Hate laundry? Here are 5 reasons why you should outsource that drudgery today

Outsourcing can be the core to your success, including outsourcing laundry. I am adamant about not ever doing laundry, so I hire someone to do laundry. I send it out, pay my housekeeper to do it, or assign it to my children.

Absolving myself of the time and headspace required to stay on top of clothes, linens and unmentionables frees me to build the life I want.

If you are looking to hire laundry or other housekeeping, here are three resources to help you find help:

• Bark.com – Hire a pro to do your laundry >>
• Care.com – Get 20% of Care.com membership with code JOINCARE20 >>
• HomeAdvisor.com – Get laundry help from a professional near you >>

Want to hire someone to do laundry? 5 solutions

1. Hire a household manager or housekeeper to do laundry who can also clean and organize your house

Hiring a housekeeper can provide multiple benefits besides having a clean home. A housekeeper can wash, fold, and put away your laundry, but also keep your home organized. 

By taking care of tasks like laundry, your house manager can:

• Keep your home organized so you can always find what you need, quickly
• Free up your time, so you can do things you’ve been putting off
• Decrease your stress level by eliminating clutter
• Ensure you have a healthier household by sanitizing hard surfaces, clothes, and linens
• Decrease the money you spend on cleaning products

There are so many reasons why hiring a housekeeper makes sense, especially if you have the budget to do so. You can choose to hire an independent housekeeper or a cleaning service that has a team of housekeeping staff.

On average, it costs between $15.50 and $20.25 an hour to have a housekeeper, according to Care.com. But, some businesses charge a flat fee per space.

No matter what you choose, be sure to make a list of what you need and expect so that you can find the best fit for your household. 

And if you feel guilty about outsourcing your laundry, it’s time to reframe your thoughts. You work hard. There’s nothing wrong with delegating. It’s a boss move.

2. Drop off your laundry at a laundromat

I used to live in New York City, where every neighborhood has wash-and-fold services for around $1 per pound. Most places will pick up your filthy sack of poopy, pee-y, spit-up-y, avocado-y, spaghetti-saucy, grass-stainy laundry in the morning, and deliver it after work, neatly folded, sorted and smelling fresh as your baby’s butt that you just washed — all for about $20.

That same bag full of laundry would cost me about $8 to do in the coin laundry, including detergent (I live in an apartment) each week.

I figure it would also cost about $10 per week if I had my own washer and dryer, factoring in detergent, water, electricity, and wear and tear on a Maytag.

But all this outsourcing really isn’t about the saved $15 or the extra $15 or the wear and tear. Wash and fold laundry service is about economizing time and energy.

Read: How to set up a budget

3. Search “laundry pick up and delivery near me”

I found a great local laundry service that picks up my laundry and drops it off clean and folded within 24 hours through Bark.com, with an A+ Better Business Bureau rating. 

Bark is a service that allows you to sign up for free, detail the service you need, and receive offers from housekeepers, laundry and other service providers. Choose one and never do laundry again!

To contact housekeepers you are interested in interviewing, you’ll need to purchase Bark credits. Each credit costs $1.80, but you can buy a credit pack or monthly subscription to save money on the per credit cost. Each housekeeper will have a credit price based on the job you require. The more you ask for, the higher the credit price.

Not every zip code has these amazing wash-and-fold services (I lived in NYC), but you can find someone to do your laundry in your home through sites like Care.com.

Care.com (founded by a mom) is another reputable service where you can find local household managers, housekeepers, laundry and nanny services near you. Check out our Care.com review and get 20% of Care.com membership with code JOINCARE20 >>

If you cannot outsource laundry through Care.com, try a search for “laundry pick up and delivery near me”:

4. Pay your nanny to do your laundry

You can also pay your nanny or babysitter extra to also change your linens and do your laundry. 

5. Pay someone to do laundry

You can ask around for a recommendation, and tell parents in the neighborhood that you'd be happy to pay someone to take over your laundry. It may inspire a fellow mom to start a work-at-home business that could change her life.

A local parent in your neighborhood may also be interested in taking in your laundry. Ask around!

You can sign up for Care.com to see who’s in your area.

