Eighteen months after my marriage ended, I jumped into a heady, sexually intense year-long relationship with a fellow writer and parent who was 20 years older than I was. In hindsight, it was no surprise it ended — his kids were grown, mine were tiny, our lives were at different points. But that did not make me love him any less, and did nothing to tamper the absolute devastation that pummeled me when we broke up.
Even months after we split, Sundays when my kids are with their dad and I would have otherwise spent with my ex-boyfriend, I instead engaged in unseemly behavior like walking around the streets of Manhattan while bawling uncontrollably, listening to John Legend on a loop, and reading the Wikipedia page on Carrie and Mr. Big.
I was a steaming-hot mess, deeply in a painful heartbreak like I’d never experienced — even more than what I endured in my divorce in many ways.
Not only was all this embarrassing, it was also incongruous with the events at hand. Something else was at play.
It took me more than five years of blogging about single mothers and connecting here and on social media with literally hundred of thousands of moms who are single by way of divorce, choice, separation, or other, to really understand what was happening to me.
Turns out, this pain is specific to that first post-divorce/relationship breakup, and it is universally brutal (but worth it).
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Here are three things I wish I knew about dating after divorce:
1. First thing: It can be intense
That first big relationship after divorce is BIG, and DEEP and very sexually intense.
2. Second thing: It can hurt
The second lesson I learned about dating after divorce is that first relationship HURTS LIKE HELL when it ends.
3. Third thing: It can be fun
Final big dating-after-divorce lesson: Dating is new and fresh and fun and exciting at this phase of life. You invent the rules! Try anything you like!
Here’s what I wish I knew about first relationships after divorce:
- Your first relationship after divorce
- First relationship and sex after divorce
- Can you find true love after divorce?
Understanding your first relationship after divorce
What are the stages of a relationship after divorce?
After a divorce, relationship stages are similar but different than other relationships:
- Stage 1: infatuation + intense sex
- Stage 2: love
- Stage 3: turmoil — post-divorce relationships can be really hard, especially if there is co-parenting involved
- Stage 4: (more typically) heartbreak
- Stage 5: (sometimes) lifelong partnership
Does the first relationship after divorce last?
It seems to be a universal experience: When that first relationship after divorce ends it just kills. When that relationship ended, it hurt like a motherfucker! Holy shit did that hurt. Ouchie!! Owwie ow ow ow! Mommy! Make it stop! Please, ow ow owie ouchie ow I can’t take any more!!!
It took me a long time, and a lot of interaction with other, divorced people to figure out why post-divorce rebounds are akin to your body dripping with infected hangnails while, at the same time, a rusty scythe strikes your guts. Again. And again. And again.
Even more than an ending love, all that pain and torment is really about contending with unresolved heartbreak from divorce. You are likely as I was: needing to go through that rebound and the subsequent pain. It served as a critical point of reference through which I dealt with the dissolution of my marriage.
Divorce often robs us of the opportunity to mourn the romantic relationship itself because there is so much practical and logistical hell to contend with at the time of the split. Including:
- Your children’s care and feelings
- Finances
- Worry you will be be destitute
- Custody
- Co-parenting
- Worry your children will be forever neurotic/hateful of you/incapable of love
- Real estate transactions
- Relocation — including deciding whether to keep or sell the house in the divorce
- Lost relationships with in-laws
- Lost relationships with mutual friends
- Divvying of personal items (make sure to sell your engagement ring and don’t make it part of the divvying)
- Removing names from bank accounts and mortgages and wills, credit cards, utility accounts and car notes
- Managing your debt and credit
- Acclimating to visitation schedules
- Acclimating to living alone
- Figuring out how to live on far less money (how to make and stick to your single-mom budget)
- Figuring out how to make way more money
- Fear of finding love after divorce
- And on and on
Is the first relationship after divorce doomed?
No! Not all first relationships after divorce end. But most do. That’s OK!
5 tips for dating after divorce
Why are relationships so hard after divorce?
Post-divorce relationships can be hard for a number of reasons:
- You and/or your partner are nursing broken hearts and trust issues from past relationships
- Lots of divorced people are not good at relationships to start with
- Co-parenting can be great, but also messy with a step-parent in the mix
- One or both of you may need to have some fun first — maybe something casual, FWB, younger-man/older-woman dating, or any kind of adult kink.
