The ultimate divorce checklist

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Divorce and separation filings spike after the new year. Couples brave the holidays (no need to ruin Christmas for the kids!), then call it quits. Or they’ve been thinking about it for years, and finally decide to pull the plug as part of a resolution. Or maybe the stresses of the winter festivities were the nail in the coffin of your union.

If you’re headed for divorce, here is a roundup of info you need now:

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  • Seek advice about how to tell your kids you’re separating. Related article: 6 tips for talking to kids about divorce
  • Stop fighting with him. You’ve already been fighting. It will get you no where now. Just stop, and take practical, calm steps to move forward to untangle the relationship. You will be co-parenting for the rest of your lives. You need a new dynamic. Initiate the change. Related: Podcast-How to get days to stay involved post-divorce
  • Slow your roll. Don’t run out of the house screaming. Don’t go on a spending spree, quit your job, or other rash moves. Divorce is trauma, and you, your kids and your soon-to-be ex will fare better on the other side if you are calm, deliberate and kind to yourself and him.
  • Remember: This will be hard. Also: It will get better. In fact, this new phase of life will be amazing.

Related:

9 reasons dating is better as a single mom

31 reasons single motherhood is AWESOME

What every mom should ask for in divorce negotiations

Are you divorced? What was the BEST thing you did to prepare? Biggest mistake? Share with your sisters in the comments …

 

 

 

 

 

 

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2 thoughts on “The ultimate divorce checklist

  1. Great post as always Emma,

    I’d also add to build in some depression-proofing into your life BEFORE things get too hectic. Hot Yoga, martial arts, ukulele, art journalling, by starting a fun new habit during the marriage, it can be easier to turn down the volume on the mommy guilt that ensues as you try to balance your new-found single mommy status with the need to move forward, make money and look fabulous all at the same time.

    All the best,
    T. A.

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