Laundry service reviews

These are some websites that can connect you with professionals who offer laundry services:

Bark

Bark is a website that finds local professionals for you for free. There is also an app called Bark Professionals available for iOS and Android devices.

If you're looking to hire a housekeeper to do your laundry and clean your home, these are the questions Bark will ask you:

• What type of property needs cleaning?
• How often do you need cleaning services?
• How many bedroom(s) need cleaning?
• How many bathroom(s) need cleaning?
• How many reception room(s) need cleaning (living/dining)?
• When are the best days for cleaning?
• Will you be supplying cleaning materials and equipment?
• How likely are you to make a hiring decision?

Once you answer these questions, you have to provide your email and phone number so local professionals can contact you with a quote for your requested services. If you're not someone who wants to receive a bunch of calls and emails, Bark may not be for you.

Bark also does not require background checks.

These were the professionals that showed up based on my location and preferences:

Bark.com isn't rated by the Better Business Bureau but has 3.96/5 stars from customer reviews on the site. It also has 4.5/5 stars on Trustpilot.

Find a housekeeper today on Bark.com >>

Care

Care.com isn't just for babysitting. You can hire a number of professionals through the platform, including housekeepers. Care.com also has an iOS and Android app.

Care.com requires caregivers to pass a background check every year, though it does not require the same of all professionals.

To use Care.com, you have to create a profile and fill out information about your home, what type of cleaning services you're looking for, and how much you want to pay.

Care.com generates an ad on your behalf, which you can add to/edit. To post your ad, you have to pay for a membership. There are three payment options:

• Annual – $12.95
• Quarterly – $24.95
• Monthly – $38.95

These are some messages I got from housekeepers within a few hours of posting an ad:

Care.com has a B rating from the Better Business Bureau, though only 1.4/5 stars on Trustpilot. Most negative customer reviews are from people who had trouble finding a professional in their area.

Join Care.com for free today and get 20% off a premium membership with code JOINCARE20 >>

Angi

Angi, formerly known as Angie's List, is a website that matches you with professionals for various jobs, including housekeeping. When you visit the site, you'll be asked to choose what type of cleaning service you need from these options:

• Central vacuum
• Stone or marble restoration and polishing
• Maid service
• Spring cleaning
• Walls, ceiling, tile, and grout cleaning
• Ducts and vents cleaning
• Professional home or office organizer consultant
• Post construction cleanup
• Range and hood cleaning

Angi asks whether you need recurring services or a one-time cleaning, the square footage of your house, and how soon you'll be needing services.

Angi matches you with professionals in your area who specialize in the type of service/cleaning you've requested, and you can see how they've been rated by past clients:

If you request a quote from a company, they may reach out to you via phone or email.

Angi requires professionals designated as Angi Certified businesses to undergo a background check.

Angi had its accreditation revoked by the Better Business Bureau in 2022 because the company was sued in California for misleading customers into believing it had completed background checks on contractors when it hadn't.

Angi has 3.1/5 stars on Trustpilot and has an app available for iOS and Android devices. Angi merged with HomeAdvisor in 2017.

Find a professional housekeeper on Angi >>

Thumbtack

I like Thumbtack because it's straightforward. On the main page, you type in your zip code and what you need — in this case, laundry services — and you get a list of professionals who provide that service in your area.

You can read reviews from past clients, see how many employees a company has and how long they've been in business, and request a quote if you want to move forward. That means no unsolicited phone calls from professionals.

Thumbtack does not require background checks, though they are available for free if a professional chooses to do one.

Thumbtack is accredited by the Better Business Bureau with an A+ rating and has 4.2 out of 5 stars on Trustpilot. Thumbtack for Professionals is available for iOS and Android devices.

Find a laundry professional on Thumbtack today >>

Why you need to hire someone to do laundry

I really, really hate to do the wash, and I really, really hate to fold.

The sorting and cycling and hauling of this never-ending chore so tedious, so mundane and omnipotent that it's a joke for moms everywhere.

Except that it will make you poor. Nothing funny about that!

Investing in laundry service makes me richer because it frees up my time to use in more productive ways.

