Hey Mama! Every day I receive emails and Facebook messages from moms who really want to start dating again. But they have so many questions and worries.
Is this you?
I hope so! If you're thinking of dating again, you are a normal, healthy and wonderful mom — one with a normal, healthy and wonderful urge for companionship, someone to hold your hand in the street, sex, the possibility of love and partnership. Heck, if you are like me, you want a nice person to take you out for a meal, make you feel pretty and talk about your day!
All great reasons to get out there again!
But for every single mom who tells me she would like to get back out there again, I hear just as many worries and fears. Things like:
- “I'm afraid I'll get hurt again.”
- “All the good guys are taken.”
- “I'm too fat and old to get naked with a man.”
- “No one wants to date a woman with kids — at least no one normal.”
- “I feel guilty for taking time away from my kids to date.”
- “Good moms aren't sexy.”
- “I'm afraid I'll pick the wrong guy again and my whole family will get hurt.”
- “I've been out of the game so long that I forget how to flirt and date!”
- “I am so intimidated with new dating trends—booty calls, Cougars, open relationships, online dating, Tinder, texting—help!!”
Mama, I hear you! I feel you! I WAS RIGHT THERE, TOO.
When I got out of my marriage, I didn't date or flirt with a man for more than a year. If it weren't for friends forcing me on a couple of blind dates, I don't know if I would have ever made eye contact or had sex again!
But I did make eye contact and had sex again. And lots and lots of eye contact. Wonderful dates. Love. Romance. Some funny dates. Hot affairs. Lovely relationships with fantastic men. A couple of horrible, but worthwhile evenings out that made for hilarious stories and life lessons. And lots and lots of fabulous sex.
In fact, I have had such a great experience dating at this phase of my life—no matter that compared with the last time I was single—in my early 20s—I am fatter, older, now have kids and a C-section scar, a chock-full schedule and a heart that has been busted up a half-dozen times.
When I realized I was having such a great time dating, I wanted to share what I'd learned with all the moms who are right where I was a few years ago.
That is why I created this video course:
Get Back Into Dating Again for Single Moms
This six-part video course will give you step-by-step tasks to help you resolve the fears and concerns holding you back from dating, get your sexy back, meet quality men and get on a great, quality first date to launch your new dating career!
In How to Get Back Into Dating Again for Single Moms, you will learn through:
- 6 video sessions, where I share my first-hand experiences, insights and tips
- Corresponding interactive worksheets
1. Abolish Negative Dating Mindsets
Before you set out into the glorious world of dating and men, I help you face and work through the fears and negative mental scripts that you may not even know you have—but keep single moms stuck and single. With a few easy exercises, you can figure out where you are now, and unstuck yourself for good.
2. Figure Out What You Want – And Get It!
“I'd like to date, but I don't know what I'm looking for!”
Is this you?
I help you set dating goals you didn't think existed – and create an actionable, realistic plan for making it happen (and more!).
P.S. I also give you permission to change your goals at any time. Fun, right?
3. Get Your Sexy Back, Mama!
Imagine going through you day feeling like a gorgeous, desirable woman. Every man you meet is a possible date — or lover. Everywhere you go, men pay attention to you, and women wonder what it is about you that makes you so sexy.
Sounds awesome, right?
I give you wonderful, fun and sexy homework to help you get your groove back, and wield your newly discovered glorious, fun mojo to connect with men, yourself — and the universe!
4. Where Are The Good Men?
Don't listen to your grumpy friends and cynical relatives. There are really great men out there — smart, kind and successful men looking to connect with amazing women. Women like you! I am going to help you find that really nice guy for your perfect first dating-again date. You will learn how to ask friends to set you up on blind dates, explore online dating, and flirt with men at cafes, the train, or playground!
But most important: I will tell you something about dates that very few people know about.
5. Get Ready For That First Date!
What to wear? Who asks who? Where do you meet — or does he pick you up? Don't worry! I answer all these questions, and more. (Remember: This is fun!)
6. First Date Postmortem – What's Next?
You did it! FIRST DATE ACCOMPLISHED! Now what? Here I give you step-by-step text scripts on how to handle your next move, whether you want to see him again—or don't. And next steps for waltzing out into your newfound dating life.
Porn Guide for Smart Women
I don't watch porn because it's all gross, right? WRONG! I dug deep (no pun intended), did some late-night research and found the smartest, sexiest porn created for thinking, sensual women. You're welcome.
Guide to Dating Sites for Single Moms
Tinder? OKCupid? Zoost? Match? eHarmony? Plus-Sized Farmers Connect? I break down more than of the most popluar 12 sites, and figure which will be a win for you.
Online Dating for Single Moms: Profile + Flirting
I can't say enough about online dating. It's a healthy, fun and incredibly time- and cost-efficient way to meet quality men. Perfect for busy single moms! In this guide, I give you the nuts and bolts of creating a profile that will get clicks and messages, the 101 of communicating with dudes online, and how to navigate the winks, likes and messages that can make a new online dater's pretty head spin.
Don't just take my word for it.
If you follow my blog, WealthySingleMommy, or my podcast Like a Mother with Emma Johnson, you know that hundreds of thousands of hundreds of thousands of professional, single moms follow me. I take very seriously my work serving single mothers — and the media notices.
As a longtime journalist and single mom blogger, I have appeared in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, NPR, CNN, Headline News, Glamour, Woman's Day, CNBC, xoJane, and dozens of other outlets.
Recently, the New York Observer named me to its “9 New Yorkers You Must Date Now.”
Here is a full-page profile the New York Post wrote about me (love that pic of my son!)
So many single moms have learned from my dating advice:
“After 2.5 years I realized I'm also a woman and not just a mom. This is just after the first video. Just thought I'd share how much impact this is having on me.”
— Betina, 38, Chicago single mom
“Emma, I just watched your course videos and they are great! I got divorced in 2013 and have been dating, so I am not exactly your typical client/audience. Still – I learned a lot, and I very much appreciate your insight and advice. You were also funny, so there's that, too. When are you launching your next course? I can't wait!”
— Elsa, 40, Mississippi
“A 25-year-old with the face and body of a super model would be jealous of Emma's romantic life. Her advice changed my attitude about dating and enjoy men again!”
— Katherine, 42, Texas single mom
“After becoming a single mom I went for a really long time without dating. I was so scared of being hurt again. Then I started following Emma's blog and podcasts, and one of the things she tells women is that at some point they have to start dating again. I didn't like hearing that! I thought I'd never be able to trust men. But I did take her advice, and now I'm dating a kind, wonderful, gentle man. To all the women out there — you are not just mothers – but also beautiful, attractive women! Thank you Emma for your great advice!”
— Karen, 35, Denmark
“I'm jealous of your dating life.”
— Blake , my gorgeous 32-year-old gay videographer
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