphasize long-term relationships, it could be a great place to start if you’re new to online dating after a divorce, break up or as a single mom or dad. And once you’re in the groove, you’ll easily be able to weed out profiles to find your perfect match.

Interested in checking out other dating sites and apps for single parents? Here are some dating app reviews:

SingleParentMeetZooskPlenty of Fish
BumbleAdult Friend FinderMatch.com
Seeking ArrangementOKCupid13 internationaldating apps
Dating.comMillionaire MatchThe League
  1. “15 Telling Tinder Statistics [2023]: Users, Profit, and More,” Zippia  https://www.zippia.com/advice/tinder-statistics/
How does Tinder work?

First, users fill out their profile, asking them for basic info (name, age, occupation, sexual orientation). Then, they’ll ask you to upload photos and (if you want) write a blurb about yourself, and include “passions” to share your interests. As for matches, you can go to your settings and filter who you want to see and then start swiping.

How much does Tinder cost?

Tinder app is free to use, but they do have subscription plans priced at one month, six months, and 12 months. These subscription plans offer more features to help your profile get more attention. Like with most dating apps, Tinder’s free version offers a taste of what the app can do.

Is Tinder a good site?

It can be! Because Tinder is all about making connections and doesn’t emphasize long-term relationships, it could be a great place to start if you’re new to online dating after a divorce, break up or as a single mom or dad.

Family therapy is a type of psychological counseling aimed at improving family communication, resolving conflicts, and creating a better understanding between family members.

Family counseling sessions are therapy led by a psychologist, licensed therapist, or clinical social worker, all using a variety of techniques to both understand the situation and provide guidance. Many will have master’s degrees and doctorates, and may also be accredited by the America Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT).

Marriage and family therapists regularly practice short-term therapy with an average of 12 sessions, according to the AAMFT.

At any given time, family therapists are counseling more than 1.8 million people, according to the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. 

Since 1970, the number of marriage and family therapists in the country has grown 50-fold. The U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics notes more than 42,000 family and marriage therapists exist in its most recent data, from 2017. 

Is family counseling a good idea?

Dr. Felicia Pressley, a licensed professional counselor in Maryland, works with families to build and strengthen their bond. She says family counseling is a good idea especially when there are transitions within the family: death, moving, change in schools, etc. 

“Family counseling helps the family to establish or reestablish goals and identify each family member’s role in the family,” she says. “It can also help families to address underlying issues within the family dynamics.”

For children’s behavioral problems, family therapy has been shown to be effective, demonstrated by a review of more than 20 analyses of systemic family therapy interventions. The review showed that on average, families who visited a counselor fared 71% better after therapy and at follow up than their peers in control groups. 

In both children and adults, systemic therapy has been shown to be effective in helping with more than 72 scenarios, according to a report examining studies by The Association for Family Therapy and Systemic Practice. The report reviewed dozens of studies, concluding that family and couples therapy have a positive effect on mood disorders, eating disorders, problems with couple relationships, substance abuse, depression, and family strife, among many others. 

Yes, family counseling could be a good idea for you and your kids. Continue reading why.

What does family counseling do?

What are the goals of family therapy?

What are the types of family counseling?

What are the advantages and disadvantages of family therapy?

When should you seek family therapy?

What questions should I ask my family therapist?

Seeking family counseling near me? Consider online options instead

What does family counseling do?

Heidi McBain, a licensed marriage and family therapist based in Texas, says family therapy can help you more clearly see your family roles and patterns.

“This new insight can help you intentionally do things differently so you don’t just continue to fall into the same dysfunctional patterns over and over again,” McBain says.

The cracks in family relationships can cause distress, rising tensions, and conflict. Sometimes the challenges arise from a family member in an intense situation, such as substance abuse, financial crisis, divorce, or mental health problems. In family therapy, a counselor will become familiar with any existing patterns or pre-established systems within a family, not focusing on only one person’s role. They will then provide thoughts to help family members understand how they’ve been functioning and offer ideas to modify behaviors or patterns. 

If your family is walking through some challenges such as:

  • Out-of-control child behavior
  • Recovering from the trauma of a serious illness
  • Emotional overload from anxiety
  • Sexual abuse
  • Grief
  • Living through a divorce
  • Sense that you or your co-parent has a toxic parenting style

You may find yourselves in a pattern that’s leaving you frustrated and angry.  Family therapy can help you pinpoint specific causes and challenges and clearly lay out positive and negative ways you’re dealing with it — as individuals and as a group.

In family counseling, you can collectively learn new ways to interact with each other and overcome unhealthy patterns. Together you can set goals and work to achieve them.

In family counseling sessions, a therapist can help a family manage:

  • Mental illness
  • Poor communication
  • Ongoing relationship frustrations
  • Children struggling to stay focused in school
  • Problems with children’s social interactions
  • Substance abuse effects
  • Trauma
  • Child outbursts
  • Parenting disagreements
  • Chronic health problems
  • Child and teenage behaviors
  • Tension between family generations
  • Navigating a blended family
  • Depression
  • Emotional disorders
  • Grief and loss
  • Eating disorders
  • Emotional abuse or violence
  • Self-harm

Family relationships are an important part of psychological health, and help to shape your well-being throughout your life, according to a study, which defines well-being as impacting happiness, physical health, satisfaction with life, and good mental health. Marriages of high quality are associated with lower levels of stress and depression, according to a study published in the Annals of Behavioral Medicine. 

What are the goals of family therapy?