What if you invested just half all those laundry hours in your career, a business or freelance gigs? What if not having to worry about wash and dry and fold freed you up to spend more energy at work — and be more focused and engaged with your family when you are at home.

We haven’t even mentioned the happy factor. Some people just love laundry. I have never met one of these people, and I suspect I would not like her.

For me, wiping laundry off my weekly to-do list has been the most incredibly liberating exercise.

Before, it was a constant gnat swarming around my mind – what was clean when, when would I schedule a load, when to haul the dripping sheets into the dryer and to remember to take out my lacey things to air dry.

Now, I spend a fraction of that mental energy to coordinate a visit with Sandra.

When you are a single mom, money and time are especially precious.

Our professional lives, our kids and we ourselves simply cannot be weighed down by regrouting the tub (unless that is your thing, of course) or keeping your kids undies sparkling white. You are better than that.

When I get on my soapbox about this topic, I often hear people – and by “people,” I mean “women” – who cry:

“Laundry is just a part of life, you spoiled asshole!”

Not so long ago dying in childbirth was just part of life. Economies and technology changed since that was a valid point, and you are now free to unload unsavory tasks to people who want to earn a living doing them.

“Laundry doesn’t take that long, I don’t see what the big deal is, jeez! So lazy!”

One, two hours is a lot of time for me — as you will see below my long list of other things you might do with those minutes. Second, it is actually far more than just two hours of labor to do your laundry. Because you spend countless hours thinking about and remembering and stressing about when and how you will do the laundry. You might fight with your spouse or kids about the laundry. Get annoyed with yourself if you forget the wash overnight — or the drying and wind up with a crumply, wrinkly mess.

So it is two hours, plus countless brain cells and energy and emotion spent on laundry.

It’s a big-picture thing.

“Oh, but doing laundry is just a part of life. I’d feel guilty for sending it out.”

Do you feel guilty for using a dishwasher, instead of cleaning every grimy fork and sippy cup by hand? Do you feel guilty for not washing your clothes on rocks by the river — because you are already outsourcing their cleaning to a machine made in China, that sits in your garage / basement / laundry room and does 99% of the work involved in laundry. In other words: You already outsource, so why not take it just a fraction of a step further and offload that task completely?

“I feel it is my duty as a parent to teach my kids to mop the floor.”

Really? Do you really think that your child will grow up incapable of knowing how to mop a floor in an emergency? For real?

“You are such a snotty, rich bitch. Not everyone can afford spending all their money on house cleaners and laundry service. I hate you.”

Muah back atcha!

Look, no one has ever gotten rich without outsourcing some tasks. No one. You can’t do it all — I don’t care if you are a sculptor slaving away in your attic, you rely on an agency, a gallery, someone to publicize your shows and host boozy after parties where hedge fund guys will feel all important and buy your stuff. Or if you are a tech entrepreneur, you simply cannot work alone in a Starbucks and create a bazillion dollar enterprise. You are one person. Successful enterprises consist of people doing what they do best, and being wise enough and humble enough to pass along other tasks to others who are more competent and enthusiastic about those things.

If you spend your energy and time on sorting and washing and drying and ironing and sorting and matching and folding, your energy is on a low-skilled task that fosters resentment. I don’t know of one fabulously successful person who does his or her own laundry. Do you?

I often hear from blog readers or friends incredulous cries: “How do you get so much done all the time! Do you ever sleep?!”

Actually, many nights I’m in bed by 9 p.m. (not proud of that, it is what it is), and I spend plenty of time dawdling on Facebook. But it is true: I produce a lot of creative work I am very proud of, make a handsome living, pick my kids up from the bus most days, hit the gym, jogging path, or yoga studio five times per week and enjoy a hot date or evening out with my friends once or twice weekly. Not to mention day trips, vacations, weekly movie night and family dinners every weeknight with my kids and guests. No complaints.

My secret – the one all those incredulous friends do not want to hear? I outsource shit I don’t like to do. I even outsource stuff I DO like to do, because it makes more sense for someone else to do it! In my business, I hire people in my business to do things I can do but am not efficient at — like podcast production and editing, web design and marketing.