- Parties involved are older, more set in their ways, and have more years under their belts to accumulate baggage and emotional wounds
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First relationship and sex after divorce
After my post-divorce rebound, I needed another rebound relationship. I happened to be his first post-divorce rebound relationship. I couldn’t believe my good fortune, especially after fear that I would never find love after divorce.
My first serious relationship after divorce
Me: “I’ve been thinking about how the first time you sleep with someone, you’re not really sleeping with that person — you’re really sleeping with all the other people you’ve had sex with before them.”
Him: “That’s right. You’re really sleeping with your point of reference.”
In essence, before you get to know a new lover’s body and preferences — as well as how your own body and preferences fit with that person — each of us is really just sorting through all of the bodies and preferences that came before in order to truly enjoy current company.
Relationships are no different. And this analogy holds most true in a rebound relationship.
There has been plenty written on the perils of the rebound. The old maxim suggests that the recently heart-broken is too angry/vulnerable/hurt to be truly open to a new love. The rebounder is at risk of attaching too quickly to the wrong person, and those dating a rebounder are subject to wandering into the line of fire of scatter-shot devotion.
I’ve written exhaustively about my own post-marriage rebound with a man who was also recently divorced. It lasted a full year and was thrilling, wonderful and dysfunctional.
When that relationship ended, it hurt like a motherfucker! Holy shit did that hurt. Ochie!! Owwie ow ow ow! Mommy! Make it stop! Please, ow ow owie ouchie ow I can’t take any more!!! Even more than an ending love, all that pain and torment was really about contending with unresolved heartbreak from my divorce. But I needed to go through that rebound and the subsequent pain. It served as a critical point of reference through which I dealt with the dissolution of my marriage.
Falling in love too soon after divorce
But no matter how much I tried to stay true to my belief that anything is possible in love, there was no escaping that I am three years out of my marriage while he is a mere three weeks. This guy’s giddy openness about starting life anew reminded me of just how I felt at that juncture.
Divorce rates for second and third marriages
I also sensed a vulnerability and neediness that was woefully familiar — in this man I could see myself two years ago when I, too, first ventured into post-divorce dating. It evoked being on a third date with my own rebound boyfriend. Anxiously, across the table in a dimly lit West Village restaurant, I stammered: “Are you dating anyone else? Because I’m not.” My barely salvaged heart could barely stand the risk of being dinged yet again.
Today, I feel differently about emotional risk, heartbreak and dating. On the one hand, bring it on! You don’t get to the good stuff in relationships without putting yourself out there emotionally. But now I don’t feel quite as vulnerable and needy. I am feeling strong and free and optimistic about love in a different, more grounded way — one that allows me to see obvious love landmines before I enthusiastically dance on one. As such, I couldn’t figure out how to make my own phase of divorce jibe with that of my recent amour.
So in a breakup email exchange, I shared more or less what I said here. I added that I hoped we could stay connected in some way, keep open the possibility of finding each other in other phases of our journeys. What I got in response was one of the most touching compliments I’ve received in a very long time. It said:
“I can’t think of anyone I would rather have lost my divorce virginity to.”
What to know about dating while going through a divorce
Being friends with an ex: Is it a good idea or should you avoid it?
Can you find true love after divorce?
Answer: Yes.
One data point: Me.
I separated from my husband when I was 33. I was pregnant and had a toddler. A year and a half later I started to date. I dated like a maniac and had a blast meeting all kinds of wonderful, mediocre and weird men. Tons of sex, fell in love once or twice, made some new friends and a bunch of stories. Three years ago I fell in love with a wonderful man who loves me, loves my kids, and wants to spend his life with me.
I’m not special. I’m a little fat, pretty loud, frequently grumpy and fickle.
Is love different after divorce?
Love is different after divorce just like love is different after any major life experience.
Love after divorce can be more intense if you are coming off of years of a loveless, unhappy or sexless marriage. You may appreciate what you have now compared with your spouse.
Love can be more complicated if either party is still dealing with their divorce — logistically, legally or emotionally. Any kids in the mix can also make things more wonderful — seeing your new partner love and care for your kids, and vice versa — as well as messier as you try to parent together.