Amy Armstrong, a family therapist and co-parent coach based in Columbus, Ohio, says there are three main reasons families typically seek therapy: 

  • The parents believe they have tried everything to impact their child’s behavior and are not seeing an improvement. 
  • There is significant impairment in basic functioning, such as eating, sleeping, succeeding in school or work, engaging with others outside of the home, or participating in normal activities.
  • When emotional issues leave family members feeling depressed, anxious, angry, frustrated, or sad and new skills are needed to help everyone cope and feel better. 

“Ideally, each family member can express what changes to the family functioning would be the most meaningful to them,” Armstrong says.

Families going to a counselor can have many different types of goals, including:

  • Improved communication
  • Reduced conflict
  • Working through financial challenges
  • Develop healthy boundaries
  • Better problem solving
  • Better two-way empathy
  • Reduced tension and frustration

Other goals can be even more specific, such as navigating divorce, managing addiction as a family, or supporting a teenager struggling with self-harm or depression. In some cases, you might seek out counseling because of challenges woven throughout your family, but in other cases, it may be an issue one person is facing. 

What are the types of family counseling?

Family counselors will use a few different types of therapy approaches, depending on the family’s goals and reasons for pursuing family therapy.

These types of therapy are explained below, per the American Psychological Association website.

Supportive family therapy

According to online therapy provider Thriveworks, this is a method to help each person express their feelings surrounding a problem that affects the family. The goal of this method is to provide a safe and open environment, so everyone can honestly discuss issues. The therapist then offers practical tactics to use to work through the issue at hand.

Cognitive-behavioral therapy

CBT involves the counselor supporting a change in the ways family members think or behave in certain scenarios. By bringing awareness to these patterns, family members can then change their thoughts and behaviors.

Transgenerational therapy

Transgenerational therapy addresses how each family member interacts with one another across multiple generations. These observations will help the therapist understand the core issues that are challenging the group right now, as well as future tensions that may arise.

Structural family therapy

This technique evaluates the dynamics of the family, including relationships, patterns, and behaviors during each session. Counselors can examine the subsets within the family system, such as relationships between parents and siblings, or siblings with each other. The evaluation helps guide the advice offered by the therapist.

Systemic family therapy

Systemic family therapy focuses on the complex relationship patterns within the family. The counselor will work to identify pervasive ideas and attitudes shown on behalf of the family, which will help them uncover the underlying issues within the family. Then, the therapist will work to shift attitudes and relationships to a more beneficial and more realistic place.

Psychodynamic ideas in therapy

This theory looks to reveal an individual family member’s subconscious. The counselor will work to reduce problems cropping up by identifying these underlying issues, and helping families work through their difficulties based on the real sources of the problems.

Functional family therapy

Functional Family Therapy is an intensive, short-term intervention/prevention program of in-home family counseling that is often used to refer 11 to 18-year-olds by juvenile justice programs. According to the Functional Family Therapy website, FFT has been used since the 1970s, and is designed to address status-offending issues like curfew violations, running away, and truancy. FFT assesses family dynamics that contribute to the teen’s behavior, addresses strained family communication, improves parenting skills, and aims to change behavior, relationships and long-term outcomes.

Group therapy approaches

Group therapy can complement family counseling by offering a structured environment where members learn interpersonal skills, emotional regulation, and healthy communication. These sessions often include guided exercises and conflict resolution in group therapy that help individuals practice managing tension and responding more constructively to family stressors.

What are the advantages of family therapy?

Attending family therapy sessions can help you explore the different roles each family member fulfills, as well as behavior patterns and issues that may be contributing to conflict or poor communication.

A key result of family counseling is to learn the right tools to work through issues you may be facing.

In family therapy sessions, the counselor will work to help the family identify their strengths — of both individuals and the family unit as a whole — such as how they care for each other, as well as weaknesses that can be improved upon, such as difficulty trusting each other.

Family therapy sessions can help you work through situations causing stress, grief, and anger.

What are the disadvantages of family therapy?

With several individuals attending sessions, it may not always be a low-cost option.

Sometimes, a family approach may come at the cost of an individual’s needs, as “for the good of the whole” advice may not provide the right path for every individual, depending on the scenario, according to a study reported on in Psychology Today. Confidentiality is lost in a family session as well, according to the study, which may be concerning to attendees. 

When should you seek family therapy?

It is also likely to result in finding coping skills you can use individually and as a group to bring you closer together and lessen the frustrations and challenges you’re facing, the clinic shares. 

If you’re finding communication in your family at a standstill, tensions rising, frustrations boiling, or intense issues getting worse instead of better, it may be wise to seek out family therapy. 

What questions should I ask my family therapist?

Before you begin in family therapy sessions, you can ask your therapist several questions to help you better understand the process and their qualifications:

  • What is your education and training background?
  • Are you licensed to provide therapy in your state?
  • What is your experience with my family’s specific challenges?
  • Are you available during emergencies or on short notice?
  • How long is each session?
  • How much does each session cost, and are we covered by insurance?
  • What is their policy for canceled sessions?

Seeking family counseling near me? Consider online options instead

The ease and convenience of scheduling a therapy appointment online can benefit a family with schedules hard to align.

It can also be more convenient as you can use almost any device to video chat, call, or text with a therapist. Studies find that online therapy can be just as effective as in-person therapy.

Read my own personal experience with the online therapy platform in our BetterHelp review.

Or, learn about other top online therapy sites.

Is family counseling a good idea?

Dr. Felicia Pressley, a licensed professional counselor in Maryland, works with families to build and strengthen their bond. She says family counseling is a good idea especially when there are transitions within the family: death, moving, change in schools, etc.

What does family counseling do?

Heidi McBain, a licensed marriage and family therapist based in Texas, says family therapy can help you more clearly see your family roles and patterns.

What are the goals of family therapy?