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People keep getting divorced. A lot. Rates have been around 40-50 percent for more than four decades.

Younger people aren't getting married, as marriage rates hitting historic lows.

Married women are pretty freaking unhappy. Researchers found: “The average married woman is less happy than the average married man, less happy than single women, less convinced that married people are happier than single people, and more likely to file for divorce. Once returned to single life, women’s happiness recovers, whereas men’s declines, and divorced women are less eager to remarry than divorced men.”

50 things you can do instead when you hire someone to do laundry:

1. Play checkers with your kids.
2. Host a dinner party.
3. Have a glass of chardonnay while watching Handmaid's Tale.
4. Hit the gym.
5. Go to yoga, Zumba or Pilates.
6. Go for a jog, hike or power walk with a friend.
7. Finish your degree.
8. Get a new degree or job designation that will give you a new direction and earning power in your career.
9. Take steps to launch that new dream business.
10. Grow your business. Or, find a great work-at-home career to start.
11. Find cool, quick ways to make money from home.
12. Attend a networking event.
13. Take an online course.
14. Network online via LinkedIn, professional associations, Facebook groups, following up on email communication or setting up meetings.
15. Call your parents.
16. Teach your kids how to jump rope.
17. Just hang out alone together in the same room with your kids without engaging in electronics. Maybe some of you are reading, or doing a puzzle or Legos.
18. Cook as a family.
19. Fire up that online dating site or app, if you haven’t. (Here's my list of best dating sites for single moms.)
20. Go on a date.
21. Read. A book. An actual real, paper book. Fiction even! (Here's my list of the best books for single moms.)
22. Have sex.
23. Listen to podcasts.
24. Get a massage.
25. Give a massage.
26. Work in the garden.
27. Declutter your home like a mad woman. Go nuts! Feels so good!
28. Get sun on your body. Even in the winter, just some sun on your face and hands is amazing.
29. Bath. Take a great, long bath. 5 Tips for Self-Care Sunday
30. Nap.
31. Catch up with that best friend or cousin who lives far away.
32. Visit loved ones.
33. Write birthday cards, and send them!
34. Thank-you notes!
35. Gratitude. Start and maintain a gratitude practice, whether sharing by email your thankful thoughts each day, or writing them down in a special notebook, or verbalizing them on a voice app on your phone.
36. That skill that you always wanted to learn but did not? Do that. For me: I’m going to take tennis and acting classes. Maybe you want to learn to ride a motorcycle, use power tools (that kind, or that kind, too) or juggle.
37. Volunteer. Animal shelter, teen center, nursing home.
38. Mentor someone. Officially, through a program at work or in your community, or informally offer your guidance to someone you know.
39. Listen to a friend who needs to be heard.
40. Create something. A craft, a poem, song or essay.
41. Make your home prettier. Paint a room (better yet: go to the paint store, select a color, and hire someone to paint), hang a few new pictures, rearrange the furniture, change up the bed linens. Make it pretty, make it yours.
42. Library. When was the last time you hung out at the library?
43. Help a friend reach her dreams.
44. Go to a service where you worship. Or, if you’re in the market, find a new house of worship.
45. Do a new activity with your kids — learn to rollerblade or pogo-stick together. Take a community college class on woodworking or CPR.
46. Start a family give-back project. Raise money for a cause, give volunteer time, or reach out to people you know who need company, help around the house or meals.
47. Attend live performances – music, theater, dance. Free outdoor summer concerts, college and high school productions, Broadway or community theater.
48. Stroll the streets of a neighborhood or town you’ve never visited.
49. Visit a travel site, and brainstorm and daydream and drool – then budget!
50. Dream! Dream big and beautiful and outrageous! Write those dreams down! Create a dream board, tell your mastermind group, a trusted girlfriend, your cat! Spend those two hours each week teaching yourself to believe you can and will fill those hours will more wonderful incredible life than any top-loading, energy-saving appliance can afford you.

Don’t just take it from me, here is a guest post from single mom Danyel Clarke, who lives in Claremore, Oka., with her two-year-old and a puppy. Consider hiring out household tasks to nurture your relationship with yourself!