Dating a widower: 6 things you need to know
Should you get back together with an ex after a breakup?
Lots of people do, with a lot of success. Here are reasons not to get back together with an ex after breakup:
- You want totally different things and you believe you will change him.
- You want totally different things and you are ready to make major, soul-crushing compromises to make it work.
- Abuse.
- You know in your heart is wrong but you’re so lonely. Or horny.
- You tell yourself you’ll just hook up with no feelings involved.
- You’re miserable with him, if comfortable.
Bottom line: First relationships after divorce can be tough, and enter them with your eyes wide open
You’re going to date, have sex and maybe even fall in love — go for it! But you are older, maybe wiser, maybe more broken, and your life and your partner’s life are more complicated than before. Enjoy — and watch out for red flags.
After a divorce, relationship stages are similar but different than other relationships:
– Stage 1: infatuation + intense sex
– Stage 2: love
– Stage 3: turmoil — post-divorce relationships can be really hard, especially if there is co-parenting involved
– Stage 4: (more typically) heartbreak
– Stage 5: (sometimes) lifelong partnership
You are likely as I was: needing to go through that rebound and the subsequent pain. It served as a critical point of reference through which I dealt with the dissolution of my marriage.
No! Not all first relationships after divorce end. But most do. That’s OK!
Post-divorce relationships can be hard for a number of reasons:
– You and/or your partner are nursing broken hearts and trust issues from past relationships
– Lots of divorced people are not good at relationships to start with
– Co-parenting can be great, but also messy with a step-parent in the mix
– Parties involved are older, more set in their ways, and have more years under their belts to accumulate baggage and emotional wounds
Answer: Yes.
One data point: Me.
Love is different after divorce just like love is different after any major life experience.
I am so happy and full of joy right now. friends
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I am going the same thing right now, we never shared the same friend or anything else but it hurts like hell. Thank you for writing this posting it’s helped me.
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Yes, divorce is not so pleasant thing, but in any case, life goes on and maybe the divorce was for better.
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I was abandoned by my wife this July. I came home from work and she had already taken the kids and had filed for divorce. I feel very naive saying that I had no clue this was coming but in retrospect there had been many issues for years even though we never had major arguments and slept in the same bed for 23 years until the day she left. The intimacy had been gone for a while.
I met someone after several months of being separated. We shared many common challenges with our separate families. It did feel that when I was with her nothing else mattered. The intimacy and physical part of it was/is unbelievable. Everything about it is so intense.
I am not exactly sure where it is going at this point.
Reading this post scared me a bit because if you want to put yourself out there at some point there will be that first relationship after a divorce/break up. Are all first relationships going to scar me for the rest of my life?
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I know this post is old but I wanted to comment. I was dating my husband for 8 yrs and married for 7. But things started getting bad 5 yrs ago. I just lost love for him. He was always out and a lot of infidelity. Also verbal abuse that everyone around me noticed but me. So I just have no feelings anymore. He tried changing but it was a little too late. I have 3 kids 16, 14 and 1. I’m only 33. I just feel like I will never find anyone as a single mom. Is this considered being stable since it was my decision or is it best to wait a while?