Amy Armstrong, a family therapist and co-parent coach based in Columbus, Ohio, says there are three main reasons families typically seek therapy: 1) The parents believe they have tried everything to impact their child’s behavior and are not seeing an improvement. 2) There is significant impairment in basic functioning, such as eating, sleeping, succeeding in school or work, engaging with others outside of the home, or participating in normal activities. 3) When emotional issues leave family members feeling depressed, anxious, angry, frustrated, or sad and new skills are needed to help everyone cope and feel better.

If you’re a freelancer or entrepreneur, or thinking about becoming one, it’s vital to protect yourself and your business.

Here are the top disability insurance providers for self-employed workers:

  • Northwestern Mutual
  • Guardian
  • Mutual of Omaha
  • Assurity
  • Breeze

Which is the best?

Quick answer: You need disability insurance as well as life insurance. Those who do not have disability insurance through a job, including the self-employed, can find individual coverage through reputable companies for an affordable price. Breeze disability insurance plans start at $9/month for people aged 18 to 60 years old, with monthly benefits ranging from $500 to $20,000.

In the market for life insurance? Bestow’s rate is as low as $10/month and policies up to $1.5 million, with guaranteed no medical or lab exam. Read our Bestow review.

Here’s what you need to know about disability insurance for the self-employed and Breeze insurance:

What is Breeze?

What disability insurance Breeze offers

How much a Breeze disability insurance policy cost

How Breeze works

Pros and cons of Breeze insurance

Breeze insurance reviews

Disability insurance for self-employed individuals

Common questions about disability insurance

Bottom line: Is disability insurance worth it?

What is Breeze?

Breeze is an insurtech start-up that specializes in long-term disability insurance. Founded in 2019, it is underwritten by Assurity Life Insurance Company, which has been in business for more than 125 years and has an “excellent” rating from A.M. Best.

Currently, Breeze is the only insurance company offering a 100% online application process. Thanks to fully automated underwriting, Breeze can provide instant quotes and set you up with a long-term disability insurance policy in as little as 15 minutes from start to finish. You probably won’t even need to take time out from your workday for a doctor’s exam or blood work.

Bonus: If your income is under $4,000 per month, you don’t have to provide any proof of earnings. Those making more than $4,000 monthly have to provide just a pay stub or tax return.

Here are a few of the free features in every Breeze policy:

  • Presumptive disability: In the case of loss of eyesight, hearing, speech or limbs, there’s no elimination period – benefits begin immediately.
  • Partial disability: If you return to work part-time after full disability, you’ll get a monthly benefit for up to six more months.
  • Home modification: This is a benefit for those who have to retrofit your home to accommodate a disability.
  • Survivor benefit: If you die after receiving payments for at least 12 months, Breeze pays a lump sum equal to six times the monthly benefit.

Based on the information you provide, Breeze will give you personalized options (good, better, best) that you can customize. For example, you can add options like a non-cancelable policy or “guaranteed insurability,” which lets you buy more coverage to add to your base policy monthly benefit. 

What disability insurance Breeze offers

Breeze long-term disability terms

Breeze primarily offers long-term disability insurance coverage. While 10-year terms are the most common, Breeze does offer a variety of other terms as well:

  • 1-year term
  • 2-year term
  • 5-year term
  • 10-year term
  • To age 65
  • To Age 67

For most individuals, a 10-year term will offer an appropriate level of coverage, but other term lengths have their own role to play. 

For example, if you have just 1, 2, or 5 years until you will be eligible for retirement benefits, then those shorter terms can help you protect your ability to bring in money during those final years. Likewise, if you are particularly risk-averse, longer terms that cover you until you are full retirement age (65 or 67 years old, depending on when you were born), then those policies can also be a good fit.

Breeze long-term disability optional riders

Breeze also offers a number of optional riders that you can add to your policy in order to account for a variety of possible scenarios. While the addition of riders will increase your total cost, they can often be a good idea. The optional riders offered by Breeze include:

  • Automatic Benefit Increase Rider: Each year you maintain your coverage, your base monthly benefit will increase by 5% (of the original amount) until the monthly benefit has increased to double the original amount.
  • Guaranteed Insurability Rider: This rider gives you the option to increase your monthly benefit by purchasing additional coverage at a later date if your salary increases, essentially locking in your ability to purchase disability insurance. These increases won’t require evidence of insurability.
  • Own Occupation Rider: Own occupation insurance provides disability insurance in the event that you become disabled and can no longer work in the occupation you held before becoming disabled—even if you can technically work in a different occupation. The addition of this rider extends the own occupation period of your policy from two years through the full term.
  • Residual Disability Benefit Rider: This rider provides a residual disability monthly payment in the event you become residually disabled and the elimination period has been satisfied.
  • Supplemental DI Rider: This rider provides additional insurance on top of the monthly benefit provided by social insurance benefits in the event you are totally disabled. 

Breeze Critical Illness Insurance 

In addition to long-term disability insurance, Breeze also provides critical illness insurance. This is insurance that is specifically designed to pay you a cash benefit if you become afflicted by a serious illness that impacts your ability to work.

Conditions covered by Breeze’s critical illness insurance policies include:

  • Heart attack
  • Major Organ Transplant
  • Angioplasty
  • Stroke
  • Paralysis
  • Coma
  • Kidney failure
  • Coronary artery bypass surgery
  • Advanced Alzheimer’s disease 
  • Cancer (invasive and non-invasive)

If the event that you are afflicted by a covered condition, you will receive a lump-sum cash payment that you can either use to cover you medical expenses, regular monthly expenses, or other things.  