Danyel's story…

If you were to walk into my house, you’ll almost think I have my crap together. My son's room and bathroom are always perfect. Living room, kitchen and dining room are almost always perfect: things put away, clean, where they belong.

Then you open my bedroom door and realize that I have been putting all of my energy into the rest of the house and I actually haven’t done my laundry since September. You read that right. SEPTEMBER. I have enough clothes to make this is perfectly feasible. My son's laundry gets done, towels are always clean, sheets are washed, then I lose energy and say “screw it” by the time it’s my turn for my clothes.

I’ve been so exhausted with work, family, the “to-do” list, putting absolutely everyone and everything before myself. Nothing and everything gets done all at the same time.

I haven’t made it to church in two months, but it was my New Year's resolution to quit using exhaustion and chores as an excuse and just GO!

But ladies, today, the first Sunday of the year, I ran out of clean underwear. Completely out. Not a thong, faded or period-granny-panty one left in the drawer. Completely out.

So I freeballed it to church. Yep, I sure did!

On my way to church and during worship I was making a mental list of all the things I needed to get done today: top of the list was wash a load of underwear. Take boxes to recycling, go to the grocery store, remember that I'm supposed to bake a pecan cheesecake for that lady at work (add ingredients to that grocery list), take those glasses to my mom, I really need to steam clean that carpet, oh! Get a light bulb for the fridge, don’t forget to close the vents outside the house, trim the dog's nails as he’s really starting to leave marks on the kid, clean up the playroom…you get the picture.

Most people wouldn’t show up to church without underwear. But I’m sure glad I did, because today I was reminded of imperfection and grace.

After church I had planned to head home, make lunch for me and my little, and get started on my list.

After all, I should save the money. But instead I headed to one of my favorite places in town to eat. Just the two of us. Ordered (two) MANmosas, an appetizer, a tasty grilled chicken club, a meal for my little that I knew he wouldn’t eat, but hey! Now, he has dinner and I don’t have to cook at all today!

I had every intention of getting home right at the time he goes down for a nap so that I could nap, too.

And I don’t feel bad about it.

Like many single moms, I do it on my own. No breaks, no every-other-weekend, or any day at all that the kid goes to the other parent. I’m exhausted. And between a strong-headed 2-year-old and a puppy (hellooooo, just another toddler. What was I thinking?!?) I'm usually at my wit's end. That is definitely not to say I, or any other mom, or that I have it tougher than any other mom — I don’t mean that at all. It’s all hard. Momming is hard. Period.

For all of us, it’s important to remember that perfection isn’t required. It’s okay to splurge. Not cook. Don’t do the laundry (but yes, I did put a load in when we got home), to nap, and go to church commando!

That’s my long winded way of saying that I was “selfish” today. Blissfully, happily and wonderfully selfish. Little one finally fell asleep and now I’m going to nap as well.

Happy Sunday, mommas. Much love! ♥

Danyel

FAQs about hiring someone to do your laundry

What do you need to know before hiring a laundry service?

Before you hire a laundry service, read Google reviews and reviews from sites like the Better Business Bureau, Trustpilot, and Sitejabber to find one with a good track record and reasonable cost. You can also ask family and friends if they have any recommendations. 

For smaller businesses and individual service providers, you can often look at reviews on professional-for-hire marketplaces like HomeAdvisor or Care.com.

Once you have a few options, ask for quotes based on the services you want. Ask how the laundry service works, what items they accept, pickup/return times, and how long it takes to get your clean laundry back.  

How much should I pay someone to do a load of laundry?

Costs will vary based on geographic area and what the service provider counts as one load. Some laundry services charge by the pound with a minimum weight, while others use a flat rate per laundry bag. 

Here’s what you can expect to pay for a load of laundry:

• $1-$3/pound or $35-$55/bag for laundry service
• $9-$16/hour for an individual service provider
• $14.81-$18.82/hour for a housekeeper to do laundry in your home

How much to pay someone to do your laundry?

If you plan to get ongoing help for your laundry, you might be able to get a lower monthly rate. Exact costs will be based on your location, the amount of laundry you have and the frequency of service, but you can expect to pay $150-$200 per month.