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After being married for 11 years, my husband decided he needs to leave me, he said I made him miserable, and now he’s a changed man and wanted a free life, I felt so hurt because I loved him so much as I did the day we were married, he was always a lovely man whom would do anything for me and the kids. I have begged him to come back and told him I will do anything for him and he can have the life of freedom to do what he wants as long as he comes home to his family. I had no other option than to contact Lord Lugard from the miracle Temple which I met his spells online, and he did helped me to cast a spell, and that was the end of all my pains and heart break. In just 24 hours after the spell cast, my ex-husband called me to tell me how much he missed me and told me he would spend his life with me forever. Now im so happy because my husband is back to my life again. Contact him through his email for similar issues: miracletemple@ live . com
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Well my rebound relationship after my divorce (married for 9 years with 3 kids) led to a second marriage. I reconnected with someone I knew from high school and still had mutual friends with. The short story is that I ended up in a relationship with a narcissist that was very good at manipulation and saying and doing whatever they needed to get what they wanted. I felt so connected in the beginning and even to the point that we moved in together after 8 months dating and one breakup. I had 3 kids, he had 2 from a past relationship (but never married). We combined houses and families, then we got married and I was miserable from that moment on. In my gut I knew it wasn’t right and it wouldn’t last but I thought it was just paranoia and being hard on myself from my first marriage and divorce. The second divorce with no shared children ended up worse than the first. We filed right before our year anniversary and did everything on our own without lawyers. I thought we were amicable and in agreement but I’m still dealing with him 7 months after our divorce was finalized. I am so much harder on myself the second time because I should have “know better” I don’t know what that really means but it’s what goes through my head. My finances are a mess, my life is in limbo because of the choices I made the second time around. BUT things did come full circle and I am now dating the man I should have been with when I first met my second husband. We’ve been dating for almost a year and this truly is the best relationship and partner I’ve ever had. You do live and learn, although you still go through some of the same stages for example when things are new and maybe you speak up less and hold back more because you don’t want to hurt or let the other person down. Once the newness wears off you continue to learn more about each other and it is the good, the bad and the ugly. LOL But the ugly really is minor compared to what I’ve weathered in the past. It is still hard to leave the past in the past sometimes. Finding a supportive and understanding partner to help you through is important and feels like a miracle! Being able to trust and confide in your partner is also an amazing new experience and feeling for me. The best part is that it was all natural and easy, nothing was forced. I was certainly jaded about love and marriage, I swore I’d never do it again, never fall, never marry. I can honestly see my current boyfriend as a true partner and friend and lover and I couldn’t imagine my life without him. Maybe we’ll get married someday, maybe we won’t but either way I can see happily ever after this time. <3
I celebrated my fourth year Marriage anniversary yesterday, i can remember it was Priest Ajigar that help me. We broke up when we were dating few years back and i tried all ways to get him back to me but nothing work and after trying all means i had to sick for the help of Priest Ajigar because i heard and saw so many testimonies about him on a blog site, i had to consult him for help too and he brought him back to me in just 4 days after the counsel, prayers and spell was done in his temple he was back to me and we got married after 3 months. Yesterday we celebrated our 4th year marriage anniversary , we have been living together as husband and wife after Priest Ajigar brought him back to me, we are still living together peaceful till date and we have a boy. Here is his email(priestajigarspells @ live . com) if you want to contacted him concerning your relationship problem. I’m so very happy and i just want you all to know that he is very powerful and can change your situation.
Lot of truth to the article, i walked away from my husband after 2 years and filed for divorce immediately i couldn’t take his changed behaviour and abuse any longer (medical issue). I wanted to feel loved and jumped straight into another relationship with someone who literally was everything i wanted my husband to become. I dont think its using them but it helped to get over the breakup. Made me feel like i was cared about!!However my ex husband decided to start talking to me months later and it caused a wedge with my new boyfriend and trust issues started tearing us apart. My divorce came through and hit me like a tonne of bricks more the shame i feel now being divorced and the time you feel is wasted. my boyfriend could not understand why it bothered me it was a bad marriage and i started the divorce only those who have been through it understand! My boyfriend dumped me the week my decree came through and it’s him i am upset at losing not my husband. My advice is dont take advice from others do what feels right for you i would separate for a while before filling for divorce and get mentally ready!!
I’m here to appreciate the good work of this site for helping me to locate my helper who is Prophet Iyare. I have been having misunderstanding with my husband which leads to divorce some mouths ago, But i was unable to move on with my life because i have so much love for my husband and my kid love him too. I heard about @iyareyaresolutiontemple@gmail. com here some few Weeks ago and i decided to contact him for help and he told me what i needed to do which i did, i was so surprised when i got a call from my husband apologizing to me and told me he was going to come back to me it all seems like a dream to me thanks to Prophet Iyare i am back with my husband again and we are so happy together.
This is from the other side of the equation – I have just been that rebound guy. I looked up an old girlfriend, not even sure why, but found her, literally just divorced and living with her mother and children. It took matter of days to reconnect, we had never actually had sex as teenage boyfriend/girlfriend so it was an intense unrequited sexual connection and we went at it way, way too fast. almost addictively, without self control.