How much a Breeze disability insurance policy cost

Plans start as low as $9 per month for people aged 18-60 years old. Monthly benefits range from a low of $500 to a high of $20,000.

Ultimately, the cost of your monthly premium will depend on a number of factors, including:

  • Your age and health at the time of application
  • Your occupation
  • The coverage amount (monthly benefit) you choose
  • The benefit period or term you select
  • The elimination period/waiting period you choose
  • Whether or not you add any additional optional riders

How Breeze works

Getting an initial quote through Breeze is 100% online and takes less than 5 minutes from start to finish.

To get your initial quote, provide:

  • Birthdate
  • Gender
  • Work status (whether you are an employee, a business owner, or an independent contractor)
  • Type of work (professional, technical, light labor, labor)
  • How many hours you work per week
  • Net annual income (income minus taxes, work-related expenses, pre-tax retirement contributions, etc.)
  • Zip code
  • Whether or not you use nicotine
  • Whether you are looking to protect your future, purchase coverage during maternity leave, or are looking for financial assistance because you are currently disabled

You’ll then receive three different recommended coverage options, designed to fit within your budget. You can customize these options easily by adjusting the term length, coverage amounts, elimination/waiting period, and adding optional riders. 

If you’d like to proceed, just click “Apply Now” to begin the full application. You’ll be asked questions about whether or not you have ever:

  • Filed for bankruptcy
  • Had a heart attack or stroke (in last 5 years)
  • Been diagnosed with cancer (in last 5 years)
  • Used cocaine, heroin, or other illegal drugs (in last 5 years)
  • Been charged or convicted of a felony (in past 10 years)
  • Are currently on probation
  • Been diagnosed or treated with diabetes (in past year)
  • Ever been diagnosed with AIDs/HIV-related conditions

You will then create an account by providing your name, email address, phone number, and physical address. At this point, you’ll need to confirm your previous answers, and provide some additional details about your:

  • Employment status
  • Legal documents (driver’s license, Social Security Number)
  • Lifestyle
  • General health & health history

You will also need to consent to Breeze obtaining relevant information from third parties (such as health information, driving records, credit history, etc.).  

Upon completion of these questions, if you qualify for coverage Breeze will provide you with a final quote.

Pros and cons of Breeze insurance

Pros of Breeze

  • Breeze’s application process is entirely online
  • Breeze rarely requires medical examinations
  • It takes less than 5 minutes to complete the initial application and get a variety of quotes
  • Policies are extremely affordable, starting at just $9 per month 
  • A variety of term lengths (1-, 2-, 5-, 10-year, etc.) allow you to choose the right policy for your needs
  • Additional riders (automatic benefit increase, guaranteed insurability, own occupation, residual disability benefit, supplemental DI) give you even more customization options
  • Breeze offers critical illness insurance coverage in addition to long-term disability insurance, providing even more coverage options

Cons of Breeze

  • Breeze does not offer short-term disability coverage
  • If you are denied coverage during the application process, you will not immediately receive an explanation why. That being said, you will receive a letter in a number of weeks with more details about Breeze’s decision. 

Breeze insurance reviews

Breeze unfortunately does not currently have a profile with the BBB. That being said, Breeze does have a profile on Trustpilot, where it maintains an average rating of 4.5 out of 5 stars based on more than 45 reviews. 

Most reviews of Breeze on Trustpilot are very positive. Below are a number of example positive reviews:

For comparison, below is a screenshot of the single negative review which was left (along with Breeze’s response):

Disability insurance for self-employed individuals

Short-term disability insurance, which is generally available through an employer, provides benefits for up to one year after a short “elimination” (waiting) period.

Long-term disability insurance may also be offered through an employer, but can easily be purchased by individuals. It has a longer elimination period (generally 30 to 90 days), but continues to pay out until the disability ends or the insured reaches retirement age.

The benefits will depend on the kind of insurance you buy. For example, some policies will pay if you can’t work in your current occupation, while others will pay only if you can’t work in any job you’re qualified to do. It’s essential to compare apples to apples when researching the cost of disability insurance.

Still have a day job but looking at self-employment? Consider buying long-term disability insurance now, so you can take it with you when you segue into solopreneur-ing. Specify a non-cancelable, guaranteed-renewable policy. That way, your coverage will continue as long as you make your payments.

If you’re already self-employed, look at getting disability insurance right away. As noted, you’ll likely get the lowest premiums when you’re young. For example, Breeze offers policies beginning at just $9 per month, and you can apply online in minutes.

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How does disability insurance work for individuals who are self-employed?

If illness or injury strikes, you can file a claim for disability benefits with supporting documents from your doctor. After the “elimination” (waiting) period ends, your monthly payments begin.

Benefits are paid for the number of years specified in the policy; in some cases, that could mean until you reach full retirement age. Some policies also pay for related expenses, such as home modification (e.g., a wheelchair ramp) or vocational rehabilitation.  

When you’re cleared to go back to work, you notify the insurance company to end the payments. Some policies provide partial benefits if you go back to work part-time, or if you can work only in a different kind of job.

How much disability insurance do I need as a self-employed individual?

As noted, a typical policy covers as much as 60% of your current income, up to a cap set by the company. Before choosing your benefit level it’s important to add up all essential expenses. (If you’ve already got a budget plan in place, you’ll know exactly how much it costs to support your lifestyle.)

The earlier you buy the policy, the less it will cost. That’s because the older we get, the more likely we are to become sick or injured. For example, suppose in your late 20s you’re treated for a repetitive strain injury. When you apply for disability insurance at 35, RSI might be excluded from coverage.

Note: When you buy your own disability insurance policy, any benefits paid out are not taxed. However, benefits from an employer-paid policy are subject to income tax.

How much does disability insurance cost for individuals who are self-employed?

Generally speaking, a policy will run between 1% to 3% of your salary.

If you are self employed, disability coverage is based on your income as reported on the past two years of your tax returns. For example, for a sole proprietor, use your 1040 and Schedule C. For an S Corp, your 1040, W2 and Schedule E are used.

If you have been self-employed for less than two years, the disability insurer will ask for recent W2s or other documents.

Unlike many health insurance premiums, disability insurance premiums are not tax-deductible. However, any benefits paid through an individual disability insurance plan are tax-free.

How do I get disability insurance?

Disability insurance for the self-employed is available through traditional insurance companies, independent brokers, unions and “insurtech” companies like Breeze.

Look for a company with a superior financial rating. Agencies like Moody’s and A.M. Best rate insurance companies; just like in school, a grade with an “A” in it indicates the better-performing companies.

In most cases you’ll need to show two years’ worth of tax paperwork to prove you earn a living as a self-employed person. You’ll also need to provide a family medical history and both personal and professional information.

Some level of medical examination, including blood tests, is generally necessary. (But not always; Breeze rarely requires an exam.) You’ll probably need to authorize the release of medical records and, in some cases, your driving record and credit report. Breeze only uses social security numbers to verify identity — not qualify you for coverage. 

Google the phrase “disability insurance for the self-employed” and you’ll find traditional insurance companies offering to match you with agents in your city. At that point you’d go through the process noted above.

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Common questions about disability insurance

What is disability insurance? 

Disability insurance is just what it sounds like: a policy meant to replace a portion of your income if illness or injury leaves you unable to work. Each insurance company has its own limits, but typically disability insurance covers up to 60% of your pre-tax salary.

Disability insurance is part of your overall financial health. Also make sure you are:

  1. Paying off debt.
  2. Have a $1,000+ emergency fund, and a basic investing strategy.
  3. Get life insurance.
  4. Have home or renters insurance.

Disability insurance is a common workplace benefit, often partially or completely paid for by the employer. But disability insurance for the self-employed is a different matter, because there’s no employer to arrange it.

No one likes to think about becoming disabled. Yet according to the Social Security Administration, a little more than 25% of today’s 20-year-old workers will become disabled before retirement.

Workers’ Compensation only covers injuries and illnesses that are directly caused by the workplace. Social Security Disability Insurance is another benefit source, but only about 1 in 3 applicants qualify, the average processing time is more than 18 months, and the average SSDI benefit is $1,197 per month.

What does disability insurance cover?

The insurance covers illness, injury and other conditions (such as pregnancy) that keep you out of the workforce. According to data collected by the nonprofit Council for Disability Awareness, the top five reasons for long-term disability claims are:

  1. Musculoskeletal disorders (29%)
  2. Cancer (15%)
  3. Pregnancy (9.4%)
  4. Mental health issues, such as depression and anxiety (9.1%)
  5. Injuries such as sprains, fractures, and strains of muscles and ligaments (9%)

What is not covered by disability insurance?

Typically, any injury or illness originating in these situations is not covered by disability insurance:

  • Fighting in a war.
  • While committing a crime, participating in a riot, or while in jail.
  • Self-inflicted or intentional injury to yourself.

Is disability insurance based on income?

Yes, you will need to prove your most recent income to qualify for any sum of disability insurance.

The monthly benefit payout amount should be about 60% of your take-home pay. You may be able to purchase more disability insurance to cover increases in the cost of living.

Bottom line: Is disability insurance worth it? Is Breeze a good insurance company?

Disability insurance for the self-employed is not just worth it – it’s crucial. When self-employed workers can’t bring in money, they can’t get paid. The business you worked so hard to build could be heavily affected – or maybe even collapse – if you are unable to work. Having disability insurance could mean the difference between financial survival and financial disaster.

If you’re in the market for disability insurance for the self-employed, Breeze is the fastest and easiest way to do it. Within a quarter of an hour you can obtain coverage that provides peace of mind and lets you get back to the business of growing your business.

What is Breeze?

Breeze is an insurtech start-up that specializes in long-term disability insurance. Founded in 2019, it is underwritten by Assurity Life Insurance Company, which has been in business for more than 125 years and has an “excellent” rating from A.M. Best.

How does disability insurance work for individuals who are self-employed?

If illness or injury strikes, you can file a claim for disability benefits with supporting documents from your doctor. After the “elimination” (waiting) period ends, your monthly payments begin. Benefits are paid for the number of years specified in the policy.

How much disability insurance do I need as a self-employed individual?

As noted, a typical policy covers as much as 60% of your current income, up to a cap set by the company. Before choosing your benefit level it’s important to add up all essential expenses.

It’s over. You’re not searching for signs that your husband or wife wants a divorce. They are ready, and want a divorce.

Here is what you need to know:

What to do when your spouse says they are done

What to do when a husband wants a divorce and you don’t

Top things to keep in mind when divorcing:

1. Aim for is a quick divorce.

2. Go for 50/50 parenting schedules. Get examples of 50/50 schedules here.

3. Make sure you have the most overlooked item in a divorce settlement agreement: insurance.

4. Take your jewelry and consider selling online for cash.

What to do when your wife or husband says they are done and want a divorce

If your husband or wife clearly says they want a divorce, you have two options:

  1. Try to change their mind, or
  2. Accept that the marriage is over, and make plans to move forward with a divorce, and the rest of your life.

These are scary times. Do not pretend they will change their mind or get over it. it is time to take action.