I now realise she had a giant hole, post divorce, at her core – she had been trained for 13 years to be with a man and have him just there. Thus, way too quickly she tried to put me into that role, she wanted to get pregnant (after two weeks) and did, then started talking about moving state, buying a house and renovating it (fantasy talk financially).
It was intoxicating emotionally and sexually and I felt as though time had created some special loop just for us, but the (maybe unconscious) expectations from her to be a substitute for the experiences of her last partner were problematic, requests to be a quasi parent and attend her child’s school art show etc.
We broke up after she miscarried and blamed me – but the truth was her situation and age meant that her body was far too stressed for a pregnancy, the divorce had left her thin and run down from stress and her coping mechanism was a very high nicotine and caffeine dependency.
It hurt like nothing else when she cut me off, she had spent months telling me how i was healing her mentally and physically and it was only because of our shared teenage history that she could let me in like this. But in truth, I did heal her, only not in the way she was talking about, I healed her by allowing her to transfer her rage against me when we broke up, releasing the stored up sheer venom that was really all about her real failed relationship, the major relationship of her life, and it wasn’t about me.
So gentlemen, beware of being the post divorce rebound guy – nothing is what you assume – there are really three of you in that relationship, it’s a triangle with a silent partner always there.
I had a problem with my fiance 3 months ago,which lead us apart. When he broke up with me,I was no longer myself,i dont know what to do,I feel my life has come to an end, So I went for advice online and i saw so good comment about a spell caster named Robinson buckler, how he help couples to solve their relationship and marriage issues. I email the spell caster on the email which was provided in the comments (Robinson.buckler@yahoo. com ) and I explain my problem to him and I did what he asked me, Before I knew what happened, after 24 hours, my fiance gave me a call and he came back to me and beg for forgiveness, I’m so grateful to these spell caster and i will not stop publishing his name on the internet just for the good work he did for me.If you need his help,you can email Robinson.buckler……
I am SO glad I “Google-tripped” over this article. It is ABSOLUTELY true, and I was seriously thinking that my feelings were just unique to me–nope. What’s so crazy is I felt this amazing amount of guilt for having such intense feelings for someone who was a seeming stranger compared to my ex-husband! I was absolutely not ready for a relationship, but I’ve never quite been without one = recipe for disaster for my newly single self. He is an amazing human being, but I still contest that I broke my own heart by allowing him to do it. I think my divorce made me vulnerable but that this process is making me stronger. I still miss him…sometimes.
Glad this helped :)
Please warn people on here about pushing these so called spell casters
Their nothing but scammers trying to get people’s money
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I’ve been divorced for six months now, but separated/single for over a year. My ex clearly mourned the marriage long before he ended it. He’s living with his new gf…10 years his, and my, junior.
I’m trying out the post divorce relationship…and he’s post divorce too, barely. I’m terrified that we’ll both implode on ourselves.
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HOW MY MARRIAGE/BUSINESS WERE RESTORED BACK BY DR AMIGO.
Hello friends! My Name is Bridget Harrison, i have had a lot about Dr Amigo and his good works in bringing back lost relationships and restoring businesses, but i never believe in spell casters to get back my husband who left me and three kids over nine months ago. A good friend of mine introduced me to Dr Amigo spell just because my condition was so bad and the responsibilities on my head were more than me. my husband left me for another woman just because i don’t have a male child for him. so i email Dr Amigo and told him everything, he told me not to worry that my husband will come back and i will have a male child for him. he only told me to believe in him that after casting the spell my husband will come back immediately and beg for forgiveness. Dr Amigo actually did it for me and my husband came back to me within three days. i am very happy and all thanks goes to Dr Amigo. I promised Dr Amigo that i will share this testimony to every one in the world if he make me to have a male child for my husband. and he also did it, as I’m sharing this testimony to every one out here that am with my new baby boy. Now i am the happiest woman on earth because Dr Amigo restored my marriage with 100%. For more info about him type “Dr Amigo the online spell caster” on Google to see more of his article. He also help to win court cases, get promoted in the office, win lotto. etc
Why do you scammers keep on screwing people over?
There is no such thing as a spell caster!