Many unhappy couples seek out therapy, both individually and together, to work through their troubles. Even if you have both accepted that the relationship is over, a skilled therapist can be useful in defusing the anger, and helping you move forward in an amicable way, so that negotiations around the children and money are less explosive, and you can focus on how to manage co-parenting, as well as best practices for helping your kids move through this difficult period.

“My wife wants a divorce.”

If your wife wants a divorce, keep in mind that the old model in which women keep kids the majority of time, and dads see kids on weekends and pay child support (and possibly alimony) still stands. Call an attorney or mediator now. Take this seriously.

Individuals are encouraged to get in touch with North Metro Litigators right away to learn about the next steps and protect their parental rights during proceedings. Securing legal counsel early ensures that crucial evidence is preserved and fair custody arrangements are advocated for effectively.

Case study of what not to do: I recently heard from a dad who started to go through a garden-variety separation when his wife relocated with their baby from their home in Seattle to live near her family in Alabama.

The dad was desperate to reason with her and keep the marriage together, and instead of filing for divorce and custody in Washington, he followed her to Alabama to attempt to reason with her. By doing so, the jurisdiction for the case moved to Alabama where his chances of getting a fair time-sharing arrangement were far less than Seattle.

“My husband wants a divorce.”

One pitfall women fall into is failing to take control over their finances during the marriage, while statistically earning less than their husbands — or not working at all. 

If your husband says he wants a divorce, or you suspect he wants a divorce, now is the time to shore up all your financial accounts and understand how marital property is divided after divorce. Locate the mortgage, any bank, checking, savings or  investment accounts, understand where your husband’s pension accounts are located and what your credit score is. Now is the time to get your own credit card in your own name, your own bank accounts, and focus on increasing your income. 

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What to do when a husband wants a divorce — and you don’t

If you don’t already have a therapist you like, asking friends for a local referral is helpful. Your religious leader, or even a trusted mutual friend can help, too. Online therapy platforms are affordable, convenient and make it easy to switch if you are not happy with your counselor.

BetterHelp offers live sessions starting at $65/week, including unlimited texting, with financial aid available.

Otherwise, you likely need to accept that this is happening, focus on your finances, a healthy co-parenting plan and a vision for your future.

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How do I change my husband’s mind about divorce?

First, you probably can’t change your husband (or wife’s) mind once they decide to move on.

However, online couples therapy offers the unique ability to communicate in a three-way call, video or text or email exchange with a certified and licensed therapist — without being in the same room as your soon-to-be ex. BetterHelp’s database of thousands of therapists serve individuals, couples and teens. Better Business Bureau A+ rating.

Regardless of whether you choose to fight to keep the marriage together, agree to separate and divorce, or are scared out of your mind about the future … call a lawyer. Call a few family lawyers near you. Most attorneys will take your call for free, and answer your questions without charge. This is not only a good way to get a sense of who you may hire to help with a divorce, but also whether you need a lawyer at all. But most importantly, a lawyer will answer your questions and help you understand what your life post-divorce will look like, taking much of the fear and uncertainty out of what is one of the most stressful situations you will face in your life.

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As you speak with attorneys, as well as friends who have gone through divorces of their own, consider what type of divorce is right for you. Do you really need to each have your own litigator, and drag the issue out in court? Or would a mediated divorce, in which the two of you agree to work through the divorce details with a mediator, be a better fit? Increasingly, couples also turn to collaborative divorce, in which each spouse hires an attorney, and all four parties sign a contract agreeing to settle out of court.

Or, could you agree to an uncontested divorce, in which you both work out your own agreement and file yourself? Even in the most amicable cases, it is advised to pay an attorney to look over your documents to make sure that you are both protected, and that the papers are filed according to your state’s rules (so they are not rejected and you have to re-do them).

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There are several quality online divorce apps. Here is what you need to know about filing divorce online, and our recommendations for online divorce services.

Regardless of your path, start to educate yourself now about the divorce process, how property is divided in divorce, why shared parenting is usually best for kids, and how you can best move forward for a happy, healthy, independent life after.

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How do I change my husband’s mind about divorce?

First, you probably can’t change your husband (or wife’s) mind once they decide to move on. However, you could communicate with a licensed therapist. Whether you choose to fight to keep the marriage together or agree to separate and divorce, call a lawyer.

Leaving a marriage can be heart-wrenching. This post highlights the pros and cons of divorce, and factors to consider when deciding to leave a marriage: Should I get divorced?

If you are ready to leave your husband or wife, but not sure where to start, keep reading.

Top things to keep in mind when divorcing:

1. Aim for is a quick divorce.

2. Go for 50/50 parenting schedules. Get examples of 50/50 schedules here.

3. Make sure you have the most overlooked item in a divorce settlement agreement: insurance.

4. Take your jewelry and consider selling online for cash.

Thinking about leaving your husband or wife? Here’s what you should know:

How to leave your husband or wife

Prepare for divorce — How do I prepare to leave my husband or wife?

Thinking about leaving your husband or wife?

“I want a divorce.” How to ask for a divorce peacefully when you are ready to file

“I want my husband to leave me.” How to make your husband want to leave you

When should I leave my husband or wife?

How to leave your husband or wife

If you have already explored these feelings deeply — and are not just pissed off in the moment — call a divorce attorney. Many will provide a free phone consultation, and give you a snapshot of what you can expect your life to look like post-divorce in terms of money and child time-sharing. They will also give you a sense of what your divorce options are — and whether this will be a quick, low-conflict process, or how much stress and expense you may spend to get what you want.

Many people change their minds or strategy after these calls (you can speak to more than one attorney, too — which is a good idea).

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The vast majority of couples have an uncontested, amicable and no-fault divorce, which is good news: You likely can divorce affordably and quickly by filing your own divorce papers. Find divorce papers in your state now:

Prepare for divorce — How do I prepare to leave my husband or wife?

Whether you are initiating the breakup, have been served divorce papers, worried your husband or wife is ready to file for divorce, or have mutually agreed to a separation, it is important to prepare yourself mentally and financially.

Financially, be sure to keep an eye on your credit score, shore up cash in accounts in your own name, manage your debt, find a budget on which you can live on one income, and build your career.

The vast majority, an estimated 90% of divorces, are settled outside of a court. Often couples work with their own attorneys, sometimes for months, to hash out the details of custody, dividing assets, any ongoing payments like alimony and child support, and more. You can save tens of thousands of dollars by working out these details without attorneys, or with the help of a single, low-cost mediator. There are lots of free online resources.

You can While the world tells you that single motherhood is the worst thing that can happen to women, many of us find it liberating and empowering — whether for a short time or the rest of our lives. Read more about my experience, as well as dozens of other single moms in 26 reasons single motherhood is AWESOME.

Part of this experience is the ability to date in new and exciting ways — and have sex with any other consenting adult!

Moms also report the freedom that comes with purging and selling old items (his ugly-ass furniture, sell the engagement ring for $$,) decorating and owning a home all of your own, and keeping your house as tidy or messy as you like.

Also, start preparing yourself for what it will look like to co-parent with your soon-to-be-ex. Starting off the divorce process with integrity, a sense of fairness and peace establishes a precedent for positive, healthy co-parenting for the rest of your life — which is good for all parties involved. Start now with a co-parenting app.

Thinking about leaving your husband or wife?

One of the most important tools you have at your disposal when going through a divorce is your support network. Perhaps this is a fantastic group of friends and family, a support group, therapist or another resource, you need people who get and love you — and are positive and productive. BetterHelp is our No. 1 pick finding a therapist online.

My closed Facebook group Millionaire Single Moms understands what you are going through and will be a great sounding board and source of advice. Divorce is consistently ranked as one of the most stressful life events, but remember that it is passing, and life will get better (and then likely get worse at some point, but that is for another blog post!).

From my popular post, After divorce, you get a one-year pass to be a hot mess:

You get a year. A free pass for 12 months to be a freaky weirdo. Drink too much after the kids go to bed. Smoke a few cigarettes at break time with your colleagues. Let the house go, let the dishes pile up in the sink. Hell, might as well preemptively cancel the gym memberships, because you’re not going. Be stinky and oily, and let your pubes hang out of your swimsuit on a public beach in the Midwest. Sleep with a bunch of completely inappropriate people and wear things that no one at your age with your body should ever even think about wearing in public. Stay up all night stalking your college boyfriend on Facebook.

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How to prepare: What should I do before filing for divorce?

The basics of preparing for a divorce:

  1. Shore up your finances: Get your own bank account, credit card, and make sure your car is in your own name. That said, don’t try to do anything sneaky — it will catch up with you.
  2. Get an idea of what kind of money you will have after divorce, and what you can afford. DO NOT blow any sum of extra cash right now. Save and live frugally.
  3. Consult with an attorney. Assuming this will be a low-conflict divorce, pay for some solid advice about the basics of an amicable divorce in your area.
  4. Shore up your emotional resources. Find a therapist for yourself and your kids, and tell your closest family and friends that you could use their love at this time.

How do you secretly prepare for a divorce?

Secretly getting ready to divorce is not always about conniving, cheating jerks. It can also be a matter of safety — or life.

What to do when your husband or wife says they’re done

How should a woman prepare for a divorce?

This story is from New York City divorce attorney Morghan Richardson:

“I know an amazing mother of four children.  She is on her second marriage and this time, the marriage is extremely successful.  She and her caring, supportive husband are both school teachers.  They have two-year-old twins and a house with – literally – a white-picket fence around it.  It wasn’t always this way.

I’ll call this woman Anne.

Anne’s ex-husband was an obsessive, controlling and verbally abusive police officer. He drank. He cheated. And when Anne protested, he threatened to use his job to take custody of their preschool-aged kids and make her life a living hell. He also threatened to use his position as the sole bread-winner to hire the best lawyer and steam-roll over her in court. Yet, rather than feeling trapped and overwhelmed, Anne seized control of the situation – by taking control of her finances.

But not in the way you might think.

This woman didn’t earn the family’s income or even oversee much of the bill payment. Yet for three years she took charge: Unbeknownst to her husband, Anne set up a savings account and had the bank send the statements to a trusted friend. Then she budgeted everything: She figured out how to trim the cost of the groceries and then pocket the difference she saved – even making excuses for needing extra milk during the week. Tiny changes like switching from brand-name to generic products generated pocket change added up. Anne got creative with white lies about losing one of the kids’ sneakers and needing to replace them, then returning the extra pair for cash.  Gifts given to the kids were returned unnoticed or exchanged for less-expensive toys – then she’d save the difference (particularly when the kids were younger and didn’t notice).

During these three years Anne also collected copies of his bank statements, tax returns and credit card bills – proving how much he earned and how much he spent on excessive drinking and other women. She collected cell phone bills and kept records of his drunken and abusive episodes.  Finally, when she’d saved about $5,000, she hired a divorce lawyer. Then – documents in hand — she dropped the divorce bomb in her husband’s lap, demanded that he move out and give her the house and the kids. She also told him that unless he got his drinking under control, she would seek supervised visits from the court. She also received his financial support until she could get a job and start earning her own living.

While the husband was trapped by his own bad behavior, Anne’s patience and perseverance set her free to make a better life for herself – and her kids.”

While that is a cautionary tale of the extreme, for most women, especially those who earn less than their husbands or are otherwise financially dependent on them, here is my advice:

  • Focus on building your career and financial independence. You may be entitled to child support or alimony, but those can disappear at any time, will create co-parenting conflict, and keep you tied to a man from whom you now must move on from.
  • Hold off on dating for a minute. No need to wait a whole year, but do yourself a favor and don’t jump into a relationship yet.

“I want a divorce.” How to ask for a divorce peacefully when you are ready to file

If you are in an abusive relationship, then plan ahead, secure a new home, and in the same day do the following:

  • Move out
  • Separate yourself from any shared banking and investment accounts
  • Have your attorney send a letter that you intend to file for divorce.

I’m scared to tell my husband I want a divorce.

It is totally normal to tell your husband or wife you want a divorce. This is what you risk:

  • Hurting your husband
  • A big fight
  • Violence
  • A divorce means you will be poorer than you are now
  • You will be lonely
  • Your kids will be hurt
  • You may lose friends and contact with loved ones
  • You may have to move from a home and community you love
  • You may feel guilty

Or, if you are in an abusive situation and afraid for your, or your children’s safety, then visit the National Domestic Violence Hotline by calling 800-799-7233.

How do I tell my husband I don’t love him anymore and want a divorce?

Some people ask: How do I politely ask for a divorce?

Polite is not the goal. If your husband is a reasonable person, sit down with him, face-to-face, at home. Be kind, but straight-forward. “I appreciate these years together, but I don’t love you anymore and I want a divorce.”

Clarity is kindness!

What happens if one spouse doesn’t want a divorce? How to tell your husband you want a divorce when he doesn’t?

Again, assuming he is a reasonable person, it is important to be kind, straight-forward and honest. Don’t lend any false hope or make promises you cannot keep, like “we can still be friends,” etc. However, this is a trauma, and expect that he will be very mad, and perhaps a little crazy. Most people get at least a little unreasonable when their lives fall apart — especially if they feel they have no control over the matter.

If he doesn’t want the divorce, and he is not a reasonable or nice person, then you need to protect yourself and your kids first. Get a good lawyer, make sure you have your own money, in your own name, that he cannot access, and prepare to tap into your deepest reservoirs of strength.

“I want my husband to leave me.” How to make your husband want to leave you

There are lots of reasons why you may prefer your spouse initiate a divorce that you yourself want, or perhaps you have discussed together. These include:

  • Guilt. He’s a good guy and you have no major reason to want to divorce him, and worry that your kids and loved ones will fault you for a breakup.
  • You believe, probably erroneously, that the spouse who initiates the divorce has less leverage when it comes to money and child custody.
  • You can’t make the hard decision, so hope someone else will make it for you.

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How can I get my husband to want a divorce?

Lots of ways to get a lover to leave you, or at least agree to a divorce, and here are a few that may be effective. However, I do not endorse any of them, as these are manipulative, self-destructive and otherwise just a bad idea:

  • Withdraw emotionally
  • Withdraw sexually
  • Stop talking and sharing
  • Become a bitch, or someone he does not like or want to be around
  • Focus on what is important to him and sabotage that. If your looks are a big part of his feelings for you, stop paying attention to your appearance and weight.

If he is having a hard time accepting a divorce, and you want him to get on board for the sake of an uncontested divorce and healthy co-parenting, try these:

  • Make it very clear that you are not interested in staying married and are ready to move on. Leave no room for negotiation or reconciliation.
  • If you are still having sex, stop.
  • Men are often rightfully terrified of getting screwed over in divorce. Make it clear to him that you are committed to 50/50 equally shared parenting, and you have no intention of seeking child support or alimony that would make his life hell.
  • Move out.
  • Sit him down with divorce papers and initiate negotiating a divorce. Here is our list of top online divorce services.

Why doesn’t my husband want a divorce?

Lots of reasons are possible:

  • He still loves you and believes your challenges are surmountable.
  • He is afraid that a divorce will mean he rarely gets to see his kids, or that you will move them far away.
  • He is afraid that a divorce will mean unaffordable child support or alimony payments that will make his life hell.
  • He is religious and does not believe in divorce.
  • He’s insecure or narcissistic and hates the thought of you being romantic with someone else.
  • He is afraid of disappointing friends, family and community.
  • He is afraid of being lonely.

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When should I leave my husband or wife?

If you are in an abusive situation, you must strategize about leaving safely. Otherwise, find a time that is kind, not on any holidays or birthdays, when you can calmly and thoughtfully tell your spouse that the marriage is over.

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How do I prepare to leave my husband or wife?

Whether you are initiating the breakup, have been served divorce papers, worried your husband or wife is ready to file for divorce, or have mutually agreed to a separation, it is important to prepare yourself mentally and financially. Also, start preparing yourself for what it will look like to co-parent with your soon-to-be-ex.

What should I do before filing for divorce?

Shore up your finances. Get an idea of what kind of money you will have after divorce. Consult with an attorney. Find a therapist for yourself and your kids.

How do I tell my husband I don’t love him anymore and want a divorce?

Polite is not the goal. If your husband is a reasonable person, sit down with him, face-to-face, at home. Be kind, but straight-forward. “I appreciate these years together, but I don’t love you anymore and I want a divorce.”

How can I get my husband to want a divorce?

Lots of ways to get a lover to leave you, or at least agree to a divorce, and here are a few that may be effective. However, I do not endorse any of them, as these are manipulative, self-destructive and otherwise just a bad idea.

When should I leave my husband or wife?

If you are in an abusive situation, you must strategize about leaving safely. Otherwise, find a time that is kind, not on any holidays or birthdays, when you can calmly and thoughtfully tell your spouse that the marriage is over.